Yardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

[MRStee 19]

Afternoon ladies,

Just wanted to say hello, i see JAENG babies are still cuter than ever and they have the exact same names as my two sons, not that anyone cares but just means we got good taste....LOL

Ok one question and no one laugh at me, what does anytime him seh him wah front, mean???/

Im back to work and its kicking my tail, everyone and there issues are waiting for me, ah so the life of a social worker goes....

I decided today to apply for a new position within the company for i smack someone, as a recipient rights rep, which basically means i get to listen to people complain all day, but it pays more money and i get my own office...LOL

something is telling me to go for it so im leaving it in GOD's hands, if he means for me to have this job then its already written...LOL

Hope everyone is well !!!

good luck to you!

[MRStee 19]

Heyyyy Tyler and Tyrone's mommy!!!!!

Front = ahem....making use of one's conjugal rights!!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Okay Yardies, I am grabbing my keys and my purse and I am out of here for the day. Have a great evening everyone!

[finesse 3]

philly, how yuh boys dem doing?

[LadyC 1]

Okay Yardies, I am grabbing my keys and my purse and I am out of here for the day. Have a great evening everyone!

Lata Days DW...Have a great evening too

[LadyC 1]

Ok Ladies Im out .....Lata Days...

[phillyfashionista 8]

:rofl: I'd say we miss you more than Jermaine. I figured that would catch your attention.

Nat this made my day!!!! Just for you FEVA soon come LOL

Back in the day (like a month or two ago), Philly used to post Jermaine videos ALL THE TIME. It really bothered Dillon, for some reason. I never watched them, personally, but some people did.

I believe Dills secretly longed for my Jermaine posts they made her day! ( wink wink Dills )

Jermaine was hot at one point in time... but yes, we miss Philly much more!

You welcome! That is a major thing. Any special plans?

(((hugs to you Dens)) you know yuh my girl!

This is a public forum. I am a vet for all intents and purposes. And, for however many years I 've been on here, I've shared the good the bad and the ugly. Some days I talk a lot and some days I don't give a ####### about what anyone says on here. It's not any of you though. That's all on me.

The statement that this board has changed has come up over and over. Of course, it's changed. Who said it???? Someone wise yesterday...Jamerican?....it evolves with each batch of newcomers and who decides to stay and who decides to go. And, it depends on what is shared. We still share the same ups and downs. We still yell at each other from time to time. We still love and we still support. The one glaring change (well besides Nat's coupon talk....smile) is the sex talk. Personally, I can take both Nat and the sex talk only so much. And, honestly, I am questioning my faith right now and think all the God talk is a bunch of #######. At the same time, I wish I believed as deeply. You see it?

But.........if someone else enjoys it, who am I to say a damn thing. I have the option to skim over anything I want and to comment on anything I want. If I am not interested that day, I skim. If I am, I participate. This board does not live or die on my interests or comments. So, who the hell cares. Talk about what you want to talk about. If no one comments at all, maybe you should let it go. If there are comments, then, you are keeping this forum alive and it's what it was meant to be.

When someone needs visa help, we'll go back to helping them. When they don't, we will entertain ourselves in other ways.

I don't think people completely ignore or skip over talk they don't agree with. I've said many things on here over the years and even if no public comments are made, I get PMs to chat. This board still serves it's purpose. I try to be as diplomatic as possible, even when I've seen it all before or have my doubts. If I can't be, I will PM you with my concerns. You know who you are on here. If you tell me to STFU or move along, so what? I tried. I don't feel the need to be rude to anyone cause I don't see the purpose in it. If you are nice to me, I'll do my damndest to be nice to you.

Can't say I agree with every word that is written here. The tone bugs me sometimes. The words bug me a lot....as evidenced yesterday. But, I can say I don't like how or what you said, without attacking you. I have never liked any of the attacks on here. If you don't like someone on here, please keep your comments clearly on the up and up. Say what you want to say; but leave the biting comments out of it. You aren't helping anyone on here by cutting down someone. Your comments that are truly helpful and insightful are actually lost when you do.

You all could me and I'd probably never leave. I have been through much that I hope none of you ever go through. And life is as tough right now as it's ever been for me. I have a lot to say and some helpful advice. When it's needed, I will throw it out there. When a referee is needed, I will try my best. And, when I'm just plain bored, I expect you all to entertain me.

STOP PICKING ON PEOPLE YOU DON'T LIKE.

STOP TAKING EVERY DAMN THING SO PERSONAL.

IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY, SAY IT......RESPECTFULLY.

Those are the 3 rules I live by. Try to anyhow.

There is no place else out there like this board.....shared adventures is what I like to call it. Whether good or bad, we have all been there, done that, going to do that, wishing we'd never done that, etc. It's where we were meant to be. And, I know personally, I need all of you goofballs.

You have some very valid points JG and I truly respect this post. I will be honest and say I was highly offended by some comments made in the recent weeks and that is no easy task, but when you are passionate about something it can happen and that is why I have not been on the board much along with wuk a kill me LOL. I will not go into what exactly offended me because that is in the past but because ppl are so honest wid all dem bizness pon deh board nowadays it does give you pause of ppls true intentions and the FAKENESS mi nuh rate.

When you said that the board has changed and happens with every batch of newbies that arrive, it is inevitable of course and you can choose to comment or not comment as it is a public forum and I completely agree that is why I had to step away for a minute to put things into perspective.

I surely have been one to share my joys and sadness and pickney drama and revel in the support I have recvd from my VJ family. I did agree with comments that were made yesterday cause ppl needed to hear it, it may not have been my choice of style of delivery but that is what makes each one of us unique and we have to respect that. There is a lot to be learned from each journey and JG I appreciate you cause I know your story and you been through it so when you speak we listen. There is no place like this board and each of us take something different away from it each day we log off. Will it ever be the same, I doubt it but PM lives on!

[phillyfashionista 8]

philly, how yuh boys dem doing?

Hey Nesse,

Deh pickney dem alright still a handful trust mi, just taking it everyday at a time and my I must commend my youngest he has a come a long way, only 60% drama

I can't tell you enough how beautiful those girls are, now as for yuh manchild! What in the heezy? Dem nuh teach him no Phockery like that in health class. Why he playing! Girl never a dull day with our babies though LOL

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Hey Philly glad to see you stuck yo head in the place, miss you girl, but we will always have FB

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Oh and Philly thanks for the Baby Med website, I started it as soon as you said something about it and

There it is, so informative and it prepared me for what happened. if forgot to give you the props on that but :dance:

Thanks momma

and glad those kids are behaving

I did no9t tell yall what my son said when I told him I was pregnant.

he asked, " what have you guys been doing in that room with those red sheets" :bonk:

I was so shocked and embarrassed so happy no one else was around.

my husband put him on time out in the corner with a stick in his mouth on 1 foot for over an hour.

[phillyfashionista 8]

Hey Philly glad to see you stuck yo head in the place, miss you girl, but we will always have FB

Hey JQ mi deh Congrats again on the baby! LOL @ your ticker below I luvs that they had an African American fetus

[phillyfashionista 8]

Oh and Philly thanks for the Baby Med website, I started it as soon as you said something about it and

There it is, so informative and it prepared me for what happened. if forgot to give you the props on that but :dance:

Thanks momma

and glad those kids are behaving

I did no9t tell yall what my son said when I told him I was pregnant.

he asked, " what have you guys been doing in that room with those red sheets" :bonk:

I was so shocked and embarrassed so happy no one else was around.

my husband put him on time out in the corner with a stick in his mouth on 1 foot for over an hour.

Girl that site is the truth! I'm glad it is helping you I am working it out as well, so send that baby dust ovayahso please!

LOL mi neva said they was behaving but the are healthy

LMAO @ the stick in his mouth that's a new one on me! no he didn't say that LOL these kids nuh miss nothing he was checking out yuh sheets !

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Hey JQ mi deh Congrats again on the baby! LOL @ your ticker below I luvs that they had an African American fetus

Yeah girl had to do it cuz Im dark and hubby dark so we gone have a baby :dance: :dance:

LMAO @ the stick in his mouth that's a new one on me! no he didn't say that LOL these kids nuh miss nothing he was checking out yuh sheets !

say it again, we gotta be careful as parents because they are nosey and observant we get the noseyness from my greatgrandmother 96 baby and no joke she want to know all the business

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Girl that site is the truth! I'm glad it is helping you I am working it out as well, so send that baby dust ovayahso please!

Done in Jesus name

[NatPatBen 3]

JQ, I see you with the baby ticker!

front...as in whats in the front of ur drawers....your privates

Learn a new phrase on this board every day. Why are they always about underwear???

#######!! my son said we need to go to target to get some condoms so he can practice "whacking off" in one so when "he goes into heat, he'll know how to package his meat" "....this is what he said they learned in sex ed class today...

Den is just not a fan of eating out.

Why not?

every night?? shoot, not me! i cook 2-3 xs a weeks, he cook about the same maybe more and we go out when neither of us feel like it..

Same here.

He sent me a text the other day and said..."Baby that dinner was so good last night, thank you for being a great wife"

How precious!

I did no9t tell yall what my son said when I told him I was pregnant.

he asked, " what have you guys been doing in that room with those red sheets" :bonk:

I was so shocked and embarrassed so happy no one else was around.

my husband put him on time out in the corner with a stick in his mouth on 1 foot for over an hour.

Why'd you punish him for that? (I'm truly curious.)