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The problem is concurrency, not "friends with benefits". The focus ought to be on the former.

Nagishkaw Grand Master

Nagishkaw   510

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As I said...each unto his/her own. Nobody is forcing anyone to be poly or to enter a FWB relationship (they're not the same). I'm not into either, but I don't judge. As to the health risks - sure. But smokers take risks, skydivers take risks, we all take risks of one kind or another. We all need to choose for ourselves a reasonable risk level for our own bodies and lives. You make a good argument that when our risk-choices also affect others, then it's no longer a personal decision. Rather like second hand smoking affects people nearby, or DUI affects others sharing the road.

By that standard, I'd say that if the people in a poly or FWB situation are all fully aware of everyone's history, and enter the situation consensually, then it's covered. That's a

Wrap?

Don't just open your mouth and prove yourself a fool....put it in writing.

It gets harder the more you know. Because the more you find out, the uglier everything seems.

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Ban Hammer Grand Master

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No mention of STDs. That all sounds great until our friends herpes, HIV, syphillis, unwanted pregnancy with no idea who the father is come up around the bend. Great if they want to risk all of that, but I have zero interest.

you need to get new friends. :hehe:

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IR5FORMUMSIE Grand Master

IR5FORMUMSIE   850

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And thats why I am glad I am married, and I am the only woman my husband has ever been with.

:thumbs::thumbs: :thumbs:

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2007-12-24-Mom's I-551 arrives, Pop's still in purgatory (AP)

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IR5FORMUMSIE Grand Master

IR5FORMUMSIE   850

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you need to get new friends. :hehe:

But Chlamydia Jane is so much fun. :crying::P

IR5

2007-07-27 – Case complete at NVC waiting on the world or at least MTL.

2007-12-19 - INTERVIEW AT MTL, SPLIT DECISION.

2007-12-24-Mom's I-551 arrives, Pop's still in purgatory (AP)

2008-03-11-AP all done, Pop is approved!!!!

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IR5FORMUMSIE Grand Master

IR5FORMUMSIE   850

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Yup :P.

Caught me in mid-thought, Sister :thumbs:

On the bright side, it's better than being caught in mid-stream, that would put a damper on anyone spirits or pant leg. :rofl:

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IR5

2007-07-27 – Case complete at NVC waiting on the world or at least MTL.

2007-12-19 - INTERVIEW AT MTL, SPLIT DECISION.

2007-12-24-Mom's I-551 arrives, Pop's still in purgatory (AP)

2008-03-11-AP all done, Pop is approved!!!!

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IR5FORMUMSIE Grand Master

IR5FORMUMSIE   850

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The forecast for this afternoon is partly cloudy with a chance of golden showers. :innocent:

Upper management get golden parachutes and workers are lucky if they get golden showers. That's the new paradigm for American business. :crying:

IR5

2007-07-27 – Case complete at NVC waiting on the world or at least MTL.

2007-12-19 - INTERVIEW AT MTL, SPLIT DECISION.

2007-12-24-Mom's I-551 arrives, Pop's still in purgatory (AP)

2008-03-11-AP all done, Pop is approved!!!!

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IR5FORMUMSIE Grand Master

IR5FORMUMSIE   850

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Watersports can be fun and wholesome entertainment for the entire family :innocent:

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Just like a Gallagher show, everyone loves squirting. :innocent:

IR5

2007-07-27 – Case complete at NVC waiting on the world or at least MTL.

2007-12-19 - INTERVIEW AT MTL, SPLIT DECISION.

2007-12-24-Mom's I-551 arrives, Pop's still in purgatory (AP)

2008-03-11-AP all done, Pop is approved!!!!

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Watersports can be fun and wholesome entertainment for the entire family :innocent:

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No matter how you slice it, Getting Urinated on just isn't what most people consider a fun or family activity.

Can we go back to Spanking as a Topic? Now that is fun. Even Charles is known to chime in with some eye candy on that one.

Pics with Golden Showers just wont go over well here.

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scandal Grand Master

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No matter how you slice it, Getting Urinated on just isn't what most people consider a fun or family activity.

Can we go back to Spanking as a Topic? Now that is fun. Even Charles is known to chime in with some eye candy on that one.

Pics with Golden Showers just wont go over well here.

This isn't the spanking thread. That only happens in Texas, so best head over there if you're into corporal discipline.

As to golden showers, kink can be a very individual taste.

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