Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[Ellsinlove 2]

Okay, I read back a few pages & now I know JQ is preggo! Congrats! But with the rest of your VJ kid stories, I'm about to go get my tubes tied!

And yes, I agree Finesse, chocolate sandwich cookies are a really sucky substitute for real Oreos!

Hubby & I had a major blowout this weekend but resolved it by yesterday & were back to loving eachother. Since we saw his counselor friend a few weeks ago, he had promised to make an effort to stop lying about ish & especially stupid little ish. Well, he fabricates a story Saturday afternoon about going up to the bus stop to meet his friend Marcos but I quickly found out he was really just out in front of our place talking to his female friend who had been 'jogging by'. I don't have so much of a problem with him having female friends (within reason) but the fact that he made up a story about seeing a guy friend because he thought I'd get pissed off about visiting with the girl made me HOT! I started screaming at him & I'm sure the whole neighborhood heard us....his friend out front did...she's scared of me now though we've never met. At that point I told him we were done since he can't stop lying. It was a rough rest of the day & night. Sunday morning I woke up after finally being allowed to go back to sleep (what do I want?? I want some friggin SLEEP!!) & got up & went to see a morning movie. "Babies" was super cute for anyone who might have it playing in your city. Then I ran a couple errands & by the time I got back, we'd both had plenty of time to think about things. I decided I didn't really want him to go (but I was damn sure about to buy him a one-way ticket back home on Sat) & I think he decided this ish will not fly around here! Time will tell. We made up & he said 'he's glad he has his wife back'. Next weekend better be much better cause I'm tired of wasting weekends on this bull!

[bajankutie 4]

Well as I said I luck out cause she aint in the picture. She calls and checks on her when she feels like. My stepdaughter is 4 and her mom called about 3 weeks ago and asked her what is her moms name and she told her me. my husband and I never told her that and she always calls me auntie Karolin so this totally caught us by suprise but deep down inside I was glad she did that to her. She isn't a good mother. My husband has been raising her from the time she was 6 weeks old and does even help to support her.

[BlessMeIndeed 0]

Hi BlessMe..Welcome to the board and good luck on your journey. Girl if I knew the answer to your question I would tell you. But this ride is not easy it come with lots of ups and downs.

Yes Lady C believe me I know, the baby mama has some serious issues, but my husband doesn't deal with her, sometimes I wonder if that's really his daughter because she looks nothing like him or the mother, but of course I never mention it to him. SO I D.N.A (DO NOT ASK,LOL)

[*JG* 2]

It sometimes makes me wonder why people are suprised that the babymothers don't want to send their kids to the States. Why???

I would NEVER send my child to the States to live with their father unless they are suffering. And the other thing that cracks me up is how EVERY babymother is an unfit mother.....My two cents!

I just asked about you.

[DedicatedWife 4]

Afternoon All! I been trying to read and catch up!

Just, I'm praying for you! You're going to be more than okay!

Wow on these crumb snatchers showing out...poe thangs!

Lady C and Dan-Dan, I'm praying for y'all to have patience and guidance to work with these babies. Dang outta pocket!

Ells, I'm glad that you and hubby were able to work through things...I feel you on the lying...but continue to work through things!

Welcome to the newbies on here... Blessmeindeed and bajunkutie!

JaEnglishGirl, I don't think all the BMs are out of pocket and are unfit. I agree they need to take care of their own unless they suffering or some other extreme circumstances. Regarding my own personal situation I pray she continues to be able to hold it down with her son cause my husband is doing his part and I need to remain crumb snatcher free...I love the kids don't get me wrong but I need for her to handle hers!

JQ, them shoes and purse are cute girl!

Always, I'm so happy the baby is doing well!

[DedicatedWife 4]

I just asked about you.

JG, I hope you had a great weekend and a fabulous Mother's Day!

[*JG* 2]

JG, I hope you had a great weekend and a fabulous Mother's Day!

I did. How are you doing, Dens?

[DedicatedWife 4]

IM DOING WELL >>HOW ARE YOU??

Hello My3, girl you did that with your daughter! That's what I'm talking about. You took it old school. These kids of the day...shaking my head...they are on some other stuff!

[BlessMeIndeed 0]

Okay, I read back a few pages & now I know JQ is preggo! Congrats! But with the rest of your VJ kid stories, I'm about to go get my tubes tied!

And yes, I agree Finesse, chocolate sandwich cookies are a really sucky substitute for real Oreos!

Hubby & I had a major blowout this weekend but resolved it by yesterday & were back to loving eachother. Since we saw his counselor friend a few weeks ago, he had promised to make an effort to stop lying about ish & especially stupid little ish. Well, he fabricates a story Saturday afternoon about going up to the bus stop to meet his friend Marcos but I quickly found out he was really just out in front of our place talking to his female friend who had been 'jogging by'. I don't have so much of a problem with him having female friends (within reason) but the fact that he made up a story about seeing a guy friend because he thought I'd get pissed off about visiting with the girl made me HOT! I started screaming at him & I'm sure the whole neighborhood heard us....his friend out front did...she's scared of me now though we've never met. At that point I told him we were done since he can't stop lying. It was a rough rest of the day & night. Sunday morning I woke up after finally being allowed to go back to sleep (what do I want?? I want some friggin SLEEP!!) & got up & went to see a morning movie. "Babies" was super cute for anyone who might have it playing in your city. Then I ran a couple errands & by the time I got back, we'd both had plenty of time to think about things. I decided I didn't really want him to go (but I was damn sure about to buy him a one-way ticket back home on Sat) & I think he decided this ish will not fly around here! Time will tell. We made up & he said 'he's glad he has his wife back'. Next weekend better be much better cause I'm tired of wasting weekends on this bull!Ellsinlove I'm glad you two worked things out, he shouldn't behave like that, if my husband have females friend they all better be GAY

[DedicatedWife 4]

I did. How are you doing, Dens?

Awesome! Still busy with work and trying to enjoy as much time as I can with Den. We still in the eary stages with being married. We taking things one day at a time, we are now looking at furniture and trying to decide what we want to do for our living and dining rooms. Poe thangs, we'll get the house completely filled and hooked up one of these days soon!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Ellsinlove I'm glad you two worked things out, he shouldn't behave like that, if my husband have females friend they all better be GAY

Girl no, I live in ATL. I'm not trying to have my husband having all "Hard Legs" as friends...no, no, no.

[LadyC 1]

It sometimes makes me wonder why people are suprised that the babymothers don't want to send their kids to the States. Why???

I would NEVER send my child to the States to live with their father unless they are suffering. And the other thing that cracks me up is how EVERY babymother is an unfit mother.....My two cents!

Well I cant speak for everyone but who feels it knows it. We all have diffrent stories to tell. I do not have Baby Mama drama so I cant speak about that but I can say that my step son mother did not do a great job in the discipline area. She herself admits to the role she played in his behavior. He was allowed to behave badly with not much discipline. As for sending your child away I would not do it at a young age but if its for my childrens benefit I would do it. Better education, being with their dad etc. To each his/her own

[*JG* 2]

Awesome! Still busy with work and trying to enjoy as much time as I can with Den. We still in the eary stages with being married. We taking things one day at a time, we are now looking at furniture and trying to decide what we want to do for our living and dining rooms. Poe thangs, we'll get the house completely filled and hooked up one of these days soon!

Girly, you are a homeowner now. It never ever ends. Enjoy every single minute of it.

[DedicatedWife 4]

Way to go My2 I slammed the door on my mom when I was 15 and all I remember was her kicking the door off My mama did a kong foo kick and the door flew off. She than grabed me and threw me into the wall when I woke up my sister was pooring water over me. I never did that shyt again

Lady C, your mama brought it to you straight up didn't she? Dang, she knocked you out cold. Girl I needed that laugh for my commute to the house. I'm just getting the image in my head of your sister pouring that water over you to bring you back...

[LadyC 1]

Girl no, I live in ATL. I'm not trying to have my husband having all "Hard Legs" as friends...no, no, no.

Dens You are crazy