Ummm, maybe another stupid question!

[Nina~ 431]

I read that whole blog, and all I have to say is that Julian and Alex are both DBs playing a game where this poor Melissa is stuck in the middle. He sh!ts on her, lets his friend sh!t on her (which is even more deplorable), and expects his money and 'cute accent' to make up for it. Thusfar, it has worked...however, I hope one of these days, Melissa gets tired of being treated like a pawn and finds someone who really deserves her.

Julian, you sir, are a b@stard.

You are so right. Seriously, what kind of man would allow a friend to treat his girl that way. Julian, you need to grow a pair and learn to be a man.

[JulianMelissa 52]

I bet he refused to answer her calls till she took that post down, any takers?

I'll take it. How much would you like to send to me? Certified post please, I'd hate for it to be lost in the post.

Oh you speak Palin quite plainly. Especially that bit where you sugar-coat something to suit your own agenda.

And what agenda would that be? The agenda where I attack a couple who is just trying to get through this process? Oh sorry, that's *your* agenda.

Julian, you sir, are a b@stard.

And yet too much of a gentleman to return the insult to a lady. Another one of my many failings I suppose.

[Fandango 1,439]

I'll take it. How much would you like to send to me? Certified post please, I'd hate for it to be lost in the post.

And what agenda would that be? The agenda where I attack a couple who is just trying to get through this process? Oh sorry, that's *your* agenda.

And yet too much of a gentleman to return the insult to a lady. Another one of my many failings I suppose.

Be a gentleman to your FUTURE WIFE to protect her from your b@stard friends who emotionally torment her. I'm not even going to address the cocaine/hooker issue cos Lord knows how you spun that one.

Who cares about insulting me? You let the world sh!t on the woman you claim to love and want to spend the rest of your life with.

Priorities, man!

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

And what agenda would that be? The agenda where I attack a couple who is just trying to get through this process? Oh sorry, that's *your* agenda.

Believe me, mate, this has nothing to do with your 'couplehood'.

Correct me if I am wrong, but as I recall your manner of introducing yourself and your 'couplehood' to this forum was to share with us how your fiance was to stupid to follow your directions of how to spend your money?

You give slimey git a whole new meaning.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

Damn, I have to go to lunch now. This is perhaps the only time on VJ I have been tempted to deploy the popcorn smiley. Please continue in your efforts to lay low this swine in my absence.

Trust me, Julian, I know where your fiancee lives and I am not letting this drop. This is personal.

[Fandango 1,439]

If this gets locked, I'm taking it over to Melissa's blog. +1 this post if you're with me.

[JulianMelissa 52]

Be a gentleman to your FUTURE WIFE to protect her from your b@stard friends who emotionally torment her. I'm not even going to address the cocaine/hooker issue cos Lord knows how you spun that one.

Who cares about insulting me? You let the world sh!t on the woman you claim to love and want to spend the rest of your life with.

Priorities, man!

You know nothing about me, nothing about my friends, and nothing about my relationship. We all have skeletons, but I've been drug free for years, not to mention monogamous in my relationship with my fiancee. The little gossipy tidbit of information you think you have was a practical joke that got out of hand, and yes it was in bad taste. Had I known about it, I'd have stopped it. Hate me if it makes you feel better, but this is all much ado about nothing and has been cleared up between the people who matter.

Elmcitymaven, it's a shame Melissa doesn't have better taste in who she chooses to befriend, but if you have any sense of fair play at all, then you will verify what I'm saying and apologise.

[TracyTN 237]

If this gets locked, I'm taking it over to Melissa's blog. +1 this post if you're with me.

Too bad she took the offending blog post down. But I'm game for whatever. No one's buying his BS but poor Melissa.

Edited May 26, 2010 by TracyTN

[Fandango 1,439]

You know nothing about me, nothing about my friends, and nothing about my relationship. We all have skeletons, but I've been drug free for years, not to mention monogamous in my relationship with my fiancee. The little gossipy tidbit of information you think you have was a practical joke that got out of hand, and yes it was in bad taste. Had I known about it, I'd have stopped it. Hate me if it makes you feel better, but this is all much ado about nothing and has been cleared up between the people who matter.

Elmcitymaven, it's a shame Melissa doesn't have better taste in who she chooses to befriend, but if you have any sense of fair play at all, then you will verify what I'm saying and apologise.

I know what Melissa posted, which is her perspective...which is laid out in no uncertain detail. I don't need to know about you from you, because if your fiancee can explain situation after situation of how you allow some sanctimonious azzhole like Alex harass her, then that's all I need to know about you. The fact that YOU haven't put a stop to it by now tells me more than I need to know....let alone how you have conducted yourself on this board. You can take your money and tiaras and cars and shove them, because as far as I'm concerned, you are like a golden bucket....one that she will yet one day spit blood and tears into.

I said I wasn't going to address the coke/hooker issue. What I did address cannot be 'spun'.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

You know nothing about me, nothing about my friends, and nothing about my relationship. We all have skeletons, but I've been drug free for years, not to mention monogamous in my relationship with my fiancee. The little gossipy tidbit of information you think you have was a practical joke that got out of hand, and yes it was in bad taste. Had I known about it, I'd have stopped it. Hate me if it makes you feel better, but this is all much ado about nothing and has been cleared up between the people who matter.

Elmcitymaven, it's a shame Melissa doesn't have better taste in who she chooses to befriend, but if you have any sense of fair play at all, then you will verify what I'm saying and apologise.

Julian, you know what? I will give you ONE thing. Melissa told me that she was shocked because she believed that you have always been monogamous with her and I tend to believe her, at least in view of your past. I am the last person to comment on one's own poor life choices since I made plenty when I was your age (thank goodness the UK immigration system doesn't require you to disclose youthful pharmaceutical peccadilloes), but I just can't believe this was a "practical joke" -- which one of your poorly chosen female friends, then, was willing to offer her bare ####### up in the name of a "joke"? I'd like to think that I am a better friend to Melissa than that woman is to you -- at least I have some sense of discretion.

Edit: to amend some appalling grammar and fix the context of something.

Edited May 26, 2010 by elmcitymaven

[JulianMelissa 52]

See my private message please, elmcitymaven.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

See my private message please, elmcitymaven.

Oh. I see. Thank you for that, Julian.

Edit: to insert missing rolling eyes smilie.

Edited May 26, 2010 by elmcitymaven

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

You know nothing about me, nothing about my friends, and nothing about my relationship. We all have skeletons, but I've been drug free for years, not to mention monogamous in my relationship with my fiancee. The little gossipy tidbit of information you think you have was a practical joke that got out of hand, and yes it was in bad taste. Had I known about it, I'd have stopped it. Hate me if it makes you feel better, but this is all much ado about nothing and has been cleared up between the people who matter.

Elmcitymaven, it's a shame Melissa doesn't have better taste in who she chooses to befriend, but if you have any sense of fair play at all, then you will verify what I'm saying and apologise.

Along with telling her what she should drive and what her wedding colors should be, you also want to tell her who her friends should be.

Sanctimonious much?

[Nina~ 431]

Along with telling her what she should drive and what her wedding colors should be, you also want to tell her who her friends should be.

Sanctimonious much?

When Alex tells him dump Melissa, it is all jolly good and just a "misunderstanding". But god forbid if Melissa's friend does the same!

[JulianMelissa 52]

The original car was chosen by us both and I've made no demands on wedding colours. Speaking of sanctimonious, I hope the irony doesn't escape you.