Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Hi ladyc,

I will be glad when i am at the point you two ladies are, you and dens wifey but unfortunately im not, with my SO, i really dont post anything about my journey anymore publicly, but trust me im with yall in spirit with your ups and downs.

I almost dare to say im bored,sitting at home but when i try to get out and shop and do things like normal folks im so tired all i can think of is home so i need to make this last week worth it

Yeah it takes a lot to share some things about your personal life and your journey...if Den only knew but I make sure I tell him that VJ saved us...cause some times it was almost like I wanted to throw in the towel...but I'm so thankful I didn't. What we have is a blessing and so worth it all!

[DaDa 1]

Good morning Ladies,

Aww justucia, i am so sorry to hear of your loss... i will keep you in my prayers.

DaDa how come every time i come on hear ya tail online, i thought work blocked it

Me im still home from work i dont go back to next week so i have a valid excuse

No mi job blocked FB not VJ so shhhh... LOL

Why you always just saying hi but then yuh dash away. Yuh still leaving at de end of de month?

[DaDa 1]

wow, im really starting to think coming on VJ is pointless, half the time im lucky if i get a hello. times sure have changed

Yeah times sure have changed. Memba when you left for a few minutes and came back to 4-5 pages. I think FB has stolen a lot of the ladies away or maybe since there journeys are near completion they don’t see the need to come back. They forget the newcomers need there sound advice. A lot of ladies have went MIA. I loved VJ because it was a place to come and be with woman who were dealing and going through the same thing as you. Talking to your friends about this stuff they look at you like your crazy but when you talk to VJ you get ladies like uh huh girl I been there and done that and they support you. I miss the way the board was but so it goes.

Oh and Honey you never stick around long enuff for anyone to say hi .

[DedicatedWife 4]

Alright Yardies I better get my butt back to work or else ...you know how these jobs are! Likkle more!

[DaDa 1]

Hey Dens he is doing really good but yesterday afternoon me and G had to go out so we left him at home with my daughter and he threw a tantrum from hell. He tried to hit her with a Wooden Fish I have and threw a book at her. I had to give him the clinch teeth talk over the phone. Other than that is all good. I told him not to behave like that at my girlfriends house today because she has a little baby and he will wake him up.

No he didn’t!!!! I know your daughter was ready to box em….

[DaDa 1]

Hi ladyc,

I will be glad when i am at the point you two ladies are, you and dens wifey but unfortunately im not, with my SO, i really dont post anything about my journey anymore publicly, but trust me im with yall in spirit with your ups and downs.

I almost dare to say im bored,sitting at home but when i try to get out and shop and do things like normal folks im so tired all i can think of is home so i need to make this last week worth it

I hear you I see the girls making progress and getting settled and adjusted and I think awww dat so tweet. Soon come Honey soon come….

[NatPatBen 3]

Belated good morning. Work =

I have been a Vj'er for over two years so its just so different now, i cant commit to being on as much as i used to so maybe i miss people but it just seems like people arent as friendly anymore, or maybe im just sensitive. Im only home cause im still recovering from when i was in the hospital a few weeks ago, girl trust when pay day rolls around im gonna be crying...LOL.. and it will probably take forever for my short term disability check to show up, but this rest has been well worth it, this will be my third week home

Interesting perspective. I almost feel the opposite. When I first came on, I felt I was often ignored, but don't feel that way now.

Or maybe I realize, from doing it myself, that sometimes people respond internally to what you say but don't type it out. Plenty of times I read something & nod in agreement or laugh or feel sad, but don't always type it out for various reasons.

[JaHoney 3]

well in hindsight Nat, i can understand, when newbies used to come on VJ i was wary of them, cause you know how VJ can be, until after they had been on the board for awhile. maybe since im not around as often on VJ some of the newer members feel the same way, and arent as quick to engage in convo with someone they have no knowledge of....

[Always Blessed 1]

Good Morning Ladies Whoops Afternoon,

Hope everyone had a great weekend! Didnt get a chance to log in yesterday because the computers at work were down and HUbby somehow got a virus on my laptop UGH! Anyways that is in the process of getting fixed. Today I hopefully will get my ultrasound and am excited about that.

I am going to try to catch up some now.

[finesse 3]

Hi everyone! Happy Hump Day! Oh, is today only Tuesday? Well everyday is now hump day on my calendar Praise the Lord, I feel like a new woman!!

Who's feeling sexy with me????

[finesse 3]

Nat, you inspired me to use my first coupon of my life. I got $3 off a case of pampers plus free baby wipes. Prolly not as good as your savings but its a start!

where the eff is everyone?

[finesse 3]

Always, BM sounds like a mess! I agree with the other ladies that it is hubbys responsibility to handle that. But if he cant or is making excuses bout it, then i'd have to do something. Is there a custody and visitation agreement/court order between the two of them? if so, then she can't legally keep the child from him. If not, better get one and since your at the court house get a restraining order on that ho while your at it. Phock that!! You should not have to put up with that! and yuh preggers too??? oh hell naaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwww!!

[*JG* 2]

dills~

hey ladies- just checking in

i am devestated- i went for checkup today and i lost the baby

i have to have D&C on monday

ive had to hold it together all day so im going to go cry

Oh, girl.....I am so sorry. Hugs to you.

[Always Blessed 1]

Always, BM sounds like a mess! I agree with the other ladies that it is hubbys responsibility to handle that. But if he cant or is making excuses bout it, then i'd have to do something. Is there a custody and visitation agreement/court order between the two of them? if so, then she can't legally keep the child from him. If not, better get one and since your at the court house get a restraining order on that ho while your at it. Phock that!! You should not have to put up with that! and yuh preggers too??? oh hell naaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwww!!

Yep she is a mess, Now that she knows I am pregnant she really hasnt even bothered harrassing me so far since the last post about her but she is not even talking to hubby or letting him see his supposed to be child so I would say someone is not very happy but thats just to damn bad .

[*JG* 2]

Hi ladyc,

I will be glad when i am at the point you two ladies are, you and dens wifey but unfortunately im not, with my SO, i really dont post anything about my journey anymore publicly, but trust me im with yall in spirit with your ups and downs.

I almost dare to say im bored,sitting at home but when i try to get out and shop and do things like normal folks im so tired all i can think of is home so i need to make this last week worth it

Bored? I know a few crazy women I can send your way, Honey.

Enjoy your peace for a while. You deserve it.