Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

nope chiney i knew they had same name i always just thought it was such a cool coincidence that our sons had exact same names

i didnt want to name my oldest son tyrone after his dad, but he wanted it so i went with it and then when second kid came along i picked tyler

Lol an my son's dad chose Tyrone and I picked Tyler for the baby!

[JaHoney 3]

alright yall, hope everyone has a good day im off to visit yet one more person who doesnt know what planet he is on..

Our conversation will go like this:

Me: Hi David, how are you?

Him: I am innocent of rape and murder

Me: ok david, i know, no one is accusing you.

Him: im just saying you mental health professionals are stupid ( he will then summarily fart or pick his nose)

Me: so David how are things going for you?

Him: Ive decided not to take my meds anymore, instead i want to take herbs,like kava kava, cause you MF's are trying to poison me...

ME: ( sigh)

Y'ALL SEE WHERE THIS IS GOING RIGHT...lol

alright gotta run, yall take care

[finesse 3]

#######!! my son said we need to go to target to get some condoms so he can practice "whacking off" in one so when "he goes into heat, he'll know how to package his meat" "....this is what he said they learned in sex ed class today...

[JaHoney 3]

alright yall, hope everyone has a good day im off to visit yet one more person who doesnt know what planet he is on..

Our conversation will go like this:

Me: Hi David, how are you?

Him: I am innocent of rape and murder

Me: ok david, i know, no one is accusing you.

Him: im just saying you mental health professionals are stupid ( he will then summarily fart or pick his nose)

Me: so David how are things going for you?

Him: Ive decided not to take my meds anymore, instead i want to take herbs,like kava kava, cause you MF's are trying to poison me...

ME: ( sigh)

Y'ALL SEE WHERE THIS IS GOING RIGHT...lol

alright gotta run, yall take care

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Good afternoon ladies,

Just ate Taco bell for lunch and came from the doctor

Why i go in there like I didnt know I was preggo. :bonk: :bonk:

Said I wanted BC :bonk:

They gave me a pregnancy test first and I acted surprise. my doctor was cracking up. they took blood from both arms and a urine test for a UTI I will have full info about how far along I am tomorrow, and he gave me a referral to the baby doctor. but I already made that appt.

I love all of yall and truely hope and wish the best>

I have no time for negativity at all, so if someone says something negative I will not comment. i will just pray because in the situation I am in it doesnt even matter.

Me and my hubby have been together since 2006 so we are not new to this JA US marriage or relationship I am just new to this board.

a joined on or start date of VJ, dont mean that much to me

Thank you all for the respectful and disrespectful comments you have given me, I dont have to go back to part 3 to be able to learn from what you guys have given me MUCH LOVE and respect

and thanks for all the advice.

So Im chomping on this mexican pizza and it is good

JQ Smiley is Back :bonk:

[JaHoney 3]

sorry bout double post

Peace yall

[DedicatedWife 4]

#######!! my son said we need to go to target to get some condoms so he can practice "whacking off" in one so when "he goes into heat, he'll know how to package his meat" "....this is what he said they learned in sex ed class today...

#######! I am on the floor...dun fell out of my chair at my desk...are you serious?

[TAMH 2]

This is a public forum. I am a vet for all intents and purposes. And, for however many years I 've been on here, I've shared the good the bad and the ugly. Some days I talk a lot and some days I don't give a ####### about what anyone says on here. It's not any of you though. That's all on me.

The statement that this board has changed has come up over and over. Of course, it's changed. Who said it???? Someone wise yesterday...Jamerican?....it evolves with each batch of newcomers and who decides to stay and who decides to go. And, it depends on what is shared. We still share the same ups and downs. We still yell at each other from time to time. We still love and we still support. The one glaring change (well besides Nat's coupon talk....smile) is the sex talk. Personally, I can take both Nat and the sex talk only so much. And, honestly, I am questioning my faith right now and think all the God talk is a bunch of #######. At the same time, I wish I believed as deeply. You see it?

But.........if someone else enjoys it, who am I to say a damn thing. I have the option to skim over anything I want and to comment on anything I want. If I am not interested that day, I skim. If I am, I participate. This board does not live or die on my interests or comments. So, who the hell cares. Talk about what you want to talk about. If no one comments at all, maybe you should let it go. If there are comments, then, you are keeping this forum alive and it's what it was meant to be.

When someone needs visa help, we'll go back to helping them. When they don't, we will entertain ourselves in other ways.

I don't think people completely ignore or skip over talk they don't agree with. I've said many things on here over the years and even if no public comments are made, I get PMs to chat. This board still serves it's purpose. I try to be as diplomatic as possible, even when I've seen it all before or have my doubts. If I can't be, I will PM you with my concerns. You know who you are on here. If you tell me to STFU or move along, so what? I tried. I don't feel the need to be rude to anyone cause I don't see the purpose in it. If you are nice to me, I'll do my damndest to be nice to you.

Can't say I agree with every word that is written here. The tone bugs me sometimes. The words bug me a lot....as evidenced yesterday. But, I can say I don't like how or what you said, without attacking you. I have never liked any of the attacks on here. If you don't like someone on here, please keep your comments clearly on the up and up. Say what you want to say; but leave the biting comments out of it. You aren't helping anyone on here by cutting down someone. Your comments that are truly helpful and insightful are actually lost when you do.

You all could me and I'd probably never leave. I have been through much that I hope none of you ever go through. And life is as tough right now as it's ever been for me. I have a lot to say and some helpful advice. When it's needed, I will throw it out there. When a referee is needed, I will try my best. And, when I'm just plain bored, I expect you all to entertain me.

STOP PICKING ON PEOPLE YOU DON'T LIKE.

STOP TAKING EVERY DAMN THING SO PERSONAL.

IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY, SAY IT......RESPECTFULLY.

Those are the 3 rules I live by. Try to anyhow.

There is no place else out there like this board.....shared adventures is what I like to call it. Whether good or bad, we have all been there, done that, going to do that, wishing we'd never done that, etc. It's where we were meant to be. And, I know personally, I need all of you goofballs.

Well said

anytime him seh him wah front, tell him YES!!!

mek him know seh weh good fi di goose good fi di gander tuh!

Comment on his efforts, he cleaned up, mention it!

Expect him to be a man.

Let him do things for you! You don't have to carry the load yourself now, SHARE the load.

Say something nice to him everyday.

Kiss and hug him goodnight EVERY NIGHT. Nuh matta if yuh cussing.

Honor him, Speak to him with respect, even if you're angry. (Yes, mi slip pan dis NUFF times!)

Trust him with responsibility.

Ask (and value) his opinion.

Don't speak ill or his family or friends. (even if dem deserve it)

Give him breathing space.

Take time for yourself, even if you think you don't need it.

Let him make his own mistakes without nagging or 'I told you so'.

Keep your personal business personal unless he's fine with you talking about it to other people.

Good advice, although mi no so sure bout the friend and family part. I should be able to voice my opinions but at the same time understand that I have to do so respectfully ,and that there's a certain line that should not be crossed.

Afternoon ladies,

Just wanted to say hello, i see JAENG babies are still cuter than ever and they have the exact same names as my two sons, not that anyone cares but just means we got good taste....LOL

Ok one question and no one laugh at me, what does anytime him seh him wah front, mean???/

Im back to work and its kicking my tail, everyone and there issues are waiting for me, ah so the life of a social worker goes....

I decided today to apply for a new position within the company for i smack someone, as a recipient rights rep, which basically means i get to listen to people complain all day, but it pays more money and i get my own office...LOL

something is telling me to go for it so im leaving it in GOD's hands, if he means for me to have this job then its already written...LOL

Hope everyone is well !!!

:rofl: :rofl: Honey sweetie, I couldn't help myself. I'm claiming that position for you. Prayers going up.

[1luv 1]

u making me hungry JQ

[DedicatedWife 4]

Good afternoon ladies,

Just ate Taco bell for lunch and came from the doctor

Why i go in there like I didnt know I was preggo. :bonk: :bonk:

Said I wanted BC :bonk:

They gave me a pregnancy test first and I acted surprise. my doctor was cracking up. they took blood from both arms and a urine test for a UTI I will have full info about how far along I am tomorrow, and he gave me a referral to the baby doctor. but I already made that appt.

I love all of yall and truely hope and wish the best>

I have no time for negativity at all, so if someone says something negative I will not comment. i will just pray because in the situation I am in it doesnt even matter.

Me and my hubby have been together since 2006 so we are not new to this JA US marriage or relationship I am just new to this board.

a joined on or start date of VJ, dont mean that much to me

Thank you all for the respectful and disrespectful comments you have given me, I dont have to go back to part 3 to be able to learn from what you guys have given me MUCH LOVE and respect

and thanks for all the advice.

So Im chomping on this mexican pizza and it is good

JQ Smiley is Back :bonk:

Are we gon be able to handle a little mini- JQ Smiley Boom?

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

u making me hungry JQ

i know right!!!!! it was good Its already GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Are we gon be able to handle a little mini- JQ Smiley Boom?

Aww Dens

[DedicatedWife 4]

Well said

Good advice, although mi no so sure bout the friend and family part. I should be able to voice my opinions but at the same time understand that I have to do so respectfully ,and that there's a certain line that should not be crossed.

:rofl: :rofl: Honey sweetie, I couldn't help myself. I'm claiming that position for you. Prayers going up.

Afternoon TAHM! Congrats on your biometrics appointment. You are on your way!

[bajankutie 4]

i saw something about taking an impediment to the interview what is that?

[DedicatedWife 4]

u making me hungry JQ

Me too! I want something good and fried for dinner!

One question, how many of you on here cook every night for your hubby/S.O.?

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

OK I GOTTA GO...PEACE U'LL NICE MEETING EVERYONE