Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[kjenkins86 5]

Hey yall!!! TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Man, when are my lotto #'s going to come out? When they do come out free drinks and unlimited vacations to JA for a year for [b]everyone[/b]

Yea so my baby is 8 months today!!! Wow it was just yesterday I was being mad and pg! Yea good times.

Anyway yall been chattn it up alot today.

Any exciting plans?? I'll catch up in a min, but WELCOME KH2010!!!

CONGRATS ERIC!!!!

We should start a VJ due date pool, so many mamas around here!!

Nope, no plans at all but I can't wait for the 19th so I can meet up qith Tee and show G atlantic city for the 1t time

Hey ladies...I see that more congratulations are in order for the ladies that have recently found out that they are pregnant! CONGRATS! I wish you all happy and successful pregnancies. But I do have a question for you, (and particularly for the ladies whose husband's have only been over here a couple of months)--although this is a very happy time for you all, do you feel like having a baby so soon after the arrival of your man has created a super-additional strain on you guys. Especially if they are not working. I know how difficult a time that was for my husband and I (his boredom and both of our frustrations, adjustments, etc), and cannot imagine what that kind of add'l stress could have done. And I know that you cannot prepare for everything, but I'm just wondering was it a concious decision on your part to try to get pregnant or was it something that "just happened". My husbands been here for 7 months now (and working for 4 mos), and we're STILL adjusting to our new way of living. And although we both want children, when we talk about it honestly, we cannot imagine having a child right now with so much other stuff going on...I would love to hear your thoughts...Be blessed

Hi, your question somewhat applies to me since my hubby has been here for only 3 months and already we're trying to have a child and he's not working. I've always wanted to have kids, whether or not there would be a dad in the picture and I see it this way, if I'm suppose to prepare to have a child (such as finish school, buy house, travel the world etc) I won't start having kids until I'm near 40. I have a stable job, get paid really well, have great benefits, life insurance blah blah blah and that plus the passion to have a child and the passion to want to do great for my unborn child is enough to motivate me to do for my child when he/she comes. It will definetly be a strain but who said it would be easy, even the rich has it difficult at times. I can't speak for anyone but myself and so as of now all I need to do is stop spending so wild and start saving.

Hope I answered your question...

lol, it was dude I had talked to for a couple years and decided to visit, he was kinda chunky (not my type at all) he had a lil ####### and he tried to sleep with me on a twin bed, he snored really loud and had draws full of porno magazines with women with big boobies. I stayed with him for almost a week. It was horrible

Ooooh weee

Tee you are shot out, fo real gurl!!!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

SuGARApple, sorry that everthing is taking so long, but I was wondering has you SO ever spent a large amount of time on US soil before? Did he have a visitor visa?

[Tosh Love 77]

Same thing happens with us. And Mikel is so stubborn that if they don't say good-bye or good night even he won't suck it up and say it to them. Ohhhhh and if they don't say good afternoon to him when the get home from school you would think the world ended. Now this is from Marley and Jazz so it might just be a kid thing and not defiant step child thing going on Q. Think about it...we have never had to have such a formal greeting with them for their entire lives. I would always pick Marley up from daycare/school and just start rippin and running with justher. Our hello was just seeing each other but now that Mikel is here there is more formality with greetings. Did I just make any sense at all?

Same here Sis, same here....Everything is related to respect. I just throw up my hands and grab a botttle of rum.

Edited June 5, 2010 by Shaunsgal

[sugarapple 1]

IDK. It is irritating though.

I don't call it corny. I call it underhanded. Like they want to trip you up. BS if you ask me.

Pure BS, they dont even let us see the medical cause when I handed the lady the envelope, she did not even ask if I would like to review it.

The least they should do is hand it back to after they open it for you to review it and make sure they dont change it.

BS!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Tosh Love 77]

Hi Yardies (((WAVING))) wah gwannn. What have I missed?

My 19 year old daughter is a 36DDD and we are having a very hard time finding swim wear tops. Does anyone know where we can find cute ones. My friend says if we find one in the maternity store or a plus size one she can alter it.

That is my size and I go to Avenue and Topic and Ashley Stewart. Most DDDs don't start until 38 so it is often difficult to find,

[sugarapple 1]

SuGARApple, sorry that everthing is taking so long, but I was wondering has you SO ever spent a large amount of time on US soil before? Did he have a visitor visa?

He has never been to the US. So i dont even know what the hold up is journey..feeling helpless.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Okay, is his name a common name? Do he have any immediate relatives here, that might be sharing his name? Call The embassy on Monday and question the time frame?

[DaDa 1]

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Dang, this is the first time in forever that there was a ton of chatter...

That's what I said Nat so nice to see some chatter going on. Loves it!

[My4rmylife 0]

I may be wrong but I am sure you can apply for AOS but NOT an EAD. If you can apply before filing for AOS, I would be AMAZED if was BEFORE getting married! Do keep us updated though!!!! Would be nice if you CAN apply before!

i read you can apply but it would only be valid for the 90 days of the original visa

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Nope, no plans at all but I can't wait for the 19th so I can meet up qith Tee and show G atlantic city for the 1t time

Hi, your question somewhat applies to me since my hubby has been here for only 3 months and already we're trying to have a child and he's not working. I've always wanted to have kids, whether or not there would be a dad in the picture and I see it this way, if I'm suppose to prepare to have a child (such as finish school, buy house, travel the world etc) I won't start having kids until I'm near 40. I have a stable job, get paid really well, have great benefits, life insurance blah blah blah and that plus the passion to have a child and the passion to want to do great for my unborn child is enough to motivate me to do for my child when he/she comes. It will definetly be a strain but who said it would be easy, even the rich has it difficult at times. I can't speak for anyone but myself and so as of now all I need to do is stop spending so wild and start saving.

Hope I answered your question...

Ooooh weee

Tee you are shot out, fo real gurl!!!

Thanks for replying KJ. I definitely hear what you're saying...I recognize that it is never "easy" for anyone really-no matter how much money you may have, but I guess I was thinking in terms of your husband's perceptions/thoughts. Now don't get me wrong, I know that all of our men (or almost all of them) would love to have a child. I get that, but I also know how very important it is for that same man to feel like HE is providing for his child. I have all of those things as well, good job, good benefits, insurance, passion, etc...but the truth is that alot of men would have insecurities or frustrations on SOME level if they were not able to give these things to their child (or at least felt like they were able to contribute) as well...which is what I was talking about when I was talking about the super-add'l stressors. And good luck to you and the hubby on the baby-making!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Thanks for replying KJ. I definitely hear what you're saying...I recognize that it is never "easy" for anyone really-no matter how much money you may have, but I guess I was thinking in terms of your husband's perceptions/thoughts. Now don't get me wrong, I know that all of our men (or almost all of them) would love to have a child. I get that, but I also know how very important it is for that same man to feel like HE is providing for his child. I have all of those things as well, good job, good benefits, insurance, passion, etc...but the truth is that alot of men would have insecurities or frustrations on SOME level if they were not able to give these things to their child (or at least felt like they were able to contribute) as well...which is what I was talking about when I was talking about the super-add'l stressors. And good luck to you and the hubby on the baby-making!

Exactly!

Edited June 5, 2010 by Dens Wifey

[DedicatedWife 4]

GUESS WHO'S BACK!!!!

Training was putting something tough on me. I have been going for One whole month and three weeks straight. No days off. I really need a drink. Cause yall know it is 5 o'clock somewhere. But I can't.

Eric and I took that R. Kelly song literally and went half on a baby. Ise pregnant yall. OMG!!!!!

And my husband has been on every job interview known to man. Hopefully this last one was the one.

OMG!!! Congratulations!!!!

I hope that the interviews pan out for Eric soon!

[DedicatedWife 4]

That is my size and I go to Avenue and Topic and Ashley Stewart. Most DDDs don't start until 38 so it is often difficult to find,

Hi Shaunsgal, how have you been? I hit up those stores as well! Ashley Stewart's prices done went up!

[MRStee 19]

Nope, no plans at all but I can't wait for the 19th so I can meet up qith Tee and show G atlantic city for the 1t time

Hi, your question somewhat applies to me since my hubby has been here for only 3 months and already we're trying to have a child and he's not working. I've always wanted to have kids, whether or not there would be a dad in the picture and I see it this way, if I'm suppose to prepare to have a child (such as finish school, buy house, travel the world etc) I won't start having kids until I'm near 40. I have a stable job, get paid really well, have great benefits, life insurance blah blah blah and that plus the passion to have a child and the passion to want to do great for my unborn child is enough to motivate me to do for my child when he/she comes. It will definetly be a strain but who said it would be easy, even the rich has it difficult at times. I can't speak for anyone but myself and so as of now all I need to do is stop spending so wild and start saving.

Hope I answered your question...

Ooooh weee

Tee you are shot out, fo real gurl!!!

Gurl I was young dumb and full of.... well you know lol Just thinking about it gives me the heebie jeebies lol

Same here Sis, same here....Everything is related to respect. I just throw up my hands and grab a botttle of rum.

yep yep sounds good to me....lol

Good morning everyone... Off to celebrate my nieces 3rd birthday.... have a blessed day!

[bajankutie 4]

Nope, no plans at all but I can't wait for the 19th so I can meet up qith Tee and show G atlantic city for the 1t time

Hi, your question somewhat applies to me since my hubby has been here for only 3 months and already we're trying to have a child and he's not working. I've always wanted to have kids, whether or not there would be a dad in the picture and I see it this way, if I'm suppose to prepare to have a child (such as finish school, buy house, travel the world etc) I won't start having kids until I'm near 40. I have a stable job, get paid really well, have great benefits, life insurance blah blah blah and that plus the passion to have a child and the passion to want to do great for my unborn child is enough to motivate me to do for my child when he/she comes. It will definetly be a strain but who said it would be easy, even the rich has it difficult at times. I can't speak for anyone but myself and so as of now all I need to do is stop spending so wild and start saving.

Hope I answered your question...

Ooooh weee

Tee you are shot out, fo real gurl!!!

Well my hubby wants a child I have 2 teenagers and he has a4yr old that will be coming over and living with us also. He wants to have a baby that is ours but I told him we need to wait because we haven't spend alot of time with just us and with the other kids and the adjustment for him and his daughter that isn't best at this time.