Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

I for one admire your honesty that you bring to the board...even if everything you say is about how crappy your relationship is going...some people act as tho theirs is soooooooooooooo perfect, yeah right barforama...what you are dealing with sounds shytty but that's life..you win some and you lose some

As far as your marraige goes, I don't know if I admire your willingness to keep trying....or wanna kick your #### for puttin up with it for so long..

i guess only you know when you have had enough..

Amen to the tramp finesse :rofl:

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Hello all....just checking in and wanted to comment on a couple of things....

Yall know this my west coast sister and she will tell it like it is!!!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

NAT, Really???? hmmm where are all those VJ sis's that tell it like it is..

As of 2008, Atlanta is the thirty-third largest city in the United States...soooo .....somebody help me out here....and has the 3rd largest gay population.....

told you here she go

I have to go from work to get hubby but I will be back this afternoon

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

It was interesting...only a few people got there visa approved right away others had to return with more evidence...but all and all it went well..Just make sure you have everthing in order I had an acordian folder it helped a lot and make sure you walk with a pen...The ladies outside was very rude I guess as the son was very hot. lol I will do a more detailed review later today. I still here hoping his passport returns before I leave.

No what interesting is how my hubby got approved for his visa for a CR1 because we were married and 6 months later I went for my step daughters interview and they sent me back for more info and guess what they wanted, OUR MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE :bonk: :bonk:

[Dan-Dan 1]

Wa Gwaan Yardies,

I was wondering if anyone could help me find Igors List.... and How do I use it?

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

uh oh here come JQ time for me to go!

mi mak a joke.... lata!

Love you too Tee

Girl but yall know I gotta comment :yes: :yes: :yes:

Beacsue I put to much of my business on here for someone to be attacked I gottas say something in my girl defense because she aint even have to share her experiences with us. We all trying to get our step kids down here or a majority wouldnt mind and we need to know how to deal

Opinions are fine but no attacking I dont give a F^CK that aint right

Edited May 12, 2010 by JQ Smiley BOOM

[kjenkins86 5]

AMEN to that...Control that leash I will let you out a little and bring it back when I see it going to far..I love how Mary J blige sings never let another woman cook in your kitchen....My man have his female friends but they only talk over the phone as they are all long distance..besides he to busy with the kids to look woman...lol

No offense but oh really?

His excuses are exactly what you wrote in the 1st part, he doesn't want me to get mad (or hurt me) if he told the truth. I've asked him countless times, "when you tell me the truth, do I ever get mad?" and his answer is always "no". I don't know if he'll ever overcome chronic lying. This is what we are seeing right now...& I've given him a chance to redeem himself after we talked to the counselor & he repeated his behavior just a few weeks later so at this time, things are not looking so good. He gets one more chance, the 3rd time is the charm one way or another.

My hubby has the same problem and has the same excuse and over the years I've learned to ignore it, yes it hurts me to the core of my flipping heart but I can't see me being with someone else....So I understand what you're going through.

Awww, thanks Tee! I haven't been around much cause I've been going by the mantra my Mama taught me..."if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Since things have been a bit rough, I didn't want to come on here & bring my dark cloud with me. I can tell that I've done some of that by checking in & sharing my stuff. I think I'll have to go away until I can be a little brighter.

Your welcome with or without your drama, that is what we're all here for. To listen to good and bad things.

(((finesse))) yuh still the same... always asking the question on everybody's mind...

Mi Visa get denied because of some petty ish that should not keep family apart

But, a so di law set...

Goodluck

[ShaNette 4]

THANK YOU LORD!!!! MY HUBBY GOT A JOB!!!!!!!!!!! WHOOO HOOOOOO Praise the LORD!! This was truly an unexpected blessing.

Stats: Full-time, M-F above minimum wage!

Aww my gosh, I'm so happy

AND TODAY IS HIS BIRTHDAY!! WHAT A GREAT GIFT

[kjenkins86 5]

Oh and I forgot, our I-485 was "touched" Now that's progress

Who's the first?

Probabaly NYC....

I'm here just nervous and so is he. I have everything in order but it is still nervous.

Let me tell you a story that I never told anyone, the morning of my inerview I was so nervous I narely pissed myself, good thing I had on a panty shiled, mind you that was before the interview. During the interview the lady asked for G's passport and I gave her mine and she was cracking up coz she noticed how nervous I was. All that nervousness was in vain because it was EASY, just relax mama

[kjenkins86 5]

To GOD be the glory!!!!!!!!!!!

thats great mama what you say you wanna comment (yep and she said something about you slapping yo man!!!

Thats what pisses me off yall lurk in here all day as guest trying to see our business and then wanna come on here like everything is okey dokey with yall and not posting nothing that goes on wrong!!!!!!

Dont come on here and talk about what I do if you cant be a woman and say what goes on in your house. Yes this is a public forum and we are suppose to be grown women giving and taking advice from all.

For example Nat says she will not put no personal business on here, thats fine and I also dont see her posting no hurtful Azz comment about other peoples posting, straight up keep it real, I have said that alot of times, if you dont share DONT COMMENT

Thanks for remonding me, I had to go back so many pages I missed it. I also wasn't gonna give too much attention to people who don't even matter because how the hell you don't come on here in months or even years and just jump in and start bashing people about their kids and man.

Talking bout keeping their man on a leash and getting their kids in gear. For christ sake you have the freaking pastor's daughter doing blow jobs all around town and you don't know until you see her with a blister on her mouth at church. So does that make the pastor a unfit parent? Of course not, I know that example is that of a grown child but the point is that kids do WHAT they WANT and could care less about authority.

Same damn thing with men, they do what they want, when they want and that's why I'm not holding my head down when I say that G has cheated before we got married and I still decided to marry him because together we can work on it if HE chooses to change but no day will I try to put a leash on him coz he ain't no dog.

Ells, if you love yuh man tan wid him an nuh mek nuh bady tell yuh phockery fi lef him. Him will change if he want and he don't want to oh well.

LadyC if yuh waan sen back yuh step pickney then do it, a bring him suh yuh can sen him back.

have an opinion on MsTee getting accepted back in school, or KJ's tumor not be there.

OMG I know Im pregnant but Im only a little pregnant this is me and how I act. i think logical

You cant come on here after months and just comment on something because you had a bad day and you wanna take it out on the board. Thats not what this is here for. I dont care if yall Vets or what you are out of line. and I have gotten into it with some of yall before so its nothing to go again. :lol: :lol:

VERY WELL SAID!!!

THANK YOU LORD!!!! MY HUBBY GOT A JOB!!!!!!!!!!! WHOOO HOOOOOO Praise the LORD!! This was truly an unexpected blessing.

Stats: Full-time, M-F above minimum wage!

Aww my gosh, I'm so happy

AND TODAY IS HIS BIRTHDAY!! WHAT A GREAT GIFT

I told hubby when he gets a job he better work overtime one week straight so I could take a week off and chill because I am tired!! I'm mad as hell I'm working from pay check to pay check and still caan si mi way out but God is gonna send a shining star my way one day

Congrats mama!

[sus 70]

To GOD be the glory!!!!!!!!!!!

thats great mama what you say you wanna comment (yep and she said something about you slapping yo man!!!

Thats what pisses me off yall lurk in here all day as guest trying to see our business and then wanna come on here like everything is okey dokey with yall and not posting nothing that goes on wrong!!!!!!

Dont come on here and talk about what I do if you cant be a woman and say what goes on in your house. Yes this is a public forum and we are suppose to be grown women giving and taking advice from all.

For example Nat says she will not put no personal business on here, thats fine and I also dont see her posting no hurtful Azz comment about other peoples posting, straight up keep it real, I have said that alot of times, if you dont share DONT COMMENT

I haven't been posting on here in a while, for my own reasons - But I have to comment here - because this just disgusts me -

Do you think that this thread started when you joined? People don't share? Look at the title of the thread - see it says Part TWENTY SIX???? That means since when the yardies first started their own thread - after taking over many other threads and being booted to the regional forums (yes, some members have been here that long) they have chatted up that many threads that have been shut down and locked and had to start a new thread - and if you could go back before the forum was upgraded, you would see that the threads would run to 1000 or more pages before they got locked - The members who have been here have been through the good and the bad, the thick and the thin - the denied visas, the approvals, the births, the losses, the divorces, the women coming on here with the same man, the cheaters, the good men - Trust me, there hasn't been much that hasn't happened in here.

The women that came on here and posted today have been through it all - either personally or seen it happen to people that they care about. People might have ways to put things that others think are harsh, but they tell the truth with no punches - trust me, I have born the brunt of some of those posts = but when you step back and read the meaning behind the words, and remove your hurt feeling - you can understand the truth in what they are saying and that they are trying to help. It's responses like this that make people walk away from this site and not share - Because people don't appreciate the value of the years of experience in it - the fact that some members grew up in JA and know what the transition feels like, or they have been married 2,3, 4, 5 years and dealt with it all - or are the immigrant themselves and offer a different perspective.

Everyone has their own personal reasons for sharing /not sharing on the board anymore - and if you bothered to read what has gone down in history, or what the older members say about why they don't share their experiences, you might understand it - The tone of this thread has completely changed, and it's become chat about how good your man laid it down last night, how you beat his azz, or then praying for forgiveness and asking God for his blessings - Something that seems a bit hypocritical, don't you think? And, as has happened before in a public forum, someone one day could very well end up in a similar situation where you've bragged so much about how your man has laid it down, the next woman goes and finds him and finds out for herself - Or people have been denied based on what they shared on here (immigration officers read this site too).

The purpose of this thread was to bring together a unique group of people who are all trying to have a successful relationship while navigating huge pitfalls that no one else can fully comprehend - because there are certain things that are very unique to this situation. If you want people to continue to share, you might want to try understanding where they come from, and that sometimes, they truly do know better.

[MRStee 19]

You know what's funny about that comment is I feel like a therapist sometimes. Chuck and I talk for hours and hours on my front porch swing. He will go to his therapist and when he says something, Chuck will say, Kelly said that same thing. He does it all the time. Maybe I'm in the wrong line of work.

You know what's funny about that comment is I feel like a therapist sometimes. Chuck and I talk for hours and hours on my front porch swing. He will go to his therapist and when he says something, Chuck will say, Kelly said that same thing. He does it all the time. Maybe I'm in the wrong line of work.

You are you have a way with words!

[DaDa 1]

Bet that up "Sugar", I'll cop all 3 cd's tomorrow and play them through. I'm waiting for Toni Braxton to release a new album and I hope soon, got to keep it cummming , if you know what I mean. Now I must log off and hit this P90X, got to keep it right, tight and DYNAMITE (IN JJ'S VOICE FROM GOOD TIMES)

You got me LMAO at the dynamite!!! Toni did release a new one a few months ago or are you talking about another one after that?

JA ENG well said, ppl need to hear the truth from someone outside looking in. REALITY CHECK indeed!

Ps I have been trying to post my response all day but wuk a kill mi LOL

U been trying all dat to post two lines??

I know ATL has a lot of DL men, but I never heard that phrase about checking the front & back of the boxers for poop.

Umm this was not a good time to eat while reading VJ !!!

[MRStee 19]

Tee its dropping it like the rent is due… A day late and a dolla short. Jeez yuh as bad as Tre with slang.

Lolyou knew what I meant lol

[DaDa 1]

THANK YOU LORD!!!! MY HUBBY GOT A JOB!!!!!!!!!!! WHOOO HOOOOOO Praise the LORD!! This was truly an unexpected blessing.

Stats: Full-time, M-F above minimum wage!

Aww my gosh, I'm so happy

AND TODAY IS HIS BIRTHDAY!! WHAT A GREAT GIFT

Yayyy congrats and Happy B-day ta him!!!