Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[DaDa 1]

Not a thing DW, just chilling and enjoying life. One of our coworkers died In a new york hotel room he was on his way to South Africa to the soccer game. He had to stop and overnight in New york and his friends went out and when they return they found him dies in the hotel room. We are a very close knit to work so it wasa very sad day.

Plus last week we had a family of four from the virgin islands died in a car accident. A fifteen year old boy and his grandparents and great aunt, they was coming back from visiting his father who is in jail. I know his mother very well and she is trying to stay strong and hold it together. Plus I know his aunt and great aunt from the father side of the family. Saint Thomas is very small so everyone knows everyone and something like this hits hard.

But other than that I am thank God for every breath he allows me to take, Thank you Lord!!

Aww Sugar (hugs) so sorry to hear about the recent tragedies. Both stories are all so sad.

[kjenkins86 5]

Morning KJ!

Girl, good luck with that as far as getting your husband to assist you with the package. I think Den did take some interest and actually helped with some of the AOS package. Poe thangs...SMH!

As for my case, yes girl I am over here with a list of tasks to jump on this morning! I need to get off VJ and go and handle that.

@Dada and her stories...

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A quick shout out to all with interviews today...I think mlbarb has their interview today. Best wishes to them!

Ugh, can't wait for it to get outta my hands!!! I can't dance but I'll sure dance when I walk outtathat post office!

I think there's a difference between stingy and FRUGAL!

Nat seems really giving, and likes the finer things in life...but just doesn't want to waste money!

I agree.

[*JG* 2]

For some reason I agree with Steven. You look like you can make a dolar HOLLA!!!!

I'm with Nat on this one. I know men who can blow thru money like water.

[DaDa 1]

Ummmmmmmmmmmm....................... Nat is giving Sex tips??????

:rofl:

Sus yuhseeit!!!! Whoo I have tears coming out I'm laughing so hard and I'm shocked and then you know me I'm trying to figure out what position were they in??

[DaDa 1]

Does anyone remmeber the judge's son who almost certainly killed that girl in Aruba? Been charged and allegedly confessed to killing another one five years later.....Ironic thing, a foundation opens in her honor in DC today....Dem seh God nah sleep!!!

Remember they had him on tape confessing to the girl in Aruba's murder and STILL nuh duh nutting....

Wait so he killed another girl? Was it a tourist?

[DaDa 1]

Hey mama, congrats on AOS approval! Hopefully you'll get those bills down when hubby is settled into a job.

Why the hell did I think you ans shaunsgal were the same person untilnow???

So who's tina?

So sorry to hear that....

My aunt's 3 sons were killed last week in kingston b/c one of 'em wanted to be the area don and the people were not having it. The sad part about it is that 2 of 'em were very well eduacted and the other 1 that wanted to be the don was in bed w/ his baby mama and son and it was the baby mama's cousin that came in and shoot 'em all up, of course except his cousin and the baby. Can you imagine you're related to the person that kills your child's dad? Or for the mother, the person that kills your 3 kids all at once? SAD!

Tina is Spangles....

Wow so sorry to hear about her losing all three sons and then the cousin shooting so reckless like that.If they were in the bed together they were lucky they didnt shoot the child or the mom.

[DaDa 1]

Yes, I was doing my MS in HR Management - Now that I am almost done, I decided I don't want to finish I think I need to just suck it up and do it - But the other side of me is hoping I get a package and thinking bout law school

I would love to work in HR. I was an HR assistant once and I really enjoyed it. Man if you go to law school will you have to start all over or will some of your credits transfer?

[*JG* 2]

Sus yuhseeit!!!! Whoo I have tears coming out I'm laughing so hard and I'm shocked and then you know me I'm trying to figure out what position were they in??

When you figure it out, pass it on. I'm sitting here wondering too.

[DaDa 1]

O.k. ladies am I wrong.

For the last week Nev has had the worst cold and I kept getting on him about it telling him to stay in the house and rest stop running the streets drink liquids etc. Well I noticed the cold that once started off as a sneeze and stuffy nose then grew into a runny nose and cough. Now it’s in his chest and he could barely breathe while talking to me yesterday. The cold is way bad. It’s been almost a week. I have been asking Nev to please go to the dr’s and have it checked out it might be far worse. He claims he’s drinking rum and wata and I think is it bush tea and he keeps telling me its getting better but I can hear its not. So on Thursday I asked him if he didn’t get any better could he please go to the hospital/ dr on Sat? He promised me he would. Well yesterday, Monday, he still didn’t go and I could hear its bad. I was very upset and asked him why hasn’t he been is he afraid of the dr’s? Will it take money because I want you to go there. He told me no he’s getting better he’ll be alright and if in a few days if it doesn’t get better he will go. Why must you wait a few days you need to go now!!!! See with the cold being in his chest I’m worried it might be an affection or ammonia and he needs an antibiotic to kill it. I got so upset and I felt we were arguing so I hung up and didn’t talk to him no more because I knew if I heard him continue to talk I would just go on and on. (I’m the type that won’t let it go.) He was upset he left me some breathless voice mails but I refused to answer. Whatever!

My question is this. For those you of that know more about JA than me is it something I’m missing why he won’t go? Is it not that easy to get treated or does it really cost money because I just don’t understand it. Also was I being unreasonable? I would say tell me the truth but ha one thing about this board you all will. Thanks for letting me vent!

[sus 70]

O.k. ladies am I wrong.

For the last week Nev has had the worst cold and I kept getting on him about it telling him to stay in the house and rest stop running the streets drink liquids etc. Well I noticed the cold that once started off as a sneeze and stuffy nose then grew into a runny nose and cough. Now it’s in his chest and he could barely breathe while talking to me yesterday. The cold is way bad. It’s been almost a week. I have been asking Nev to please go to the dr’s and have it checked out it might be far worse. He claims he’s drinking rum and wata and I think is it bush tea and he keeps telling me its getting better but I can hear its not. So on Thursday I asked him if he didn’t get any better could he please go to the hospital/ dr on Sat? He promised me he would. Well yesterday, Monday, he still didn’t go and I could hear its bad. I was very upset and asked him why hasn’t he been is he afraid of the dr’s? Will it take money because I want you to go there. He told me no he’s getting better he’ll be alright and if in a few days if it doesn’t get better he will go. Why must you wait a few days you need to go now!!!! See with the cold being in his chest I’m worried it might be an affection or ammonia and he needs an antibiotic to kill it. I got so upset and I felt we were arguing so I hung up and didn’t talk to him no more because I knew if I heard him continue to talk I would just go on and on. (I’m the type that won’t let it go.) He was upset he left me some breathless voice mails but I refused to answer. Whatever!

My question is this. For those you of that know more about JA than me is it something I’m missing why he won’t go? Is it not that easy to get treated or does it really cost money because I just don’t understand it. Also was I being unreasonable? I would say tell me the truth but ha one thing about this board you all will. Thanks for letting me vent!

It's a man thing, partly - Many men will not go to the dr. until they are at death's door - And, while it is true that there is free medical care available - you can go and sit for hours and hours to see the doctor, but the actual prescription costs $$ -

DJ and I have had this battle many many times - I finally reached a point with it where I tell him that if he isn't going to do something about it, I don't want to hear him whine about how bad he feels.

[TAMH 2]

Mawning yardies,

Congrats on all the approvals and interviews. Y'all have a blessed day.

[MRStee 19]

Goodmorning all!!! I hope we all have a blessed day today!

I'm working on hubby's aos packet and I'm slowly but surely getting pissed because he's not trying to help and his excuse is that he doesn't understand and my response is "ok, I'll do it all because I'm an immigration lawyer that knows it all" I HATE the fact that he doesn't read, it literally kills me

At first when I read your post I was thinking what was Dens doing your job humping you, lol!! But then I read further. Isn't it nice how things seem to always work out? Good for you but I hope you get stuff done asap...

@ "can you get a pump" Dada, you truly are something else w/ your stories!

Oh ok...

So you put his income on a spreadsheet as well? And why does his only last 2 days?

My hubby thinks I'm stingy w/ money as well, correction, he thinks I'm cheap but I don't pay him no mind b/c when he starts working I'm gonna ask for the most expensive things and I just wanna hear him utter a sigh so I can tell him don't be cheap!

LOL, you are definitely welcome!

Don't worry KJ if G wont help, thats what you have us for!

[Cheyemo 8]

Thanks for letting me join in ya'll!

I would love to work in HR. I was an HR assistant once and I really enjoyed it. Man if you go to law school will you have to start all over or will some of your credits transfer?

I'm in HR and I loves it! Interestingly enough, I wanted to go to Law school too. I guess they both take the same logic.

It's a man thing, partly - Many men will not go to the dr. until they are at death's door - And, while it is true that there is free medical care available - you can go and sit for hours and hours to see the doctor, but the actual prescription costs $$ -

DJ and I have had this battle many many times - I finally reached a point with it where I tell him that if he isn't going to do something about it, I don't want to hear him whine about how bad he feels.

Definitely a man thing! We had to call out the ambulance, fire truck and erebody else on my dad 'cuz he refused to go to the hospital on his own!I would say just let them realize it on their own but usually we're the ones taking care of them once they do!

[MRStee 19]

LMFAO, Dada you ok? You are too funny!!

Hey mama, congrats on AOS approval! Hopefully you'll get those bills down when hubby is settled into a job.

Why the hell did I think you ans shaunsgal were the same person untilnow???

So who's tina?

So sorry to hear that....

My aunt's 3 sons were killed last week in kingston b/c one of 'em wanted to be the area don and the people were not having it. The sad part about it is that 2 of 'em were very well eduacted and the other 1 that wanted to be the don was in bed w/ his baby mama and son and it was the baby mama's cousin that came in and shoot 'em all up, of course except his cousin and the baby. Can you imagine you're related to the person that kills your child's dad? Or for the mother, the person that kills your 3 kids all at once? SAD!

Oooooookkkkaaaaaaayyyyyyy Nat, wow!!!

You said something the other day and I didn't respond to it, instead I said to myself that I bet you're gonna say something sexual soon and shock us all.

In that case tell Steve to ease up!

I wasn't aware you were in school, what are you going for?

Well hopefully you can attend next semester.

I myself need to go and speak to the person that did my taxes because this heffa put that I paid more taxes than I earned (eventhough I got a normal refund!) and it frigged up my financial aide, I used to pay outta pocket since it was a community college but this university that I'm applying to is like quadruple the cost of community collge and I must go for the spring semester or else I won't ever go again.

Very, very, very sad about the killings and please do go to school!

Nat = Steven

Tee = Steve

[MRStee 19]

O.k. ladies am I wrong.

For the last week Nev has had the worst cold and I kept getting on him about it telling him to stay in the house and rest stop running the streets drink liquids etc. Well I noticed the cold that once started off as a sneeze and stuffy nose then grew into a runny nose and cough. Now it's in his chest and he could barely breathe while talking to me yesterday. The cold is way bad. It's been almost a week. I have been asking Nev to please go to the dr's and have it checked out it might be far worse. He claims he's drinking rum and wata and I think is it bush tea and he keeps telling me its getting better but I can hear its not. So on Thursday I asked him if he didn't get any better could he please go to the hospital/ dr on Sat? He promised me he would. Well yesterday, Monday, he still didn't go and I could hear its bad. I was very upset and asked him why hasn't he been is he afraid of the dr's? Will it take money because I want you to go there. He told me no he's getting better he'll be alright and if in a few days if it doesn't get better he will go. Why must you wait a few days you need to go now!!!! See with the cold being in his chest I'm worried it might be an affection or ammonia and he needs an antibiotic to kill it. I got so upset and I felt we were arguing so I hung up and didn't talk to him no more because I knew if I heard him continue to talk I would just go on and on. (I'm the type that won't let it go.) He was upset he left me some breathless voice mails but I refused to answer. Whatever!

My question is this. For those you of that know more about JA than me is it something I'm missing why he won't go? Is it not that easy to get treated or does it really cost money because I just don't understand it. Also was I being unreasonable? I would say tell me the truth but ha one thing about this board you all will. Thanks for letting me vent!

I believe its a man thing and may be a west indian thing. They are very prideful people and also believe anything can be cured with herbal remedies. Maybe he is just letting it take its course. Ive heard my husband say that us Americans will run to the doctor for anything.. Maybe he is just letting nature take its course.

I know you care and want him to go but he is grown. He is doing what he feels is best for him. Just telling him "Oh well if you don't get it checked out, you won't be around when I come to visit JA" lol sike don't say that to him sis.....