Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Well JQ I think what gets to hubby is that you are all about living yuh life. Whether he is there or not your plan on going out with your friends on trips and parties. I’m with you I don’t see the big deal but I guess he is not used to that. How was it when he was in JA and you went out did he call your phone fifty times or did he let you be? See you seem like a people person and partier. You chat with girls and guys not to get with them but just because your friendly and there is nothing wrong with that. Does he hang out, has he met friends? Maybe he’s jealous you’re going out and he doesn’t but hey that is not your problem.

I pray too that he chills out. Yes you are an attractive girl but your content and happy and not looking for anybody why can’t men just accept that. They say the first five years of marriage or the hardest so umm I think you still have four/three to go? LOL

Yes Im living life so so true, I have maybe went out 4 times since he has been here in August- 2 was with my girls and the other was California(1) and Jamaica(1) 4 times total.

When he was in Jamaica he used to be pissed when I would go out which was maybe once every 2-3 months, since I am older I dont hang out but when I do I party hard. :rofl:

Im not trying to loose my hubby, he is my world But he gotta understand that men are gonna try to holla, its in their nature and he gotta cute wife even though I got the biggest rock he could buy, they dont care they are still gonna approach.

But he go out too. But I dont bother him. He goes out with his friends He is DJ for the hottest Reggae club in Las Vegas, 200+ people sometimes I go and sometimes I dont, HE BE COMMENTING ONT HOSE GIRLS DANCING AND THEY BE UNDRESSING HIS SEXY SEXY SEXY SELF WITH THEY EYES, i GET JEALOUS IN MY HEAD BUT iKNOW WHO HE COMING HOME WITH SO iM COOL, BUT IF ITS A BIG PARTY HE IS DJING FOR i JUST WONT GO AND WILL WAIT TILL HE IS DRUNK AND COME HIOME AND TEAR THE BED UP why was I WRITING IN cAPS LOL

[JaHoney 3]

DADa i just finish cooking all that dang chicken now i gotta go pick up the pickney from track practice, its never ending i tell ya....

chat later....

Peace yall

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Umm... JQ.... the dude was cute.. Now your hubby is cute too but that guy was a looker.

Aww thanks dada he wasnt cuter than my man to me, light and dreads aint even my type

No physical attraction at all :no:

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

I feel you on the jealousy. Mine doesn't seem to like that I lay in bed on the laptop while he lays & watches tv. He rather I give either him or the tv attention... anything but the computer.

I want to see the picture!

here go the picture yall

he not my type, he was buying my girls drinks and just wanted to get in my picture we never even said 2 words to each other at all..... :bonk:

I had to add it on FB to let yall see it but now I will delete it off FB :bonk:

[NatPatBen 3]

Thanks, JQ! He wouldn't be my type either.

I told Steven on my first trip that he wasn't my type, though. lol I generally like a darker, thicker man and I LOVE long hair on a guy.

[justucia 0]

I must admit sometimes things seem a little fake oh I love him oh were great oh were this and its like get the phock outta here. Granted things shouldn't be the worse but it has to be some problems connecting two cultures. Now some ladies do reveal the facts but some you just have to shake your head like umm o.k.

HELL NO this aint easy

he has spent more time on the couch than in our bed

i have almost clawed his eyes out of his head

there was two whole days we did not say 1 word to eachother- and so make it even sweeter we were stuck inside b/c of a blizzard outside

we don't argue every day- but damn if it aint close

but

[justucia 0]

we ARE going to make it work!

i love him more than i love chocolate, elephants and red wine!

(L)and ladies- thank you for the sincere love ive felt from yall

it really means so much- like ive said to a couple of yall, this is really an awesome lesson in learning how to hand over my sadness to God, i've never felt this much faith..... i don't know how to explain it

i decided i am 100% going to get jaheem here on a k2 before we leave this island on halloween

that being said- who has gone the k2 route?

this is what i have done-

his birth mother signed a quit claim stating she gave up her parental rights and gave her permission for him to travel

he has his passport

he was named on the original k1

now i have to email the embassy?

do either of us have to be there for an interview?

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

I didnt think I had to be there for the interview of my daughter's CR2 but they asked for info that I thought they had that they said they did not even need.

my job letter which I already sent them and the original marriage certificate.

Im glad i was there it was easier

Good luck on getting the son here

[MRStee 19]

Hey mama, things are good. Just kicking it with hubby, (feels so good to finally say hubby)

I see you're loving your space, that's what's up

Whooo

Thank you, I'm suppose to go choose the pro pics today and I keep calling the photographer as if I don't know what time is my appoinment with him

Now that I think about it, I don't believe I said good afternoon, my apology.

I went to go do that MRI today and I sneaked a peak at the computer screen, didn't see anything unusual on the skull/head but what the heck, I don't know what to look for. They said they'd fax the results to my gyn tomorrow so I called her to make an appt and the ####### gave me an appt for NEXT tuesday but if I call the image center and they fax the results by tomorrow I'll do a walk in on thursday morning and if she don't wanna see me then I grab my effing chart and go somewhere else coz the suspense is killing me

Nat, please email me your strategy. I went to walgreens lastnight and cut coupons from their coupon book AND shopped the sale that they had!! They also had a coupon for 50 pics for $5 and I used it and save $6

I was so damn happy. I gotta stick with walgreens though because cvs is quite a distance from me...

Awww KJ sis hang in there sweetie....its gonna be okay.....

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Does anyone watch Brandi and Ray J? Tell me Brandi aka Brand Nu is not trying to rap?? Girl sit down and leave it alone!!!

I can't wait to see Bad girls Love Games tonight that is my show!!!!

Girl I love me some Brandy, but thats messed up how her mom feel about Ray and her, with the differences.

I read somewhere that she is mad because Brandy had a daughter and her career was still fresh.

[MRStee 19]

Hi All,

I am just dropping in to say hi. I have been looking through the thread and I don't see many people on here that was on VJ approximately 2to 3 years ago when I was on. I wonder what happened to everyone. I am back on regularly now. My husband and I are currently in the process of ROC so we are going for biometrics on May 12. Anyway just wanted to say hi and that I wish you all the best of luck!

Take Care

Hi 12! Its nice to see the vets coming back! I wish you the best of luck during your ROC!

Everybody MIA Girl I can attest my job has gotten hot... they got me over here sweating like a hooker in church on the front row! They got me humping like a groupie on All-star NBA weekend or Superbowl weekend...I'm having to work it like the mortgage is due cause it is

DW you are just too dayum funny... I love your phrases.. Imma have to try them on my kids

APPROVED!!!!!!

They tried to really give us a hard time; we were in there for an hour!!!!!!!!

BUT THANK GOD WE ARE KEEPN IT MOVING!!!

Hi Shanette!!! Congrats How did they give you a hard time if Im not being too personal.. Did they grill yall with questions?

CONGRATS ShaNette:dance:

GARFIELD GOT THE JOB

yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy garfield things are looking up! Giving our hubbies that are unemployed hope....

yup.......and i am so undeserving of this patient wonderful man of mine...if i was him i woulda clocked me in the head weeks ago BIG UP to hubby and all the amazing hubbys out there!!

Yes, i love this finesse!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Yardies...I just got a text message saying our case was updated...we going to Cali yall! I give the glory to God!

[MRStee 19]

Yay! Level one is using coupons OR buying things on sale. Level two is combining the two! I don't know how much pampers tend to cost, but CVS has them ths week: 96 for $19.99, plus you get $5 back. Add on your $3 coupon and it's like getting them for $11.99. Next time you go to buy some, check www.coupontom.com to see where more coupons are. Where'd you get the $3 one? CouponTom only found ones for $1 - $2 in Sunday papers.

You & JG do, too, definitely.

Man... if we only hung on to drama, we'd be far from this thread these days. Not much drama to read about.

Walgreens... They're not nearly as coupon-friendly as CVS. But there are still some deals. For example, Sure deodorant is on sale for $1.50 this week. Plus there was a $1.50 coupon in Sunday's paper. FREE! That was their best sale this week.

First bit of advice: Know which Sundays to buy multiple papers by seeing how many coupon inserts will be in the paper. According to http://www.coupontom...static/schedule, the best paper to get will be June 6, as there will be FOUR coupon inserts. This Sunday will only have 1

12/11/2006, how exciting to be at the ROC phase! Best wishes.

ShaNette, congratulations on the approval! Will you post deatils of the interview?

LadyC, congratulations to Garfield on getting the job. Do the $$$$ dance!

Nat, Im not knocking you on the coupon thing but just WHO knows this darn much about them? People are worrying about things like, hunger, world peace, Haiti and you thinking about coupons THIS hard.... is it me???? I use them myself but

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

I pray too that he chills out. Yes you are an attractive girl but your content and happy and not looking for anybody why can’t men just accept that. They say the first five years of marriage or the hardest so umm I think you still have four/three to go? LOL

Thanks dada for the prayer, yes we have been together 4 years and married 2years in in July. I know its hard but damn can I go a week with out an attitude from him DAMN

I just pray if its not meant to be GOD please show me early because I feel i go backwards and frontwards for him and my kids and thats dangerous for me to be running like that and not being appreciated for it.

I pray for no stroke or any sickness because Im running from 6am-8pm daily NON STOP

Oh look at me going off, thanks guys for letting me get this off my chest, I dont give a damn that I m telling yall this because its better out than in, and I dont need an anuerysm.

[MRStee 19]

Shemmy you vets have to stay around because if and when I do this I will need advice because Lord knows I haven't retained a thing. I looked the forms the other day and instantly hit the exit on my computer and said whoo glad I have a while for/if that. So do you really have to gather all that stuff to send off the K-1? Sheesh I never understood why you ladies were so happy when it was out of your hands but now I see why.

I must admit sometimes things seem a little fake oh I love him oh were great oh were this and its like get the phock outta here. Granted things shouldn't be the worse but it has to be some problems connecting two cultures. Now some ladies do reveal the facts but some you just have to shake your head like umm o.k.

So how are things with you missy?

Things definitely aint easy but in the name of love you umm (what did DW say?) "Make it do what it do"!