monthly support from fiance

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Sorry Icey not talking about you just referring to the OP

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[tmma 467]

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Where did that money fall from?

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lol

[tmma 467]

Where did that money fall from?

Don't know where it's falling from, but know where it's flying to.......

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is the thread officially hijacked yet

[sbgwolf1 0]

Lisa & TMMA, thank you so much. You put in pictures more than I could say with words.....and I couldnt help but laugh out loud. Thank you for that. With all the stress of what we are going through, it was a welcome break...

tmma.....SHARE THE WEALTH! HAHA

And thanks to ellmoi for reminding me of that everlasting question......'for love or money'

Edited August 4, 2006 by sbgwolf1

[one...two...tree 2,762]

hi everyone, just want to ask if it's ok to ask for monthly support from your fiance or just wait for him to send voluntarily? or just wait for him to realize it's a responsibility or is it a responsibility really for a fiance to give monthly support? - aix

Dear aixaix,

It is not the responsibility of your fiance to send you money regularly. If he sends you, it is a gift. I know that the economic situation in the Philippines is not that good. Majority could have problems financially, but to impose financial support regularly on the significant other is inappropriate. This is my opinion. Just make this relationship work. You can discuss with him some financial issues and he might be able to help; don't expect a yes always; and most importantly, don't demand. It is important that you understand his viewpoint as well as he understands yours. Your post really disturbed me...I have to say something. This misinformation (fiance's responsibility to give monthly support), wherever you got it or whoever advised you on it, really gave me goosebumps. Take this please as constructive. No hurt feelings and...Good luck to you.

Jo

Well said.

[ellmoi 0]

hi everyone, just want to ask if it's ok to ask for monthly support from your fiance or just wait for him to send voluntarily? or just wait for him to realize it's a responsibility or is it a responsibility really for a fiance to give monthly support? - aix

Dear aixaix,

It is not the responsibility of your fiance to send you money regularly. If he sends you, it is a gift. I know that the economic situation in the Philippines is not that good. Majority could have problems financially, but to impose financial support regularly on the significant other is inappropriate. This is my opinion. Just make this relationship work. You can discuss with him some financial issues and he might be able to help; don't expect a yes always; and most importantly, don't demand. It is important that you understand his viewpoint as well as he understands yours. Your post really disturbed me...I have to say something. This misinformation (fiance's responsibility to give monthly support), wherever you got it or whoever advised you on it, really gave me goosebumps. Take this please as constructive. No hurt feelings and...Good luck to you.

Jo

Well said.

yes thank you, that's all what i ask for, lol.. i wonder how many stones has been cast upon me, i hope they get their NOA2's , approvals, soon, lol

[Maurry88 0]

yeah I personally would doubt the relationship if within a week or so of being engaged i was asked to support the other person .. no offense

I agree their

[Marc and Olga 0]

Can you say:

[nayalamb 0]

Can you say:

<golddigger>

to the OP, why would you think he should send monthly support? was that the impression he gave when y'all got together?

[rebelheart 0]

geeze some people

ellmoi aka aixaix,

it's just that ...... the way u say it is a "what or huh"?? really. i don't know if it's the sentences is not good being brought up or what u really means by that .... something like .... people might asked u back "whats ur intention of asking this kind of advise".

responsibility for support maybe of the fiance is .... when ur alreafy in the US with him and ur married to him, bcos ur already his wife, but being just a "girlfriend" in just 2 weeks ..... better talked it with ur boyfriend.

gudluck!

[john_and_marlene 162]

Is your relationship about money? If so, I hope he realizes it in time. If not, you don't need to ask him. You should be ashamed of yourself. RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG!!!!!!