LINABABE

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

LINABABE I MISS YOU!!! PLEASE COME BACK TO VJ!! In case no one has noticed, Linababe hasen't posted much lately. I have briefly spoken to her on yahoo and plan on ringing her later in the day when Ian and I have settled for the night lol. So much to do when trying to sell a house...

Anyway, after speaking to her briefly, she is a bit down. She could use some VJ Love I do believe.

WE LOVE YOU LINABABE and hope you will be back to form soon hun!!!

Laura and Ian xxxxxxx

[Ban Hammer 13,429]

hopefully she does come back. i've wondered what happened to her

[vartan 0]

Lina a picture to cheer you up

I removed it cause it was too big.. but it was really cute.

Edited August 5, 2006 by vartan

[babybunny 2]

come on back!

[Welshcookie 17]

hope you feel better soon Linababe.....

[*Robert* 2]

Hope you cheer up soon. The timelines around here are a complete mess now!!!

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

Hugs to ya Lina, hope you get to feeling better soon!

[MaryandMian 1]

Lina hope you return and we all are here for you since this rollercoaster ride is up one day and down the next. Take care and hugs.

Mary

[Jaylen Brit 0]

That's kinda what 'VJ lurve' looks like

All the best sweetie - chin up - this tunnel does have a light at the end of it!

[Linababe 0]

Thank you all with all you love and best wishes. I am sorry i havent been on much - unfrotunately Dave and I are having a few arguments and well he said he is taking a break (whatever that means) in the meanwhile I am stuck in Limboworld and it feels awful - I dont know if he wishes to continue with our visa or not and we are so close too. My only concern is that I havent sent my pack 3 back to london as we agreed we would wait till I get his docs in my hands and according to the NOA2 the expiration date is early september - I just hope they dont close our case:( I emailed them as to what the deadlines are for me to send pack 3 but havent heard nothing yet:( So basically main thing Dave and I argueing over silly little things and he is tired of it and I am too - it is so difficult I am a very emotional touchy person and the fact that I cant see him and hold him in person is killing me plus with the stress of everything else - He only says I worry too much:(

Oh well enough said - I havent been here because im getting upset by reading how everyones good news is - please dont get me wrong I am extremly happy for everyone but I just cant handle it right now sorry

Last night dave said he would talk to me today so we shall see if we can work this out - i hope we can we didnt spend 4 years together for nothing.

Thank you all once again:)

Lina (UKC)

[Tim and Bethanie 1]

I just feel as though you are going through the same stresses we all do. The closer we got to the finish the more we disagreed, something we very seldom have done. If you two could scrimp together the money and documents for this last round and see some progress again, it might take the edge off. Sitting in limbo with nothing going on is difficult to do, trust me I know. Do NOT let this journey tear you apart, you are the same people and couple you were this time a year ago, just a few barricades in your way. Look at it the way we did, what was taking place had nothing to do with us, but with an outside source in this case immigration. How close is he to getting the paperwork together you need? I would start with that, try to stay calm and tell him, we have x amount of days, how soon can you have _____ to me. Then line up what you need to do next. Get yourselves back on a schedule and plan plan plan. Most of all FOCUS on the end, rather than today and worry less!

Love ya!

Bethanie

[Melo 1]

Hang in there love... you can get through this... stress has that effect on people... makes you squabble with the ones you love most... hang in there and get through this... it will get better

[AFQuaid 18]

Linababe don't worry about your NOA2 expiring ours has already they just told us to make sure the US citzen writes a note reconfirming the intention to marry like in the beginning and you take that to the interview.

Feel better. You'll get through this.

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

Thank you all with all you love and best wishes. I am sorry i havent been on much - unfrotunately Dave and I are having a few arguments and well he said he is taking a break (whatever that means) in the meanwhile I am stuck in Limboworld and it feels awful - I dont know if he wishes to continue with our visa or not and we are so close too. My only concern is that I havent sent my pack 3 back to london as we agreed we would wait till I get his docs in my hands and according to the NOA2 the expiration date is early september - I just hope they dont close our case:( I emailed them as to what the deadlines are for me to send pack 3 but havent heard nothing yet:( So basically main thing Dave and I argueing over silly little things and he is tired of it and I am too - it is so difficult I am a very emotional touchy person and the fact that I cant see him and hold him in person is killing me plus with the stress of everything else - He only says I worry too much:(

Oh well enough said - I havent been here because im getting upset by reading how everyones good news is - please dont get me wrong I am extremly happy for everyone but I just cant handle it right now sorry

Last night dave said he would talk to me today so we shall see if we can work this out - i hope we can we didnt spend 4 years together for nothing.

Thank you all once again:)

Lina (UKC)

Oh LINA!!! It will be ok hun. Remember what I told you before on yahoo and on the phone. You need to focus on the positive hun and just remember that stress is part of the whole VJ process...what matters is how you deal with it. Don't let the stress factor win and come between you and Dave. Ian and I aren't that far from you and you know that we will stop over anytime that we can. We may be busy as of late and I may not come on yahoo much anymore, but that doesn't mean I am not still here....

So glad to see you post again tho...get this sorted hun and GET THAT VISA!!!!

Talk to you soon Lina...that's a promise..

LJ

[Fandango 1,439]

Lina, I hope you two find your way through all this stress. We all have felt it too and know exactly where you're coming from. Sometimes you want to rip your hair out and just be all $%$#@^@#$%^@^$&^&@!!!

Hopefully, the conversation today will be a good one & he can see why you're both going thru this #######...to be TOGETHER FOREVER! Sometimes it's hard to see past the day to day visa chit to see that. Maybe you should tell him to come on vj & read how what he's feeling is perfectly normal?

If you need to chat or anything, pm me anytime...

Edited August 6, 2006 by LisaD