Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

hi have a good nite long tyme since chat pon VJ take care

[NatPatBen 3]

Got my and my son's NOA1s today!!!! :dance: :dance:

That's great!

Chiny: Did your name used to be Marlita? If so I was just thinking about you like last week. Miss you on here.

HotLegz

Does anyone watch the Real Housewives of NJ?

Yup, but I missed it this week. Whose team are you on? The Mafia family or Danielle?

Hello, SweetSugahDumplin.

[ShaNette 4]

That's great!

HotLegz Oh yea!

Yup, but I missed it this week. Whose team are you on? The Mafia family or Danielle?

Hello, SweetSugahDumplin.

Girl Team Mafia! Danielle is a crazy B! She's one of those that will just show up somewhere and start shootin! Watch this week's, I really feel sorry for her kids

[Thompson2 1]

Hello all!!

Congrats JQ BOOM on the baby!!

Congrats MrsTee on school!!

Congrats Jae on NOA1!!

Congrats KJ on no tumor!!

Congrats (insert correct name ) on the interview approval!! There was just someone right??

Congrats Finesse on the return of the sexy parties!! ( I am worrying now about those 6 weeks)

Congrats LadyC on G's job!!

One last Congrats just incase I missed someone, which I am sure I did.

So what's going on with this Yardie Link Up?? Who is going besides Tee and I? Are we still meeting for lunch on the 22nd?

Speaking of food. I REALLY need to learn how to cook for my husband. I tried learning from his mom, but she just eyes everything and then when I come home I can't remember how much to add of each thing. So if anyone has any recipes with actual measure amounts that they could share I would really appreciate it. If you could send me a message on FB that would be great.

Looking forward to seeing whoever will be in NY.

[Thompson2 1]

Wait, hold up. I almost forgot to Congratulate Dada on her move! Next Congrats is for the job she is GOING to get there. I knew I was missing someone. I hope that is all.

[JAPrincess 27]

Lawd, it's almost 11pm and imma never finish reading before I pass out.

I must say that I got MAXIMUM respect for this post JG!!!

This is a public forum. I am a vet for all intents and purposes. And, for however many years I 've been on here, I've shared the good the bad and the ugly. Some days I talk a lot and some days I don't give a ####### about what anyone says on here. It's not any of you though. That's all on me.

The statement that this board has changed has come up over and over. Of course, it's changed. Who said it???? Someone wise yesterday...Jamerican?....it evolves with each batch of newcomers and who decides to stay and who decides to go. And, it depends on what is shared. We still share the same ups and downs. We still yell at each other from time to time. We still love and we still support. The one glaring change (well besides Nat's coupon talk....smile) is the sex talk. Personally, I can take both Nat and the sex talk only so much. And, honestly, I am questioning my faith right now and think all the God talk is a bunch of #######. At the same time, I wish I believed as deeply. You see it?

But.........if someone else enjoys it, who am I to say a damn thing. I have the option to skim over anything I want and to comment on anything I want. If I am not interested that day, I skim. If I am, I participate. This board does not live or die on my interests or comments. So, who the hell cares. Talk about what you want to talk about. If no one comments at all, maybe you should let it go. If there are comments, then, you are keeping this forum alive and it's what it was meant to be.

When someone needs visa help, we'll go back to helping them. When they don't, we will entertain ourselves in other ways.

I don't think people completely ignore or skip over talk they don't agree with. I've said many things on here over the years and even if no public comments are made, I get PMs to chat. This board still serves it's purpose. I try to be as diplomatic as possible, even when I've seen it all before or have my doubts. If I can't be, I will PM you with my concerns. You know who you are on here. If you tell me to STFU or move along, so what? I tried. I don't feel the need to be rude to anyone cause I don't see the purpose in it. If you are nice to me, I'll do my damndest to be nice to you.

Can't say I agree with every word that is written here. The tone bugs me sometimes. The words bug me a lot....as evidenced yesterday. But, I can say I don't like how or what you said, without attacking you. I have never liked any of the attacks on here. If you don't like someone on here, please keep your comments clearly on the up and up. Say what you want to say; but leave the biting comments out of it. You aren't helping anyone on here by cutting down someone. Your comments that are truly helpful and insightful are actually lost when you do.

You all could me and I'd probably never leave. I have been through much that I hope none of you ever go through. And life is as tough right now as it's ever been for me. I have a lot to say and some helpful advice. When it's needed, I will throw it out there. When a referee is needed, I will try my best. And, when I'm just plain bored, I expect you all to entertain me.

STOP PICKING ON PEOPLE YOU DON'T LIKE.

STOP TAKING EVERY DAMN THING SO PERSONAL.

IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY, SAY IT......RESPECTFULLY.

Those are the 3 rules I live by. Try to anyhow.

There is no place else out there like this board.....shared adventures is what I like to call it. Whether good or bad, we have all been there, done that, going to do that, wishing we'd never done that, etc. It's where we were meant to be. And, I know personally, I need all of you goofballs.

All I cared about when I came here yesterday was that someone I consider a friend was hurting ((Ells))

I have not read or posted in here since December because in truth it's painful and I am not through it yet... maybe when we know the embassy's decision I will come here and spill my guts in the company of those who understand as no one else could. ((VJ)) This board is still serving it's purpose IMHO. No one else could understand the things we have been through. No one else can help those who will be going through it.

The back and forth leaves me feeling a little sick

Nobody is perfect, each and every one of us has a crack in our ####

Thank you to all who wished me well for June... the appointment is only to drop off the waiver package... the processing time from then is 2-4 months...

Maybe by August he will be able to hold his first born child...

see, now I am crying... this is why I do not post... I'm just trying to keep it together ya'll...

To the people I have connected with on here, I thank you, I love you, I could not have made it without you...

Bless

[jamerican 2]

Hey yall!!!!!

Okay here's my two cents for whoever: Why is it that when there is a disagreement thats when everyone old and new come and post? Its like when a "family" member dies and the only time you see them (family) is if theres a funeral. I don't personally know or have I met anyone in person on here, so to me the board hasn't changed much. IDK, I like to keep it positive and neutral. I'm just saying it would be nice to have full house on the norm not just when theres tension.

Anyways, peace, love and SOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUL Train!!

Girl you hit the nail on the head on this one.....

JG....I am with JAPrincess, I so love what you had to say....THANKS

JAPrincess...girl, you know I am one of the few still going through this part of the Journey...I feel your pain. I was about to ask you what exactly happens on June 11th..but glad you explained it. So odd that you have to have a date assigned just to drop off the paperwork...GOOD LORD!

[JAPrincess 27]

JAPrincess...girl, you know I am one of the few still going through this part of the Journey...I feel your pain. I was about to ask you what exactly happens on June 11th..but glad you explained it. So odd that you have to have a date assigned just to drop off the paperwork...GOOD LORD!

Yeah girl, they gave him a white slip denying his visa and a blue slip asking him to come back with the I-601 and supporting documents... they told him 2-4 months processing time. The good news is that Kingston has a department that processes waivers. Many countries send the I-601 back the the states and I have read that can take 6 months+ to process. ugh!

[jamerican 2]

Yeah girl, they gave him a white slip denying his visa and a blue slip asking him to come back with the I-601 and supporting documents... they told him 2-4 months processing time. The good news is that Kingston has a department that processes waivers. Many countries send the I-601 back the the states and I have read that can take 6 months+ to process. ugh!

Well, we have to remain positive and believe that this will happen with the utmost urgency.....I am planning for a August West Coast Yardie HOOK UP with ALL THE MEN!!!

[JAPrincess 27]

Yes!

Lets make that hook up my WEDDING day!!

Ya'll are surely invited!

I better get some sleep... that 6am wake-up call is gonna come all too soon

Night VJ

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

JaEnglish: Aren't you a photographer? I think I remember lookin at your website awhile ago.

Yes, guilty as charged!!!!

hi have a good nite long tyme since chat pon VJ take care

Heyyyyyyyy sis!!!! Welcome back LOL

[NatPatBen 3]

Good morning.

7 am meeting. I rather sleep until 8:15.

[Always Blessed 1]

Good Morning All

[1luv 1]

MORNING ALL!

How are u doing this morning always Blessed? Do any of ur co workers know yet?

[DedicatedWife 4]

Morning All! Hope everyone is having a great morning! I won't be on as much today...work has me all hemmed up! Just wanted to drop in briefly!

Lawd, it's almost 11pm and imma never finish reading before I pass out.

I must say that I got MAXIMUM respect for this post JG!!!

All I cared about when I came here yesterday was that someone I consider a friend was hurting ((Ells))

I have not read or posted in here since December because in truth it's painful and I am not through it yet... maybe when we know the embassy's decision I will come here and spill my guts in the company of those who understand as no one else could. ((VJ)) This board is still serving it's purpose IMHO. No one else could understand the things we have been through. No one else can help those who will be going through it.

The back and forth leaves me feeling a little sick

Nobody is perfect, each and every one of us has a crack in our ####

Thank you to all who wished me well for June... the appointment is only to drop off the waiver package... the processing time from then is 2-4 months...

Maybe by August he will be able to hold his first born child...

see, now I am crying... this is why I do not post... I'm just trying to keep it together ya'll...

To the people I have connected with on here, I thank you, I love you, I could not have made it without you...

Bless

JAP, you are in our prayers! I'm claiming positive results for you in this journey!