Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[MRStee 19]

Tee chica mi was juss joking wid yuh no punt intended. Der is nothing I can't stand worse then horrible customer service. Whoo my blood pressure goes from 0-60 in 2.2 seconds so I feel your frustration I honesty do. I was juss having some fun wid yuh is all.

My comment wasnt for you, it was in response to what Just said. Im good though. No harm done nor taken. I think I had a frustrating week last week. I was looking at some of my responses on the board. I really just spoke out when I shouldve kept somethings in.. Im good though.

I have to give my hubby his props though. When I think about what other marriages may be going through, Im truly blessed to have him. Love you Steve

[LadyC 1]

My comment wasnt for you, it was in response to what Just said. Im good though. No harm done nor taken. I think I had a frustrating week last week. I was looking at some of my responses on the board. I really just spoke out when I shouldve kept somethings in.. Im good though.

I have to give my hubby his props though. When I think about what other marriages may be going through, Im truly blessed to have him. Love you Steve

Hey Tee whats up girl...TGIF sis TGIF

[finesse 3]

Finesse its too late to put him in school. The school is in the process of doing Final Exams so it dont make any sence to start him until next term. Im getting him a tutor but his behavior is so bad I have to wait a few weeks for him to get into my way of behaving

send him back! just kidding...

it is a huge adjustment for everyone, especially him....luckily kids his age are much more easily adaptable than older kids. since hubby is the only one he listens to then he's gonna have to step up and get on the same page with you in order for it to work. hubby can make excuses and ignore all he wnats, the problem wont go away...the sooner you make a plan and lay down the rules and stick together, the better for all of you

[LadyC 1]

send him back! just kidding...

it is a huge adjustment for everyone, especially him....luckily kids his age are much more easily adaptable than older kids. since hubby is the only one he listens to then he's gonna have to step up and get on the same page with you in order for it to work. hubby can make excuses and ignore all he wnats, the problem wont go away...the sooner you make a plan and lay down the rules and stick together, the better for all of you

Finesse I have benn humming "Return to Sender" in my head all damn day...But im not ready to give up just yet but its gonna be a hard road to travel.

[MRStee 19]

Pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hopefully this one is a girl so I can have 2 and 2

Nope he doesnt know yet

Yall are my girls and we go through trails together but please dont post on FB!

I want to surprise my mom this weekend.

Love you all

That explains alot

[J2A♥oasis 2]

J2A I hope it gets better soon cause this is too much. My kids are looking at me like if we tried this shyt you would have clocked us. My girls are really friendly and like to help but they say they cant deal with him.

Girl, I know. I have indeed been there and it took a lot out of me. But I had to keep in mind that he was dealing with a lot of issues not just the schooling. He also had to adjust to me and not being with his mom, him realizing his dad was with me and was not going to be with his mom, the fact he was not our only child, and on and on and on to add to the fact that he was behind and he knew daddy would take up for him. Believe it or not your daughters are more on track because a firm no nonsense way worked with me (the same way I was with my girls, but more understanding of his situation…loving but still no nonsense). I had to let him know that my house was going to be ran the way I said and I had to get his dad to understand my side and to back me up when I said something. We would discuss things later away from the kids if dad decided he disagreed with the way I handle dealt with him.

[J2A♥oasis 2]

send him back! just kidding...

it is a huge adjustment for everyone, especially him....luckily kids his age are much more easily adaptable than older kids. since hubby is the only one he listens to then he's gonna have to step up and get on the same page with you in order for it to work. hubby can make excuses and ignore all he wnats, the problem wont go away...the sooner you make a plan and lay down the rules and stick together, the better for all of you

No, but seriously, I agree with the second part.

[finesse 3]

My comment wasnt for you, it was in response to what Just said. Im good though. No harm done nor taken. I think I had a frustrating week last week. I was looking at some of my responses on the board. I really just spoke out when I shouldve kept somethings in.. Im good though.

I have to give my hubby his props though. When I think about what other marriages may be going through, Im truly blessed to have him. Love you Steve

That explains a lot

[LadyC 1]

Girl, I know. I have indeed been there and it took a lot out of me. But I had to keep in mind that he was dealing with a lot of issues not just the schooling. He also had to adjust to me and not being with his mom, him realizing his dad was with me and was not going to be with his mom, the fact he was not our only child, and on and on and on to add to the fact that he was behind and he knew daddy would take up for him. Believe it or not your daughters are more on track because a firm no nonsense way worked with me (the same way I was with my girls, but more understanding of his situation…loving but still no nonsense). I had to let him know that my house was going to be ran the way I said and I had to get his dad to understand my side and to back me up when I said something. We would discuss things later away from the kids if dad decided he disagreed with the way I handle dealt with him.

Thank J2A this is how I am and will continue to deal with this situation. Me and hubby had a very long talk last night and I told him he has to step up and stop babying him and be on the same page with me because I am not in this alone and I am doing this for his son's bbenefit.

[MRStee 19]

Mi sista you gotta make it happen ((((((((hugs)))))) @ Lady C... likkle more

[LadyC 1]

Mi sista you gotta make it happen ((((((((hugs)))))) @ Lady C... likkle more

see it deh....ah dat mi a seh.....Likkle more Tee

[J2A♥oasis 2]

Thank J2A this is how I am and will continue to deal with this situation. Me and hubby had a very long talk last night and I told him he has to step up and stop babying him and be on the same page with me because I am not in this alone and I am doing this for his son's bbenefit.

Yup. It's good that you're on top of this and not just going to let him run wild. Hang in there, you and hubby will find a way and things will get better.

[finesse 3]

Thank J2A this is how I am and will continue to deal with this situation. Me and hubby had a very long talk last night and I told him he has to step up and stop babying him and be on the same page with me because I am not in this alone and I am doing this for his son's bbenefit.

you'll work it out...one day at a time and a whole heap a patience. blending of families is no easy task....a challenge i underestimated greatly...

[LadyC 1]

Ok Ladies time to roll out...mi chat to uno lata......

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

wha!???!!! mi knoa dem sexy parties a get yuh in trouble sooner or later! congrats ooman! watch.....a twins yuh go ave!!

I bind that up in the Name of Jesus

Just playing but I want to get my tubes tied after this one. not two

JQ ah Breed...LAWD im not drinking the VJ wata.....CONGRATS JQ

Thanks C

Praying for your son to realize that he is in need of an education, hope God helps his heart to change and his mind to open for learning.

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Congratulations, JQ!!! How exciting!

I'll start looking out for baby product coupons for you.

For real girl, I was thinking what is Nat talking about with all this dang ol coupons, Please please help me Nat? :bonk:

Awwwww CONGRATS JQ!!!!!

ThanksJ2A♥ I love your name , I was trying to make mine Smiley B♥♥M with the hearts but it just wouldnt let me!

That explains alot

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That explains a lot

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Edited May 7, 2010 by JQ Smiley BOOM