Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[finesse 3]

Good Morning Yardies....

Bajan Welcome to the board

JQ Glad everyone Loveed the surprise

My mothers day was good and bad my family took me to breakfast at I-Hop and then they gave me my gifts. I got Coach Sneakers & Juicy Couture Bracelet from my kids and my Hubby gave me the dress I wanted from Zara's. I love my family. The bad part was I had to walk out on them and go by my friend for a drink because I was gonna snap on my husband. I put Jaheim on punishment and he decided to take him off of punishment. Well that shyt was not cool with me so I left and when I came back we had a long talk. The way my step son behave I have only seen on Nanny 911. This pickney is a mess. He is not used to bed time so he HOLLA until he falls asleep. Friday night I had to woop his butt because he was kicking and punching the walls and screaming at the top of his lungs. Sorry to say my hubby is a punk when it comes to dealing with his son. Last nigt was another repeat of screaming 7 people in Jamaica tried to calm him down because he would not stop. This was after 11 at night. He loves the streets so when he is out he is happy and he loves to be in grown folks business but because I do not allow him to rule no one he clings to his dad and his dad lets him do what ever he wants. I was so pissed I cussed G out and told him if he cant be on the same page with me Jaheim will have to go back to his mother.

what was the story before he came here? did he just live with his mom and she let him run around and do whatever?

i thought only these american kids were rude and disrespectful...

[LadyC 1]

Wow it’s that bad??? Did he want to come or his dad made him come because it was best?

No DaDa he is 7 and I dont think he really understood. No one made him come.

[Always Blessed 1]

Good Morning

[finesse 3]

Good Morning

hey girl, how is the embryo doing? is it considered a fetus yet?

[LadyC 1]

what was the story before he came here? did he just live with his mom and she let him run around and do whatever?

i thought only these american kids were rude and disrespectful...

Girl he lived with his mother and grand parents. They just did not teach him nothing

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Good Morning Yardies....

Bajan Welcome to the board

JQ Glad everyone Loveed the surprise

My mothers day was good and bad my family took me to breakfast at I-Hop and then they gave me my gifts. I got Coach Sneakers & Juicy Couture Bracelet from my kids and my Hubby gave me the dress I wanted from Zara's. I love my family. The bad part was I had to walk out on them and go by my friend for a drink because I was gonna snap on my husband. I put Jaheim on punishment and he decided to take him off of punishment. Well that shyt was not cool with me so I left and when I came back we had a long talk. The way my step son behave I have only seen on Nanny 911. This pickney is a mess. He is not used to bed time so he HOLLA until he falls asleep. Friday night I had to woop his butt because he was kicking and punching the walls and screaming at the top of his lungs. Sorry to say my hubby is a punk when it comes to dealing with his son. Last nigt was another repeat of screaming 7 people in Jamaica tried to calm him down because he would not stop. This was after 11 at night. He loves the streets so when he is out he is happy and he loves to be in grown folks business but because I do not allow him to rule no one he clings to his dad and his dad lets him do what ever he wants. I was so pissed I cussed G out and told him if he cant be on the same page with me Jaheim will have to go back to his mother.

It is possbility that he feels overwhelmed about leaving Jamaica and feels like an outsider (even though you are the girls have bent over back trying to welcome him!). He might also be pushing the boundaries to see whether you're in it for the long haul.

Of course this behaviour cannot be tolerated, perhaps talking to him about his feelings might help. I know my son has done similar with my in-laws, for pretty much the same reason.

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Hey ladies

Good morning

How are you doing

Hope everyone had a blessed mothers day and took some time out for yourself

I got a new fly azzzzzz Rocawear purse with matching shoes Im going to upload a pic

[LadyC 1]

It is possbility that he feels overwhelmed about leaving Jamaica and feels like an outsider (even though you are the girls have bent over back trying to welcome him!). He might also be pushing the boundaries to see whether you're in it for the long haul.

Of course this behaviour cannot be tolerated, perhaps talking to him about his feelings might help. I know my son has done similar with my in-laws, for pretty much the same reason.

JaEnglish we have tried everything so far

[DaDa 1]

Thanks she will be such a chocolate beautiful baby girl but she will be tall, Im 5'10 and he is 6'7

Im tall but Im glad Im not over 6 feet personally

Wow JQ you two are tall!!!

[bajankutie 4]

good morning all

[DaDa 1]

Hope we're all enjoying our weekends I'm getting ready for church. I'm gonna pray for hubby because he keeps staying up on facebook til late at night when I'm asleep then after whoever he's talking to turns him on he wake me up for sex. I'm NOT having that childish behavior so we practically fight last night because I wouldn't give in. Him lucky, him need fi tap eff around pan facebook with his "friends he met @ Rick's" and I be saying "they love you so much they didn't wanna do a visa for you but they want you now that you're here!"

This reminded me of yesterday when I was having a drink with my cousin yesterday and she told me her hubby was chatting it up with some girl in ATL and she found out so she told him I think you should send that person a message telling them your homeless and can you come stay with them since their so important.

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Wow JQ you two are tall!!!

Yep

Hi bajakutie Im going to look at your profile, you better has some info about you on there lol

Just playing but godd morning

[1luv 1]

Hey ladies

Good morning

How are you doing

Hope everyone had a blessed mothers day and took some time out for yourself

I got a new fly azzzzzz Rocawear purse with matching shoes Im going to upload a pic

Please tell me on VJ and not FB. FB is blocked at work!!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Please tell me on VJ and not FB. FB is blocked at work!!

I trying to do it now

brb

[My4rmylife 0]

Okay so this is how I told hubby

1. Picked him up from work

2. I asked him how was his day blah blah blah

3. I was sick and nauseous when I took him to work so he was asking how I was feeling

4. Told him I have a surprise for you

5. He said you know I dont like surprises

6. Told him to get the bag of surprises out the back seat while I was driving

7. he reached back and thought it wwas going to be an outfit or jewelry

8. He got the gift bag and he pulled out a baby hat, mittens, and a bib

9. Instantly started to smile

10. he asked ARE WE PREGNANT

11. I replied look at the paper in the bag

I attached a note that said Congratulations! Your estimated due date is Tuesday, January 11, 2011, which means you're in week 4 of your pregnancy.

He was so happy, I pulled the car over and he hugged me so tight.

We have been wanting this so for so long. We already have a ready-made family of 3 kids but now we will have our own creation made souly from our love to add. I LOVE IT

Im so happy.

So last night he made me steamed fish and fish soup, with yam, sweet potato, irish potato, and other things in it, he said our baby has to eat right hope he does try to put me on no (healthy only eating) diet

Last night I left to come to California, he dropped me off, and was so sad, asked me to try to come back early on Sunday because he will miss me he is so cute, but I think will be a LITTLE overprotective, but its cool, I'll deal with it!

So Im going to a wedding today and thinking how do I tell my mom she is going to be another grandma. She sent me the prettiest tulips to work yesterday from California Flowers, BEAUTIFUL, the card said, "Thank you for raising my grandsons to be wonderful MEN OF GOD from day one you have been a wonderful mother and I am proud to be your mother

I love you."

t made me cry with my emotional self

And she looovvvveeesss my hubby so she will be happy, but I want to tell her in a great way!!!!

Any suggestions

aww how sweet