Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[finesse 3]

i was gonna try a ells move today with the multiquote but i can't keep up lol

i am clutching my pearls and screeeeaming at these responses :rofl: :rofl:

that's messed up, an opportunity wasted

ok that's it!

*logs off

oh wow kj, my condolences. that is truly tragic. 3 one time? damn

how is your aunt dealing with it?

how are your little girls? and how yuh son a manage now?

girls are good. they are sort of going through a crying spell right now where they only want me or daddy. we got a sitter the other night so hubby and i could go out and it didnt go so well....girls cried the whole time. guess we will have to wait a few months to try that again...

my son is good..he has stepped up to big bro plate and helped me out a lot, laundry, dishes etc...

[dillon 6]

girls are good. they are sort of going through a crying spell right now where they only want me or daddy. we got a sitter the other night so hubby and i could go out and it didnt go so well....girls cried the whole time. guess we will have to wait a few months to try that again...

my son is good..he has stepped up to big bro plate and helped me out a lot, laundry, dishes etc...

I now it is hard to leave them when they are crying all the time but you and hubby still need a break. Even if you guys go out for a half an hour.

[MRStee 19]

Yesterday I am bored as I don't know what at work so I am looking through my friends on FB and I notice that K isn't on my list anymore. I was like okay maybe she removed her FB account. Well I go to J's FB page and they are still friends so she didn't delete her account. So I am like she must be upset because I didn't call her and ya it was kind of bad on my part and I honestly did go to call her a couple times but got side tracked with everything that was going on. However she knows that my Dad has passed and never once tried to call or reach out to me or even send me a message on FB. No biggie whatever. So I decide to send her another friend request and a note....

See finesse you need to keep far away from FB because it can cause some drama....LOL

Is anyone reading or even care about my stupid FB story?

Lol, Dillon you know we are reading it. Well, in all honestly "K" should have been more understanding. I mean really, who can function/think properly when there has been a death in the family? Was it that serious that she had to remove you as a friend? That was good of you to reach out to her but in the end if she doesn't respond, you are probably better off. God forbid in the future something like this comes up again, she will just ban you again. Stay positive Just my opinion...

[finesse 3]

Yesterday I am bored as I don't know what at work so I am looking through my friends on FB and I notice that K isn't on my list anymore. I was like okay maybe she removed her FB account. Well I go to J's FB page and they are still friends so she didn't delete her account. So I am like she must be upset because I didn't call her and ya it was kind of bad on my part and I honestly did go to call her a couple times but got side tracked with everything that was going on. However she knows that my Dad has passed and never once tried to call or reach out to me or even send me a message on FB. No biggie whatever. So I decide to send her another friend request and a note....

See finesse you need to keep far away from FB because it can cause some drama....LOL

Is anyone reading or even care about my stupid FB story?

did she respond or what?

[dillon 6]

Here is the message I sent her along with the friend request. Now mind you I have known her since 1998 and we worked together when I lived in Vegas. She knew my family pretty well over the years.

K, I'm sorry that I didn't get the opportunity to see/visit you while I was in Vegas. My father's passing was extremely hard on me and I was not able to express the pain I was feeling at the time. I apologize if that offended you - you have truly been a good friend in the past.

Her reply...........

Hi P,

My sincere condolences to you and your family. I can't imagine how difficult your fathers death was and I understand how much you were going through. He was a kind, sweet man who always had a positive thought.

We had planned to stop in but did not want to intrude on your family.

All the best,

K

She didn't even accept my friend request..she hit ignore.

I just wrote her back and said. "All the best to you too" and left it at that.

Edited June 9, 2010 by dillon

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

girls are good. they are sort of going through a crying spell right now where they only want me or daddy. we got a sitter the other night so hubby and i could go out and it didnt go so well....girls cried the whole time. guess we will have to wait a few months to try that again...

my son is good..he has stepped up to big bro plate and helped me out a lot, laundry, dishes etc...

awww, i agree with dills though about trying to get some time for you and hubby

and good thing on your little man stepping up

Here is the message I sent her along with the friend request. Now mind you I have known her since 1998 and we worked together when I lived in Vegas. She knew my family pretty well over the years.

K, I'm sorry that I didn't get the opportunity to see/visit you while I was in Vegas. My father's passing was extremely hard on me and I was not able to express the pain I was feeling at the time. I apologize if that offended you - you have truly been a good friend in the past.

Her reply...........

Hi P,

My sincere condolences to you and your family. I can't imagine how difficult your fathers death was and I understand how much you were going through. He was a kind, sweet man who always had a positive thought.

We had planned to stop in but did not want to intrude on your family.

All the best,

K

She didn't even accept my friend request..she hit ignore.

I just wrote her back and said. "All the best to you too" and left it at that.

damn girl, you did what you could and your conscience is free

you shouldn't have to apologise for dealing with the death of your father in the first place

maybe one day in the near future you two will be able to make further amends, but until then if she isn't mature enough to spit out what it is that is bothering her........it's on to the next one

i saw these shoes on one of those wedding portfolio links

love it!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Here is the message I sent her along with the friend request. Now mind you I have known her since 1998 and we worked together when I lived in Vegas. She knew my family pretty well over the years.

K, I'm sorry that I didn't get the opportunity to see/visit you while I was in Vegas. My father's passing was extremely hard on me and I was not able to express the pain I was feeling at the time. I apologize if that offended you - you have truly been a good friend in the past.

Her reply...........

Hi P,

My sincere condolences to you and your family. I can't imagine how difficult your fathers death was and I understand how much you were going through. He was a kind, sweet man who always had a positive thought.

We had planned to stop in but did not want to intrude on your family.

All the best,

K

She didn't even accept my friend request..she hit ignore.

I just wrote her back and said. "All the best to you too" and left it at that.

Glad she's out of your life. Obviously being PETTY takes precedence over her truly acknowledging your pain and suffering. Better she's out of your life.

[dancehallquana 5]

omg dillon..that just hurt my heart..

GOOD MORNING ALL!! just read the last page, sorry cyaan ketch up..

dills, man.. it sounds like she took it to dyam serious "didnt want to intrude" omg..

[dillon 6]

Glad she's out of your life. Obviously being PETTY takes precedence over her truly acknowledging your pain and suffering. Better she's out of your life.

You are right...guess you find out who your real friends are in times like that.

[finesse 3]

after we picked up about 50 cigarette butts off our front lawn, hubby and i cleaned our guest room last night..changed the linens, etc...here is what we found leftover from the party (that doesnt belong to us):

1. 1 pair of mens pants

2. a cellphone

3. a blunt

4. a hoodie

5. a tube of lipgloss

6. an earring

7. a case of cd's

I know for sure that there were 6 people that slept in that room. But damn...how u gonna leave so much stuff behind?? did some dude leave the party pantless??

[MRStee 19]

I now it is hard to leave them when they are crying all the time but you and hubby still need a break. Even if you guys go out for a half an hour.

I agree, it will do everybody some good

[sugarapple 1]

Morning everyone, what is up?

[dillon 6]

after we picked up about 50 cigarette butts off our front lawn, hubby and i cleaned our guest room last night..changed the linens, etc...here is what we found leftover from the party (that doesnt belong to us):

1. 1 pair of mens pants

2. a cellphone

3. a blunt

4. a hoodie

5. a tube of lipgloss

6. an earring

7. a case of cd's

I know for sure that there were 6 people that slept in that room. But damn...how u gonna leave so much stuff behind?? did some dude leave the party pantless??

:rofl: :rofl:

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

omg dillon..that just hurt my heart..

GOOD MORNING ALL!! just read the last page, sorry cyaan ketch up..

dills, man.. it sounds like she took it to dyam serious "didnt want to intrude" omg..

well yunno to be fair to her, she probably meant it as she didn't want to get into their personal space as they are greiving

i'm like that, when someone is dealing with a serious issue and i can't offer something to make them feel better, i don't say anything at all

but then if she is using that as an excuse to miss the funeral then yea that is terrible

[sugarapple 1]

Bajan, congrats on your daughter graduation. Your are going to be a pround mama today!