Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Hey ladies...I see that more congratulations are in order for the ladies that have recently found out that they are pregnant! CONGRATS! I wish you all happy and successful pregnancies. But I do have a question for you, (and particularly for the ladies whose husband's have only been over here a couple of months)--although this is a very happy time for you all, do you feel like having a baby so soon after the arrival of your man has created a super-additional strain on you guys. Especially if they are not working. I know how difficult a time that was for my husband and I (his boredom and both of our frustrations, adjustments, etc), and cannot imagine what that kind of add'l stress could have done. And I know that you cannot prepare for everything, but I'm just wondering was it a concious decision on your part to try to get pregnant or was it something that "just happened". My husbands been here for 7 months now (and working for 4 mos), and we're STILL adjusting to our new way of living. And although we both want children, when we talk about it honestly, we cannot imagine having a child right now with so much other stuff going on...I would love to hear your thoughts...Be blessed

[MRStee 19]

Of course! And Shaunsgirl. And JOURNEE if she's ever in town.

OK, let me rephrase a little.....what if they do listen to the parent bad mouthing the other and behave accordingly.

You were lucky, Quana.

Oh HELL to the NO. I've seen you drink. Like a damn FISH!!!!!!

i dont remember just that it was a miliary base...

Please don't tell me she was in East St. Louis.

Where????????

[MRStee 19]

Huh? We don't have an army base in St. Louis. Ft. Leonard Wood or Scott AFB closest. Neither in St. Louis. No Hugs for you......

that leonard wood sounds familiar, it was years ago... all i remember is getting off the plane and waiting hours for a greyhound and dude picked me up at the greyhound station.. thats how bad of an experience it was for me... I waited hours and it poured cats and dogs....I felt stranded

[MRStee 19]

Remind me what happened to you NEAR St. Louis, Tee.

lol, it was dude I had talked to for a couple years and decided to visit, he was kinda chunky (not my type at all) he had a lil ####### and he tried to sleep with me on a twin bed, he snored really loud and had draws full of porno magazines with women with big boobies. I stayed with him for almost a week. It was horrible

You know if you drank while you watched the kids, it might be kind of fun to observe.

Finesse can watch the kids lol

Well, since Dillon not watching the kids, you can. What's a few more?????

Hey guys- only have a few mins...

Making beef steaks... hmmmm

My mom mad at me cuz i aint going all the way to detroit for graduation tomorrow

hubby wants ideas for our vacation?

IDEAS ANY?

Jamaica! Sike okay depends on what yall wanna do

i love nassau!! i was going there like some of you were going to jamaica LOL

im going to the bahamas at the end of the month for a cruise I can't wait...

OOOOOOOOOOHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh sounds nice... We were thinking about Jamaica but.... yeah

Then Puerto Rico since he hasnt been since he was a kid, but bahamas sounds wonderful...

Do it!!! Go to PR

[MRStee 19]

GUESS WHO'S BACK!!!!

Training was putting something tough on me. I have been going for One whole month and three weeks straight. No days off. I really need a drink. Cause yall know it is 5 o'clock somewhere. But I can't.

Eric and I took that R. Kelly song literally and went half on a baby. Ise pregnant yall. OMG!!!!!

And my husband has been on every job interview known to man. Hopefully this last one was the one.

Congrats!!! wooooooooo hoooooooooooooo

[sugarapple 1]

Here is what is says on the 765 instructions. So, I think we are good. Got the NOA1 that is was accepted. Guess we will see

K-1 Nonimmigrant Fiance(e) of U.S. Citizen or K-2 Dependent--(a)(6). File Form I-765 if you are

filing within 90 days from the date of entry. This EAD cannot be renewed. Any EAD application other than for a replacement must be based on your pending application for adjustment under ©(9).

Hey Kh2010 I interpret it just like how JAenglish says based on your pending AOS, any EAD other than replacement. But like you said we will see, please let me now for when my turn comes, Thanks

Immigration terms it is like dicphering a foreign language.

Ok I remember now. You CAN apply for an EAD, but it is only valid for 90 days....

Yes you are good!

LOL got me confused, like i said foreign language.

[MRStee 19]

of course not.. DADA IS NOT INCLUDED IN THIS STATEMENT.. mi nuh guh say NUTTING.. been shaking my head in disbelief cuz all the naysayers doing the same thing they were upset with me for doing.. CRAZY.. but i won't be like them, if it looks legit, i will be happy for them, even if it doesn't i still will, cuz i got my own relationship to worry about..yuhseeit!

Right Q shoooooooooooooo

[MRStee 19]

She linked up wid a man that couldn't

Dada yesssssssssssss lol after those years of talking to him poe thing... he wanted to be in a relationship with me oh gosh!

[sugarapple 1]

So wait you were with him when they took it? Shut up!!! Isn't a visitor's visa to visit so what if you come back and fourth? Kissteet well I'm glad you two are together anyway thanks for sharing I think that is so sweet. Another girl on here met her guy through a band!!!

So you'll learn I love hearing about weddings it's my thing. So tell me your plans for yours. One day I'm going to have my own wedding planning team:

Dada- Will Coordinate

English- Will take the pics

Lady C Will assit English with helping the couple pose.

Sus- Will make sure all legal documents are in order.

JG- Will plan the bachloreete and bachelor parties

Tee- Will write the vows

JQ Boom- Will bless the couple with a prayer

Dillion- Will watch the kids during the ceremony/reception

Jenkins- Will coach the couple on how to resolve anger issues

Philly- Will select all the music

Lawny- Will cook the food

Nat- Will show them ways on how to save money

Jamerian- Will do their couple massage

Suga- Will plan their honey moon in the VI Islands

Quana- Will keep the guest pon de dance floor

Right Q 2007 was a heck of a year....

I love this sounds like a well put together team, lol love my part no problem.

[MRStee 19]

giving that he was so young..i agree that its really an issue of those crazy teen years, i mean we hate our own parents during that time, let alone someone we know we dont share blood with..its even harder when you have different ages, cuz u expect more from the older ones..i always have to check myself in that area too, and be as impartial as possible.

Yep cause parents are the voice of reason and they aint tryin to hear us...

[sugarapple 1]

You know I forget to tell you guys them F^%&ing owners of the company only gave us salaried employees 1,000 raise to everyone who got after 4 years

They gave the delivery drivers a .25 extra per hour them F'ers I got an extra 500 hhmm thanks (sacarsam) cause my boss fought for me.

Plus they aint give us no retro pay they said in 2006 whenever we get raise he will retro back to JULY 1, 2006, but me aint hear nothing yet .

AS Tanya Stephens say "WHATEVER"

[MRStee 19]

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Hey Kh2010 I interpret it just like how JAenglish says based on your pending AOS, any EAD other than replacement. But like you said we will see, please let me now for when my turn comes, Thanks

Immigration terms it is like dicphering a foreign language.

LOL got me confused, like i said foreign language.

Yes it is! I spend time reading different forums and that helped me to get a better understanding

[MRStee 19]

You know I forget to tell you guys them F^%&ing owners of the company only gave us salaried employees 1,000 raise to everyone who got after 4 years

They gave the delivery drivers a .25 extra per hour them F'ers I got an extra 500 hhmm thanks (sacarsam) cause my boss fought for me.

Plus they aint give us no retro pay they said in 2006 whenever we get raise he will retro back to JULY 1, 2006, but me aint hear nothing yet .

AS Tanya Stephens say "WHATEVER"

I never use to like Tanya, but im in love love love with her new cd.. i play it to and from work... She is the truth!

[sugarapple 1]

Did you all hear Nicki Minaj has a remix with Gyptian Hold Em. I love it!! Man I love his voice. Wait now that I'm listening to the lyrics he isn't talking bout ..... Wait yes he is .... OMG!!!!

Be back let me listen to this again

Yes girl I been hearing that song he was here in April, yes he is talking about what you think.

[sugarapple 1]

Aww nice. My next wedding I so want it on the beach!

Well come on to the VI, we have some lovely beaches especially in St. John.