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Some would argue that a couple who do not have children are MORE committed to eachother as they do not need a child to tie them together. Their mutual love, respect and commitment does that. SOME would argue that children are far too often what keep a failed relationship together even when it is unhealthy for either partner AND especially bad for the child who is witnessing it as an example.

A child is a child - a person on to itself. It is not an excuse, a meal ticket or a magic pill that can fix or cement a relationship.

And last I checked it didn't even take two people to MAKE a baby...they have clinics for that. It takes a very special person to look at a child and say "they are mine" based solely on love. Being an adoptive parent or step-parent is a laudeble thing...the only 'something' extra you may share that dwar49 doesn't is a chromosome or two...

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Some would argue that a couple who do not have children are MORE committed to eachother as they do not need a child to tie them together. Their mutual love, respect and commitment does that. SOME would argue that children are far too often what keep a failed relationship together even when it is unhealthy for either partner AND especially bad for the child who is witnessing it as an example.

A child is a child - a person on to itself. It is not an excuse, a meal ticket or a magic pill that can fix or cement a relationship.

And last I checked it didn't even take two people to MAKE a baby...they have clinics for that. It takes a very special person to look at a child and say "they are mine" based solely on love. Being an adoptive parent or step-parent is a laudeble thing...the only 'something' extra you may share that dwar49 doesn't is a chromosome or two...

Amen!!!

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June 05 Lisa and I fall in love

15 Mar 06 I-129F received at CSC NOA1

5 Aug 06 NOA2 after 143 days in CSC purgatory

20 Oct 06 Interview Date

16 Feb 07 Denial Letter received

12 Mar 07 Motion to reconsider submitted

10 Sep 07 Motion to Reconsider denied

9 May 08 Lisa and Married in United Kingdom

23 May 08 I-130 filed

Oct 08 NOA-2 received

May 7 09 Lisa's Interview I 601 filed

29 Jul 09 I-601 waiver approved

18 Aug 09 Passport to London Embassy

20 Aug 09 Tickets purchased for 10 Sep 09

WE HAVE FINALLY WON, OUR LONG AND HARD JOURNEY IS COMPLETE!!!!!!

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And then she jokes about being HIV positive.....

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=27167

Wow, just wow. I honestly wish you good luck, from the bottom of my heart, not with getting the Visa, but with life.

AOS

01-29-07 - marriage

02-07-07 - AOS package mailed to Chicago

02-09-07 - AOS package delivered

02-13-07 - NOA1 date

02-21-07 - Biometrics letter

02-24-07 - NOA1 received

03-01-07 - Biometrics taken

03-15-07 - Transferred to The Sucky/Slow Center (TSC)... to "speed up" processing.

03-17-07 - Transferred notice e-mail

03-20-07 - Received TSC transfer letter

03-21-07 - application pending at TSC e-mail.

05-14-07 - Misinfopass appt. COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME.

06-05-07 - I-131 e-filed

06-11-07 - AP NOA1

07-09-07 - Received weird looking letter for AP, but online status hasn't changed

Last Touch - AOS 3/24, AP 7/03

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And then she jokes about being HIV positive.....

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=27167

Wow, just wow. I honestly wish you good luck, from the bottom of my heart, not with getting the Visa, but with life.

You would think anyone who comes to VJ has enough drama in their life thanks to this process...who needs to invent it.

The issues she's joking about are ones people face everyday....they aren't something they can laugh off.

And so he did what countless punk-rock songs had told him to do so many times before: he lived his life

10/07/2006 WEDDING DAY!

11/14/2006 AOS packet made it to 'the box' after being overnighted.

12/02/2006 Paul had biometrics

12/14/2006 AOS Forwarded to CSC AND AP Application approved.

01/17/2007 First touch of 2007 at CSC

01/20/2007 Touched AGAIN (also the 18th) come on...

February: Oops, RFE for a REGISTERED marriage certificate. Oops! Overnighted it.

02/28/2007 Paul gets email letting us know his GREENCARD is on it's way! It's done...for now!

03/09/2007 Paul's greencard arrives. And breathe...

We began with mailing the I-129 in on February 27, 2006 so the whole process took us approx. one year.

Good luck out there!

See PCRADDY for our official timeline.

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