Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Good morning all!!

been a minute, hope all is well with all the vj crew..big ups to those i havent chatted with on FB..

been crazy busy at work, got a temporary promotion filling in for a lead and now its over..Can't say i will miss the job as much as the money.. I like to be responsible for myself only.

Roger is well, still at Home Depot, HATES working overnight "away from him wifey" so we are on the search again for a daytime.. i told him he might sacrifice his weekends, but i guess he is willing.

He is doing well with the food delivery, gets RAVES on his food, I think his restaurant idea might really come to fruition..we praying..

He will be in JA june 4th-7th to see his kids and parents..Im staying behind this time.. ALLLL this time i didn't get to experience the "family" gifts, but it is rearing its ugly head LOL..its really not that bad, he is only buying for the kids, his parents and siblings and most of these ppl, he hasn't seen in several years so guess he can't go empty handed.. he's REALLY good about making sure he gets "something" for them, but within his budget so its all good.

my youngest is out of school as of last week and my oldest has one more, so hear come the summer plans..starting w/ memorial day..anybody doing anything fun???

Morning Q! Glad to hear that all is well with you guys. Roger is holding it down at Depot... that's awesome about his side thing. I love to hear when people are able to do what they love and are passionate about.

No big plans over here for us for this long weekend. We may try to link up with some friends but that's about it. I see sleep definitely on the radar!

[LadyC 1]

Good morning all!!

been a minute, hope all is well with all the vj crew..big ups to those i havent chatted with on FB..

been crazy busy at work, got a temporary promotion filling in for a lead and now its over..Can't say i will miss the job as much as the money.. I like to be responsible for myself only.

Roger is well, still at Home Depot, HATES working overnight "away from him wifey" so we are on the search again for a daytime.. i told him he might sacrifice his weekends, but i guess he is willing.

He is doing well with the food delivery, gets RAVES on his food, I think his restaurant idea might really come to fruition..we praying..

He will be in JA june 4th-7th to see his kids and parents..Im staying behind this time.. ALLLL this time i didn't get to experience the "family" gifts, but it is rearing its ugly head LOL..its really not that bad, he is only buying for the kids, his parents and siblings and most of these ppl, he hasn't seen in several years so guess he can't go empty handed.. he's REALLY good about making sure he gets "something" for them, but within his budget so its all good.

my youngest is out of school as of last week and my oldest has one more, so hear come the summer plans..starting w/ memorial day..anybody doing anything fun???

Hi Quana...Glad everything is going well. Good Luck on the job search. Tell Roger to have a good time in JA and be safe. We are goint to NYC for the weekend so that will be fun.

[DedicatedWife 4]

oh yeah..my bro in law's family is in kingston and safe, but very scared.. i can't imagine the terror these ppl are going through.. so sad..Let us keep them up in prayer and continue to tear down the works of the enemy.

That's very good news, glad to hear they are safe! Girl, we been watching the news and reports online into wee hours of the morning.

[dancehallquana 5]

Morning Q! Glad to hear that all is well with you guys. Roger is holding it down at Depot... that's awesome about his side thing. I love to hear when people are able to do what they love and are passionate about.

No big plans over here for us for this long weekend. We may try to link up with some friends but that's about it. I see sleep definitely on the radar!

OKAY!!! i feel ya on the sleep, thats usually how I like to spend a day off!!

[dancehallquana 5]

Hi Quana...Glad everything is going well. Good Luck on the job search. Tell Roger to have a good time in JA and be safe. We are goint to NYC for the weekend so that will be fun.

that will be awesome!! i wish i had planned a trip somewhere w/ a 3 day weekend and him leaving after that..

but i forgot and planned my daughter 13th bday that sunday.. we gonna hit up dave and busters so that should be fun, then maybe i can beg somebody to watch them and get roger and i a hotel or something..GIRL WE NEED A BREAK..these hours are frustrating him like mad, and im tired trying to come in from work and do my wifely duties which lately been HARD.. man i know plenty of ppl do this kind of schedule, but honestly.. mi cyaan manage..

i see you were having problems with your step son.. i hope it all works out..my kids are STILL not really warmed up to Roger, but i know behavioral problems makes things even MORE complicated so stay encouraged

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Quana, why 'bittersweet' interview?

[LadyC 1]

that will be awesome!! i wish i had planned a trip somewhere w/ a 3 day weekend and him leaving after that..

but i forgot and planned my daughter 13th bday that sunday.. we gonna hit up dave and busters so that should be fun, then maybe i can beg somebody to watch them and get roger and i a hotel or something..GIRL WE NEED A BREAK..these hours are frustrating him like mad, and im tired trying to come in from work and do my wifely duties which lately been HARD.. man i know plenty of ppl do this kind of schedule, but honestly.. mi cyaan manage..

i see you were having problems with your step son.. i hope it all works out..my kids are STILL not really warmed up to Roger, but i know behavioral problems makes things even MORE complicated so stay encouraged

When G was looking for a job he applied at Home Depot but he was not happy with the hours either. He said he want to be home in his bed with his wife....So I understand Roger not being happy with that shift. The hotel getaway sounds fun. I hope you find a sitter.

We are hoping he settles in soon its been a very time for us. One day my husband just broke down and cried because he could not believe what he was seeing. I had to call Mrstee and let her listen to how my step son was behaving. it was a mess...

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana, why 'bittersweet' interview?

GIRL..you would have to go back and read that saga, it was CRAZY!! LOL, but the short and sweet of it was Roger is so softspoken and the lady did not believe that Roger and I was a real couple and he was gonna bring his babymama to the States, if she wasn't already here..but she approved us on the spot.. LOL

[dancehallquana 5]

When G was looking for a job he applied at Home Depot but he was not happy with the hours either. He said he want to be home in his bed with his wife....So I understand Roger not being happy with that shift. The hotel getaway sounds fun. I hope you find a sitter.

We are hoping he settles in soon its been a very time for us. One day my husband just broke down and cried because he could not believe what he was seeing. I had to call Mrstee and let her listen to how my step son was behaving. it was a mess...

girl those are Roger's EXACT words.. these yard men are too much alike sometimes LOL we always had said we would not accept an overnight job, well HD got him in offering 8pm-12am which he was okay with, but since day one it has been "suggested" OT till 5am..he was all happy about it at first but now he is NOT feeling it..

thats heartwrenching about ur stepson, did he always act like that, how did ur husband handle it in JA??

I have 2 step sons.. 9 and 6, i often wonder what it would be like to leave home at such a young age..i know kids adjust but i hope they do not have too much of a hard time..

Edited May 26, 2010 by dancehallquana

[LadyC 1]

girl those are Roger's EXACT words.. these yard men are too much alike sometimes LOL we always had said we would not accept an overnight job, well HD got him in offering 8pm-12am which he was okay with, but since day one it has been "suggested" OT till 5am..he was all happy about it at first but now he is NOT feeling it..

thats heartwrenching about ur stepson, did he always act like that, how did ur husband handle it in JA??

I have 2 step sons.. 9 and 6, i often wonder what it would be like to leave home at such a young age..i know kids adjust but i hope they do not have too much of a hard time..

Wow HD is tripping. Im so glad G found a job with great hours. M-F, 8 -5, off on weekends.

My step son lived with his mom and when G did get him he acted up and G just gave him what he wanted. I know a lot of kids who left home early so I was prepared for the adjust stuff but this is not that. He throw tantrums at the drop of a hat and they usually last for hours.

[dillon 6]

Good Morning Ladies,

Mikel enjoyed his first day of work and was up bright and early this morning for work. He got a call last night for a hotel for Valet parking and has an interview on Friday for that. He is going to see if he can do both since he is going to be on 2nd shift for the job he has now 4pm-12am. Keep your fingers crossed. The valet job would be from 7am-11am.

Q~ Nice to see you around.

LadyC~ I hope that taking him to therapy will help and that he comes around. Everything takes time.

[dancehallquana 5]

Wow HD is tripping. Im so glad G found a job with great hours. M-F, 8 -5, off on weekends.

My step son lived with his mom and when G did get him he acted up and G just gave him what he wanted. I know a lot of kids who left home early so I was prepared for the adjust stuff but this is not that. He throw tantrums at the drop of a hat and they usually last for hours.

those are EXCELLENT hrs C..how long has he been there?? i hope we find something like that this time around .. i don't want him to work weekends..

omg, roger had a lil cousin like that in FL..he would holler and scream and bumbaclaat.. and he was only 4!! and they just get tired of it and give in.. so now ya'll have to redo YEARS of spoiling..HARSH, but nothing too hard for God.. i pray you have peace and strength while u wait for the change..

[LadyC 1]

Good Morning Ladies,

Mikel enjoyed his first day of work and was up bright and early this morning for work. He got a call last night for a hotel for Valet parking and has an interview on Friday for that. He is going to see if he can do both since he is going to be on 2nd shift for the job he has now 4pm-12am. Keep your fingers crossed. The valet job would be from 7am-11am.

Q~ Nice to see you around.

LadyC~ I hope that taking him to therapy will help and that he comes around. Everything takes time.

See it dehhhh..God dont always come when we want but he comes right on time. Good Luck on the interview Mikel

Yes Dills we are hoping for the same thing too. Its a start so easy does it we have the time

[dancehallquana 5]

Good Morning Ladies,

Mikel enjoyed his first day of work and was up bright and early this morning for work. He got a call last night for a hotel for Valet parking and has an interview on Friday for that. He is going to see if he can do both since he is going to be on 2nd shift for the job he has now 4pm-12am. Keep your fingers crossed. The valet job would be from 7am-11am.

Q~ Nice to see you around.

LadyC~ I hope that taking him to therapy will help and that he comes around. Everything takes time.

hey dillsy bug..omg..so glad mikel found a job AND maybe a second!! thats great.. hours are good too, he can rest in between.

[LadyC 1]

those are EXCELLENT hrs C..how long has he been there?? i hope we find something like that this time around .. i don't want him to work weekends..

omg, roger had a lil cousin like that in FL..he would holler and scream and bumbaclaat.. and he was only 4!! and they just get tired of it and give in.. so now ya'll have to redo YEARS of spoiling..HARSH, but nothing too hard for God.. i pray you have peace and strength while u wait for the change..

This is G's 3rd week. He is a Porter at an Apt complex for seniors. Thank you for the prayers Q