Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[MRStee 19]

Nite Trace since you're the only other person signed in! My NyQuil is finally beginning to kick in

Nite Reg and Shanette!

[ShaNette 4]

Sigh.

Dr called me in her office. Apparently, my loyalties don't lie with the practice. #######?????

Translation = other girl I work with has been slowly fking me over. Not that I didn't know it.

So she is starting to look for someone else and she'll give me time off for interviews.

Can't say I was wildly happy here, but it was a job. Praying I'll find something before Jamaica.

Wow!! That sucks....

damn it!

I am crying at my desk now... I know I don't have to tell ya'll how hard this is

Sorry for the pitty party, I just feel a way today...

Good nite Tee!!

[DaDa 1]

Yesterday I am bored as I don't know what at work so I am looking through my friends on FB and I notice that K isn't on my list anymore. I was like okay maybe she removed her FB account. Well I go to J's FB page and they are still friends so she didn't delete her account. So I am like she must be upset because I didn't call her and ya it was kind of bad on my part and I honestly did go to call her a couple times but got side tracked with everything that was going on. However she knows that my Dad has passed and never once tried to call or reach out to me or even send me a message on FB. No biggie whatever. So I decide to send her another friend request and a note....

See finesse you need to keep far away from FB because it can cause some drama....LOL

Is anyone reading or even care about my stupid FB story?

Dillon I give you made props for sending her a freiend request. I might have sent her a text or e-mail asking her what was up but I wouldn't have friend requested her again because that was petty to me. See she should have undersdtood that you were dealing with a death and it wasn't on purpose. Come om you had to bury your father. She should have known you weren't thinking right. When death hits you don't know if your coming or going and with you being from out of town that really makes things worse because your only there for a short amount of time. I think she should have took the higher road and gave you a pass this once.

For instance. My 1/2 sister lost her brother last week. She called me for my dad's number and then called my dad to tell him about the death. She never not once mentioned what happened. I learned from my father later that night what happened. Was I furious my sister didnt tell me? Hell yeah! Did I want to curse her out for not saying something? Hell yeah but I figured it wasn't the time or place for the pettiness so I held my tongue and let it go. Even though she still hasn't called me to give me details I went to the wake last night and I'm going to the funeral today. Because its about supporting her during her loss. This girl has lost her brother something I can't even imagine. So K should have did like me and just let it go and be there for the ones we love/carfe about.

Edited June 10, 2010 by DaDa

[DaDa 1]

girls are good. they are sort of going through a crying spell right now where they only want me or daddy. we got a sitter the other night so hubby and i could go out and it didnt go so well....girls cried the whole time. guess we will have to wait a few months to try that again...

my son is good..he has stepped up to big bro plate and helped me out a lot, laundry, dishes etc...

Wow that is kind of young for the girls to only want you or their dad. You sure the sitter knew what they were doing ?

Lol, Dillon you know we are reading it. Well, in all honestly "K" should have been more understanding. I mean really, who can function/think properly when there has been a death in the family? Was it that serious that she had to remove you as a friend? That was good of you to reach out to her but in the end if she doesn't respond, you are probably better off. God forbid in the future something like this comes up again, she will just ban you again. Stay positive Just my opinion...

Tee I just said the same thing!

[DaDa 1]

She didn't even accept my friend request..she hit ignore.

I just wrote her back and said. "All the best to you too" and left it at that.

As JQ would say BOOM to her too!!! Sounds like she is seriously petty!

She might not have hit ignore it might still be pending is their a way to tell?

And if not Oh well. NEXT......

i saw these shoes on one of those wedding portfolio links

love it!

Those shoes are sharp! Times like these I wish I could wear heels!!!

[DaDa 1]

I know for sure that there were 6 people that slept in that room. But damn...how u gonna leave so much stuff behind?? did some dude leave the party pantless??

6 people slept in that room? Dang how big is the room? Finesse you be having orgies?

[DaDa 1]

i hate it ended like that tho.. she was nice enough to come get u guys from the airport, maybe something else is bothering her, but if she nuh wan talk about it, what can you do.. u did the right thing by extending the olive branch and it was up to her to accept

Q yuh not keep up J came to get her from de airport not K!!!

[DaDa 1]

I have found that it is the tough times in life that show you who your true friends are - I had a similar experience with people I would have thought were good friends - And support that showed up in unexpected places - It hurts, there is no way around that - But in the end, I have come to realize that I am better off without them - cause if you can't be by my side when I am down, don't expect to be there when I am up.

We had an interesting talk about the value of true friends this trip - The reason we started the trip in Negril was to go to Western Consciousness (rained out) because one of my friends from here was playing at the show. I talk about him all the time to DJ - he's an incredible person. On Saturday, we had a battery issue with the car (shocker, lol) - I called my friend to see if he knew a mechanic in the area, because I didn't want to get raked over the coals for fixing the problem. He was up in Grange Hill with his family - Told me he would call me back in a few. He called back and said I am on my way. He grabbed up his nephew, and some friend who is a mechanic (the guy closed down his shop) and drove to Negril - the friend fixed the car and didn't charge us a dime. DJ was floored by it all, said you really have a good friend there -

Some people you know you can just count on, no matter what -

Wow that was nice. It is the tough times that you learn who your true friends really are I strongly agree with that!

[DaDa 1]

Oh sookie now I just got my first heart......

Its crazy but doesn't it feel good!

[justucia 0]

okay VISA related QUESTION~~~~

my sis-in-law went to NCB bank in Montego Bay to try to pay the $350(ish) for the actual visa

why the hell did they tell her they were no longer accepting payments?

she had the interview letter and jaheems passport and BC

i researched vj and the embassy website last night, and it seems to me that paying at NCB is still standard

any ideas?

she's going back today.... wish us luck

ps mawnin ladies!

[DaDa 1]

yeah mon..words hurt, beent here done that.. i have a coworker that used to be a besty, we can talk now cuz like u said nothing wrong w/ forgiving, even tho roger things im crazy.. but things will never be the same..

Awww I think the whole crew will neva be the same and it breaks my hart...

[Always Blessed 1]

Good Morning All,

Just passing through to say Hello and let you know Hubby been approved for his green card YAY! andyways I been busy at work so haven't been able to catch up. Hope all is well with everyone and hope you all have a great day!

[DaDa 1]

A weh u a try seh doi??

Mi naa sey nuthin...

[sus 70]

Morning all -

I had a whole response with quotes typed up and then I lost it, dammit! So, from what I remember -

1 - Congrats to anyone with good news -

2 - Princess, if you need to cry, rant, rave, scream - let it out - It is not an easy thing to do, and so hard when you think about your child not having seen their father - But, try to keep in mind that everything happens for a reason - as tough as that is to swallow, that's what I try to stick to - You are having a hard time now, so the rest of your lives together should be smooth sailing.

3 - JaEng - Sorry to hear about the job - BUT (a) you haven't been happy there since day 1 and (b) one word - Unemployment! He's giving you "time off" to interview, etc.... so that he doesn't have to pay it -- you have been there long enough to collect it - don't stress yourself about finding a job or taking something just to have a job - If he wants you out, let him give you your pink slip and get you out - In the meantime, do what is required in your job description with a smile on your face - He is trying to make it so that you quit and not visa versa - In my mind, I would be thinking yeah, summer off, and the opportunity to work on my photography and travel!

[DaDa 1]

WHAT!!!!! Twice in one week!

Dills yuhseeit???