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I really didn't want to add fuel to the fire, but please hold aside what your fiance did regarding the car purchase for a second and consider that you're complaining about her in a public forum to str

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I'll chime in here too, even tho I'm no longer a 'part' of the UK forum, heh. The man doesn't really do anything that annoys me. I'm serious! heh. It's kinda crazy. I think at a stretch, I'd have to

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It *really* is none of your business. Just like what you and Alla do is none of our business. I often find that people who have to tell stories like this on the internet really don't have much going o

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I'd never seen a footie match in my life until Saturday - I really enjoyed watching, and was GUTTED at the ball drop! That's not a REAL goal. :angry:

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This is more of a statement about my irritating situation rather than my SO.

My in-laws are experiencing marital problems, as in, my MIL has told me that the next few months are critical to whether or not she wants a divorce. :unsure: Today is a year since living here and I'm going out of my friggin' mind. We really want to move out ASAP but can't make the income requirements until I find a decent job (preferably in my field). AWKWARRRD!

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Good news and bad news - yes it gets better after the first tri-mester. Um, but then after the baby is born (or Cletus, if you prefer), you get to go thru this again - just with no cravings.
After birth, he'd be Ex-Cletus the Ex-Fetus, deserving of a new name. What about cravings for sleep? And, Valerie, I too smack the "tap-nap" button on the alarm at least 4 times morningly. Mrs. T-B. has largely stopped complaining about it. Incidentally, an ex-girlfriend of mine TWICE yanked the ringing alarm clock from the outlet and smashed it against the opposite wall, si man.

My very favo(u)rite all-time quote: "The alarm clock is merely a suggestion."

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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This is more of a statement about my irritating situation rather than my SO.

My in-laws are experiencing marital problems, as in, my MIL has told me that the next few months are critical to whether or not she wants a divorce. :unsure: Today is a year since living here and I'm going out of my friggin' mind. We really want to move out ASAP but can't make the income requirements until I find a decent job (preferably in my field). AWKWARRRD!

Yikes!

OK, mine seems petty after that, but still, here it is:

I can't let my husband anywhere near the bread loaf. He ALWAYS takes the crust from the front. When I explain to him that the front crust keeps the remaining bread fresh, so he should take an inside piece instead, I get a totally blank look and kind of an 'she's totally ####### retentive' eye-rolling. Sheesh! I like soft bread for sandwiches, not dried out #######!

Fine. I have control issues. Sue me.

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Well, there was a certain England goalkeeper during the 90's whose 02 WC was an absolute humiliating experience. Hate to have that last name :whistle:

This is more of a statement about my irritating situation rather than my SO.

My in-laws are experiencing marital problems, as in, my MIL has told me that the next few months are critical to whether or not she wants a divorce. :unsure: Today is a year since living here and I'm going out of my friggin' mind. We really want to move out ASAP but can't make the income requirements until I find a decent job (preferably in my field). AWKWARRRD!

Wow, that's a conversation that i'd never like to have with my in-laws :wacko:

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Double post. :blink:

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Post on Adjudicators's Field Manual re: AOS and Intent: My link
Wedding Date: 06/14/2009
POE at Pearson Airport - for a visit, did not intend to stay - 10/09/2009
Found VisaJourney and created an account - 10/19/2009

I-130 (approved as part of the CR-1 process):
Sent 10/01/2009
NOA1 10/07/2009
NOA2 02/10/2010

AOS:
NOA 05/14/2010
Interview - approved! 07/29/10 need to send in completed I-693 (doctor missed answering a couple of questions) - sent back same day
Green card received 08/20/10

ROC:
Sent 06/01/2012
Approved 02/27/2013

Green card received 05/08/2013

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ValerieA   350

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My very favo(u)rite all-time quote: "The alarm clock is merely a suggestion."

So is reality.

Post on Adjudicators's Field Manual re: AOS and Intent: My link
Wedding Date: 06/14/2009
POE at Pearson Airport - for a visit, did not intend to stay - 10/09/2009
Found VisaJourney and created an account - 10/19/2009

I-130 (approved as part of the CR-1 process):
Sent 10/01/2009
NOA1 10/07/2009
NOA2 02/10/2010

AOS:
NOA 05/14/2010
Interview - approved! 07/29/10 need to send in completed I-693 (doctor missed answering a couple of questions) - sent back same day
Green card received 08/20/10

ROC:
Sent 06/01/2012
Approved 02/27/2013

Green card received 05/08/2013

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Wow, that's a conversation that i'd never like to have with my in-laws :wacko:

Me and my MIL talk about all kinds of things so it wasn't unusual for her to tell me about that. But yeah, patience running thinner every day.

FYI - I have control issues with bread too. Mostly just not having cake-bread for breakfast. :)

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So is reality.
Reality is an alarm clock?

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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ValerieA   350

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Reality is an alarm clock?

Sigh. NO, it is a SUGGESTION. Keep up, TB. :bonk:

Although, your idea has merit. Reality tends to interrupt my peaceful dreaming.

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Post on Adjudicators's Field Manual re: AOS and Intent: My link
Wedding Date: 06/14/2009
POE at Pearson Airport - for a visit, did not intend to stay - 10/09/2009
Found VisaJourney and created an account - 10/19/2009

I-130 (approved as part of the CR-1 process):
Sent 10/01/2009
NOA1 10/07/2009
NOA2 02/10/2010

AOS:
NOA 05/14/2010
Interview - approved! 07/29/10 need to send in completed I-693 (doctor missed answering a couple of questions) - sent back same day
Green card received 08/20/10

ROC:
Sent 06/01/2012
Approved 02/27/2013

Green card received 05/08/2013

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elmcitymaven   9,712

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Well, there was a certain England goalkeeper during the 90's whose 02 WC was an absolute humiliating experience. Hate to have that last name :whistle:

Oh, I see.laughing.gif Yes, you'd know NOTHING about having such an embarrassing last name. :mellow:

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