Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[MRStee 19]

That is so funny you said that cause I saw my husband do that when I was in JA and I told him he crazy he needs to put it in the fridge and he said it will be good but I didn't eat anymore.

You guys are not alone, my hubby too

Morning all!!! Hope every1 is doing well. I took off 2day b/c hubby has road test later today.

Stay positive ladies!!!!!!!! Later

Wishing him lots of luck.. Good to see you Mo

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

Good mornin gladies,

Today I got to the doctor to get the referral for the other doctor.

But my first baby doctor appt is next Wednesday

I woke up this morning with pain because my panties were in a frenzie last night

Im going to always say what I feel and thats that, I see everyone said something about a certain post but nothing on mine.

Fine, If you want to ignore me thats fine, but with that attack on Lady C and Ells yestreday, I would hope and love if someone would defend me also.

Like I said she knew he was a mess b4 he came and she asked for prayers but folks dont see thats, WHY because you come today andposts hurtful, even if its great advice like MRs P said you cant come off like that. saying she wrong cuz she wanna send him back that was her opinion at the time and we all have thought something at first that was crazy and then we rethink and make a calm statement.

I dont have time for attacks but remember the glass house and the stones.

I really like respect and not attacks and it was an attack because it was started some aint gone like this. Damn hello how are you doing today? If you got something thats might me good advice but harsh advice for me send me a PM so i can respond accordingly.

So if drama bring in all the drama filled folks yall lets not have any because they way the board has been for the last year has been wonderful

I dont make the rules of respect and caring for people but I do like to follow them

The End

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OMG I seen that JaP came in here yesterday Im going to PM her

oh yeah Good morning ladies.

Not sure which post of yours, most here know i don't read the long posts my eyes hurt, i have no drama, but i do consider myself fair and will stand by what is right...and for me i remember the "leash" post because it was said so many times

Congrats on hubby job Shanette!

Congrats on the babies to all as long as a no meeee

[jamerican 2]

oh and NAT....about the changing of the board (forgot about that)

Yes it is true the board has changed some....but that is to be expected because the longer people are on here the board has to evolve...it goes through stages. 1) New people come on to ask questions about the process... 2) people waiting for and getting interviews........ 3)SO's getting approved and arriving---or denied ....4) discussions of adjustment/life/family...

So as less new people come on who are just going through the process thus less "journey talk" will happen, and same can be said that there will be an increase about adjustments to the US as people go through these steps.

BUT... I was here since 2006 and although I don't have the best memory around....I can say...the board has not changed THAT MUCH!!! You(not you personally) have to understand that with every person who comes on here we bring different personal history and personality and although we may be on a similar journey we have come about it and will experience it in different ways.

I guess this post was more to sum up what happened in here yesterday. It bothers me to no end when people are rude. There is no excuse for that!!! This all started when someone didn't like what someone was saying and instead of posting an opinion using tact and common courtsey it was posted with pure venum! Then, others came on to defend the venumous post by stating that the board has changed and nobody wants to hear the truth and make excuses that the poster always talks like that and is meant in no harm!!! THAT IS BS!!! What that reminds me of is in the south when they say a slanderous statement..if they follow it up with ....."bless his heart" it is ok that they may have just called the person a low lying byatch of a hore but it is ok because of that last statement.....uh NO!

Let me also say that this board will not be the everything for everyone at all times and change does happen... I don't post a lot because maybe at the time I have no interest in the topic but that doesn't mean I will go run and bash it to others...I just SMH and move on and check back later when the topic has moved on....

Love Peace and Hair Grease...yall, stick a fork in me I am DONE, chat with yall lata

[LadyC 1]

Good mornin gladies,

Today I got to the doctor to get the referral for the other doctor.

But my first baby doctor appt is next Wednesday

I woke up this morning with pain because my panties were in a frenzie last night

Im going to always say what I feel and thats that, I see everyone said something about a certain post but nothing on mine.

Fine, If you want to ignore me thats fine, but with that attack on Lady C and Ells yestreday, I would hope and love if someone would defend me also.

Like I said she knew he was a mess b4 he came and she asked for prayers but folks dont see thats, WHY because you come today andposts hurtful, even if its great advice like MRs P said you cant come off like that. saying she wrong cuz she wanna send him back that was her opinion at the time and we all have thought something at first that was crazy and then we rethink and make a calm statement.

I dont have time for attacks but remember the glass house and the stones.

I really like respect and not attacks and it was an attack because it was started some aint gone like this. Damn hello how are you doing today? If you got something thats might me good advice but harsh advice for me send me a PM so i can respond accordingly.

So if drama bring in all the drama filled folks yall lets not have any because they way the board has been for the last year has been wonderful

I dont make the rules of respect and caring for people but I do like to follow them

The End

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OMG I seen that JaP came in here yesterday Im going to PM her

oh yeah Good morning ladies.

Hi JQ how is little baby BOOM doing today? Please dont get too work up remember you are preggers. I do like that you say whats on your mind and Im a frank person myself so I understand. I have not responded to anything else because I know me and if I open my big mouth I will loose it. I do agree with alot of what you said. If people are going to give advise it does not have to be nasty. ((HUGS)) DO ONTO OTHER AS YOU WOULD HAVE OTHERS DO ONTO YOU

[MRStee 19]

KJ, if I take your advice & get sick...

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Since several people have stated that the board has changed, it must have. But I wonder what is differet? What I've come to expect to see here: adjustment stories , advice & tips on the process, general gabbery about life happenings, Jermaine videos

To me, that's what I see here, except the process tips/advice part has gone down a bit, as have the Jermaine videos.

So what is the difference from "before"?

YOUR coupon talk! Okay Im just playing! Im not trying to be disrespectful

[Shemmy 4]

The only thing I see gone wrong with the thread is arguing. Other than that its an open forum where people with similar experiences share. I have met several couples in person so its a great place for me but to each his own. Nothing is supposed to stay the same because if it does, it means there is no growth!

People are not always going to agree on everything. Arguing is healthy sometimes, IMO. I've been on this board almost 7 years and have met dozens of couples and have become friends with dozens more. Unfortantely, most of their relationships have failed so I always try to share my experience as well as theirs.

We have more similaries than differneces on the board. Like Ells situation, trust and believe - her hubby lying habits will definitely not the first or last time it happened to a couple.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

where is the selector jaenglish?

sen mi a link to the latest reggae chunes...pleez

hubby act like he nuh like reggae music no mo he has taken a liking to wha mi son listen to...likkle wayne han alla dat

lol...mi wi sen yuh one likkle more!!! But ongle AFTA mi si some PICS!! chaaaaaaaaaa

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

5 years an yuh still living to tell bout it? kidding...seriously to, that is great! Even wid di RIGHT person, marraige a no easy ting...

wah mek yuh no siddung yep it is NOT easy not even for me who knew di man fi eva

[MRStee 19]

where is the selector jaenglish?

sen mi a link to the latest reggae chunes...pleez

hubby act like he nuh like reggae music no mo he has taken a liking to wha mi son listen to...likkle wayne han alla dat

Your son done americanized him now... no turning back

who's feeling sexy?

that's my line and i'm stickin to it!

meeeeeeeeeeee Im ALWAYS feeling sexy! Finesse

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Guys please watch this this will make you all laugh

I gotta go to the doctor

Thanks Lady C this body of mine have waited 11 years to get preggo again so its telling me no walk in the park for the next few months

Im in pain but I think its GAS

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

oh and NAT....about the changing of the board (forgot about that)

Yes it is true the board has changed some....but that is to be expected because the longer people are on here the board has to evolve...it goes through stages. 1) New people come on to ask questions about the process... 2) people waiting for and getting interviews........ 3)SO's getting approved and arriving---or denied ....4) discussions of adjustment/life/family...

So as less new people come on who are just going through the process thus less "journey talk" will happen, and same can be said that there will be an increase about adjustments to the US as people go through these steps.

BUT... I was here since 2006 and although I don't have the best memory around....I can say...the board has not changed THAT MUCH!!! You(not you personally) have to understand that with every person who comes on here we bring different personal history and personality and although we may be on a similar journey we have come about it and will experience it in different ways.

I guess this post was more to sum up what happened in here yesterday. It bothers me to no end when people are rude. There is no excuse for that!!! This all started when someone didn't like what someone was saying and instead of posting an opinion using tact and common courtsey it was posted with pure venum! Then, others came on to defend the venumous post by stating that the board has changed and nobody wants to hear the truth and make excuses that the poster always talks like that and is meant in no harm!!! THAT IS BS!!! What that reminds me of is in the south when they say a slanderous statement..if they follow it up with ....."bless his heart" it is ok that they may have just called the person a low lying byatch of a hore but it is ok because of that last statement.....uh NO!

Let me also say that this board will not be the everything for everyone at all times and change does happen... I don't post a lot because maybe at the time I have no interest in the topic but that doesn't mean I will go run and bash it to others...I just SMH and move on and check back later when the topic has moved on....

Love Peace and Hair Grease...yall, stick a fork in me I am DONE, chat with yall lata

Moi stop di nize and gwaan to massage smaddy back..oh and i do think the board has changed alot...but who cares...as long as mi no get offended mi good

People are not always going to agree on everything. Arguing is healthy sometimes, IMO. I've been on this board almost 7 years and have met dozens of couples and have become friends with dozens more. Unfortantely, most of their relationships have failed so I always try to share my experience as well as theirs.

We have more similaries than differneces on the board. Like Ells situation, trust and believe - her hubby lying habits will definitely not the first or last time it happened to a couple.

thats for sure!!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

who's feeling sexy?

that's my line and i'm stickin to it!

yuh nuh si weh dem SEXY PARTY deh get yuh?? yuh still nuh learn? A TRIPLET NEX!!!! :rofl:

[MRStee 19]

Good mornin gladies,

Today I got to the doctor to get the referral for the other doctor.

But my first baby doctor appt is next Wednesday

I woke up this morning with pain because my panties were in a frenzie last night

Im going to always say what I feel and thats that, I see everyone said something about a certain post but nothing on mine.

Fine, If you want to ignore me thats fine, but with that attack on Lady C and Ells yestreday, I would hope and love if someone would defend me also.

Like I said she knew he was a mess b4 he came and she asked for prayers but folks dont see thats, WHY because you come today andposts hurtful, even if its great advice like MRs P said you cant come off like that. saying she wrong cuz she wanna send him back that was her opinion at the time and we all have thought something at first that was crazy and then we rethink and make a calm statement.

I dont have time for attacks but remember the glass house and the stones.

I really like respect and not attacks and it was an attack because it was started some aint gone like this. Damn hello how are you doing today? If you got something thats might me good advice but harsh advice for me send me a PM so i can respond accordingly.

So if drama bring in all the drama filled folks yall lets not have any because they way the board has been for the last year has been wonderful

I dont make the rules of respect and caring for people but I do like to follow them

The End

__________________________________________________________________________________________

OMG I seen that JaP came in here yesterday Im going to PM her

oh yeah Good morning ladies.

Nicely said, just remember its not about taking sides or needing a response. Sometimes you just gotta say what you need to, to get it off your chest and just keep it moving. Some will like it, some won't.. Jay Z said "On to the next one"

[jamerican 2]

Moi stop di nize and gwaan to massage smaddy back..oh and i do think the board has changed alot...but who cares...as long as mi no get offended mi good

thats for sure!!

dats what mi finna go do!!! HEY, where u was when I needed you on Monday...A&PIII midterm I crashed!!! Mi cyant memba the damn ligaments in the damn foot...wha mi need ta kno dat???

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

oh and NAT....about the changing of the board (forgot about that)

Yes it is true the board has changed some....but that is to be expected because the longer people are on here the board has to evolve...it goes through stages. 1) New people come on to ask questions about the process... 2) people waiting for and getting interviews........ 3)SO's getting approved and arriving---or denied ....4) discussions of adjustment/life/family...

So as less new people come on who are just going through the process thus less "journey talk" will happen, and same can be said that there will be an increase about adjustments to the US as people go through these steps.

BUT... I was here since 2006 and although I don't have the best memory around....I can say...the board has not changed THAT MUCH!!! You(not you personally) have to understand that with every person who comes on here we bring different personal history and personality and although we may be on a similar journey we have come about it and will experience it in different ways.

I guess this post was more to sum up what happened in here yesterday. It bothers me to no end when people are rude. There is no excuse for that!!! This all started when someone didn't like what someone was saying and instead of posting an opinion using tact and common courtsey it was posted with pure venum! Then, others came on to defend the venumous post by stating that the board has changed and nobody wants to hear the truth and make excuses that the poster always talks like that and is meant in no harm!!! THAT IS BS!!! What that reminds me of is in the south when they say a slanderous statement..if they follow it up with ....."bless his heart" it is ok that they may have just called the person a low lying byatch of a hore but it is ok because of that last statement.....uh NO!

Let me also say that this board will not be the everything for everyone at all times and change does happen... I don't post a lot because maybe at the time I have no interest in the topic but that doesn't mean I will go run and bash it to others...I just SMH and move on and check back later when the topic has moved on....

Love Peace and Hair Grease...yall, stick a fork in me I am DONE, chat with yall lata

Guess you TOOK my words as laced with venom (word spelled so). Perhaps because you are so used to people tiptoeing around hemming and hawing.

So be it.

But that's MY style and if you nuh like it, keep stepping. Whether you find my topic offensive or not is really of no consequence to me, I stated it was an attack, you are free to pin whatever you like on me, good workout for your imagination!