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kerewin21   2

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I seriously cannot take this anymore. Everything seemed to be going so great; it took us over a month to actually get the RFE resent, then we finally managed to get the information we needed from our cosponsor to answer the RFE we got, sent it in, got transferred to CSC, and now... ANOTHER one!!!

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This time it's for the WHOLE shebang again. Last time it was just most recent tax returns. This time it's for the whole I-864 again. For those of you who weren't around the last time, it took us 2 months of phone calls, emails, and home visits to get that form filled out the first time. And that was when we were living only an hour away from him. Now we live 4 hours away and I have no idea how we're going to do it.

I've asked my parents several times to cosponsor us, I've asked my grandfather, I've asked my brother and sister, I've asked all of my friends who have jobs, and all have said no. His cousin was our only hope, and now we have to start all over again at a serious disadvantage. For the last RFE it took us over a month to get the tax return that we needed from him, and he was clearly pissed off at us, and my husband is so pissed off at him that he can't even stand to talk to him anymore.

We have until October 24th to come up with something. I'm thinking about sending in an I-864 just for me, with my current employment information (because I am finally working), and then waiting for the RFE for tax returns (I don't have tax returns from 2005 because I was in school). By the time the response for that RFE is due, I should be able to have my 2006 tax returns to send in, which will show enough income to qualify. But I'm worried that they'll think I haven't complied with their instructions and they'll just deny us.

I am seriously at my wit's end. On top of this I'm working 90 hours a week.

I know I'm kind of in a hopeless situation at this point, and I don't think that there's anything that can help me, but I just had to vent.

I miss you guys, I wish I had time for VJ, but my schedule doesn't let me do any more than peek in every once in a while.

Congratulations to all who have had recent good news!

Sharon

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October 13, 2005: VISA IN HAND!!!

November 15, 2005 - Arrival at JFK!!!

January 28, 2006 - WEDDING!!!

February 27, 2006 - Sent in AOS

June 23, 2006 - AP approved

June 29, 2006 - EAD approved

June 29, 2006 - Transferred to CSC

October 2006 - 2 year green card received!

July 15, 2008 - Sent in I-751

July 22, 2008 - I-751 NOA

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jordanianprincess Experienced

jordanianprincess   0

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wow, I'm so sorry your going through all this Sharon. (F) Hang in there, hopefully one day we can all look back on these expericances and laugh. :luv:

~jordanian_princess~

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Sharon, don't give up, everything happens for a reason. Resolve will come your way. It may take some time, and some thought, but I bet you will come up with something. I am wishing you the best and good luck to you...

~Stacey

1/12/06 Mail I-129f express mail

1/13/06 TSC rec'd

1/23/06 NOA1 from CSC

1/27/06 - Check cleared

7/10/06 - NOA2

7/14/06- rec'd @ NVC

8/14/06- NVC sent petition to Consulate

8/17/06 - Korean Consulate rec'd Petition

8/23/06 - rec'd packet 3 from Consulate

8/25/06 - sent packet 3 back to Consulate

8/27/06 - got confirmation email from Consulate, they rec'd packet three

8/27/06 - requested interview date via Consulate internet site.

9/1/06 - Checked internet site for interveiw date, it was there

9/25/06 - Interview date - APPROVED

9/28/06 - Visa in Zaeems Hand - YEAHHHHH

1/6/07 - leaving for USA

1/20/07 - Wedding Date

1/20/07 - MARRIED!!!!!

2/10/07 - rec'd certified copy of marriage license

AOS

3/13/07 - AOS package rec'd at Chicago Lockbox

3/20/07 - Rec'd Social Security Card

3/21/07 - Checks Cashed and Case Status online

3/24/07 - NOA1 Rec'd for AOS and EAD

3/27/07 - rec'd Biometrics appt letter - scheduled for 4/20/07 @ 11:00am

4/02/07 - "touched"

4/20/07 - had biometrics appt.

4/21/07 - rec'd letter stating case was transferred to CSC

5/22/07 - rec'd Case Pending at CSC email

6/25/07 - EAD card production ordered

7/7/07 - EAD "touched"

7/7/07 - AOS "touched"

8-6-07 - Rec'd EAD Card in the Mail

5-20-08 - AOS INTERVIEW - APPROVED - PASSPORT STAMPED

7-2-10 - Received 10 year green card in mail

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Jenn! Grand Master

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Sharon,

This sucks! I can't believe they would RFE you twice for basically the same thing. And I know what a hard time you had last time. I'll make sure that Wadi gives Majid a call. I'm sure he's beside himself.

Take care! (F)

Jenn

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noura Experienced

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Sharon, I'm sorry to hear you are going thru this... I wish you some peace and resolve soon. I hope that the way is revealed quickly and you can move on from here. All the best to you... (F)

Noura

Met briefly in Baton Rouge, LA Nov. 2003 - not available :(

Met again in Baton Rouge, LA March 25, 2005 - 2 souls feel as 1

Sept 17-Oct 3, 2005 Noura goes to Morocco to meet family & friends of Said (informally engaged)

Daily phonecalls, discover internet chatting w/ video cam - OMG!!!

March 25-April 14, 2006 Noura's 2nd trip to Morocco - formal engagement w/ family

April 24, 2006- mailed in K1 Visa package - TSC

Oct 5, 2006 - Interview SUCCESS

Oct 12, 2006 - Called to pick up visa tomorrow!

Oct. 16, 2006 VISA IN HAND!

Dec. 24, 2006 - Said arrives in NOLA, just in time for the holidaze!

Dec. 31, 2006 - OUR WEDDING!!! Ringing in a New Year as husband & wife!

Jan 8, 2007 - applied for SSN

Jan 15, 2007 - recieved SSN

Feb 6, 2007 - checks cashed for AOS/EAD/AP - YAY!

Feb 8, 2007 - NOA1 on AOS/EAD/AP

Feb 14, 07 - touched EAD/AP

March 8, 07 - Biometrics appt in NOLA

April 17, 07 - AP approved

April 19, 07 - EAD approved

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UmmSqueakster Experienced

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The thing that baffles me is that he lives here, you're supporting him, bah.

If you send in your current paystubs and a letter from your employer saying how much money you make as the sole sponsor, maybe that will work this time around inshaAllah ta'ala

10/14/05 - married AbuS in the US lovehusband.gif

02/23/08 - Filed for removal of conditions.

Sometime in 2008 - Received 10 year GC. Almost done with USCIS for life inshaAllah! Huzzah!

12/07/08 - Adopted the fuzzy feline love of my life, my Squeaky baby th_catcrazy.gif

02/23/09 - Apply for citizenship

06/15/09 - Citizenship interview

07/15/09 - Citizenship ceremony. Alhamdulilah, the US now has another american muslim!

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This is ridiculous and im so mad for you Sharon.

I remember all the drama with the cousin last time and its just so irritating that you have to figure it out again.

What makes me more mad is that hes here and doing fine...you guys don't need a co-sponsor in reality..its just the time when you were in school.

RRR....im thinking of you thats all...im sure your going to come to a solution soon..your a resourceful rockstar it will work out.

peace,

Sarah

Sarah and Otman

Naturalization interview: August 25th

Oath Ceremony: September 17th!!! woo hoo.

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Sharon, so sorry to hear this. Hang in there. You've come so far and you'll make it again. I wish you luck on your idea and will keep you in my prayers.

Doreen :D

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SupportingMoroccanLove/

6/14/03 Met Online

9/30/2003 He was denied a Tourist Visa

1/7/2004 Sent 1-129F-tried to prove hardship; many reasons

8/8/2004 Petition denied

After 214 Days of waiting

10/11/2004 Returned from Morocco even more in love.

11/15/2004 Mailed I-129F off to Nebraska

2/11/05 APPROVAL

2/14/05 EMAIL, OUR PETITION HAS BEEN APPROVED

86 Days what an awesome feeling

2/25/05 Email received from nvc, given case number

3/21/05 Email from consulate

b]INTERVIEW DATE 5/10/05[/b]

3/31/05 Fiance finally receives his packet from the consulate

4/12/05 He had medical exam

5/10/05 INTERVIEW WAS A SUCCESS

5/18/05 VISA IN HAND

Took 214 Days for a denial, but IN 205 days He will be HOME

6/10/05 Abdou arrives in America, what a happy day!

6/13/05 Applied for SSN

6/23/05 6 p.m. We were MARRIED; honeymoon in Gatlinburg

8/13/05 AOS and EAD paperwork mailed

8/25/05 NOAs in the mail!!! Yea!

11/25/05 - BIOMETRIC DATE

01/26/06 - AOS SUCCESSFUL INTERVIEW AND HE GETS HIS FIRST JOB AT FIRST JOB INTERVIEW

02/13/06 - GREEN CARD ARRIVED

4/22/06 - Driver's License!!

11/05/2007 Filed to Lift conditions[/color]

11/07/07 - NOA1 received

12/21/07 - Biometrics completed

04/08/08 - 10 YEAR CARD APPROVED

04/14/08 - CARD IN HAND !!!!!

11/3/08 - Filed for Citizenship

11/29/08 - Biometric Appointment

02/03/09 - Citizenship Interview, HE PASSED

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I am sure this is so discouraging, I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. My prayers will be with you.

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

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OMG -- they're asking for the same thing again ???? Unbelievable :angry:

I'm really sorry to hear you're having to go through this a second time. That cousin is just jerking you guys around. It's really sad that his own family would promise to help, then treat him like this.

Insha'allah someone in your family will have a change of heart and decide to step up to the plate.

Wishing you all the best in finding a solution soon -- you sure don't need this extra stress.

(F)

-MK

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al Nakba 1948-2015
66 years of forced exile and dispossession


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