monthly support from fiance

[john_and_marlene 162]

Basically you think it is your right to run people down to trash people and to be nasty using it is "your opinion" to do just that... I am more than capable of standing up to you Lisa... I am not cowering in fear - or running away scared of what you and your clique have to say... you don't like what I have said and and have labelled me a hypocrite and another of your cronies calls me insufferable... you think it is your god-damned right to sit in judgement... perhaps you should tell the uscis that you could do a better job than they can and you don't need the info they ask for... all you need is a paragraph on which to base your judgement... what you want is a yes person who agrees with your stance... and ####### the rest... I will never be that... never was and never will be... I can stand up to bullies... so go right ahead and say whatever you wish... indulge in some character assassination too... would not put that past you. After all I am enemy no. 1 now... I actually dared to say what's what... and it is a what's what that you don't like... Again call me anything you want I don't give a flying **... but stop trampling on newbies who can't fight back... who are intimidated by you...

Hey you know how would you like it if I said your man is only after a green card... who knows... maybe he is... that is a risk all of you run - like it or not... loads of people want to make it to the USA from countries that you consider allies and not high-fraud countries...

Again for the like gazillionth time, if jusging people is so bad, stop judging me!!!

Apparently you crossed over that invisible unspoken undefined line that allows such things. I'm still wondering who I'm supposed to clear it with to determine if it has been crossed. Some of us need permission...others make their own call.

Ask an immigration question and you get support. If you want to bare your personal relationship problems, call Dr Phil. I personally think than anyone that opens their personal life to a public forum and ask what people think, can't complain when they get responses about what people think.

That can be the new Forum: Tell Dr Phil.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Well IMO...... a clique is a group of bitches who take pleasure from causing upset and pain to another.....

It does not matter is its in a forum or in life it is the same result..... somepeople treat others posts as though they are a soap on TV for them to enjoy and make there own.... VJ is not a chat room it is a forum for people seeking help with immigration issues and yes they effect our personal lives as well as just paperwork and questions.....

No one has the right to go out of there way to have fun at the expence of others...

Kezzie

[iceyspots 0]

Basically you think it is your right to run people down to trash people and to be nasty using it is "your opinion" to do just that... I am more than capable of standing up to you Lisa... I am not cowering in fear - or running away scared of what you and your clique have to say... you don't like what I have said and and have labelled me a hypocrite and another of your cronies calls me insufferable... you think it is your god-damned right to sit in judgement... perhaps you should tell the uscis that you could do a better job than they can and you don't need the info they ask for... all you need is a paragraph on which to base your judgement... what you want is a yes person who agrees with your stance... and ####### the rest... I will never be that... never was and never will be... I can stand up to bullies... so go right ahead and say whatever you wish... indulge in some character assassination too... would not put that past you. After all I am enemy no. 1 now... I actually dared to say what's what... and it is a what's what that you don't like... Again call me anything you want I don't give a flying **... but stop trampling on newbies who can't fight back... who are intimidated by you...

Hey you know how would you like it if I said your man is only after a green card... who knows... maybe he is... that is a risk all of you run - like it or not... loads of people want to make it to the USA from countries that you consider allies and not high-fraud countries...

Again for the like gazillionth time, if jusging people is so bad, stop judging me!!!

Apparently you crossed over that invisible unspoken undefined line that allows such things. I'm still wondering who I'm supposed to clear it with to determine if it has been crossed. Some of us need permission...others make their own call.

Ask an immigration question and you get support. If you want to bare your personal relationship problems, call Dr Phil. I personally think than anyone that opens their personal life to a public forum and ask what people think, can't complain when they get responses about what people think.

That can be the new Forum: Tell Dr Phil.

We'd have to pull some huge advertising to get him to come on here and respond to people.

[Laura_and_IanM 0]

Ok, this is going to be said as an observation and not directed at any one person in particular but rather the group as a whole...myself included. HOW OLD ARE WE??? REALLY??? And, when did VJ suddenly become highschool??? I sit here and I try and look at all things from both sides. You will never find me taking any one side unless I have been there personally..BUT that is me. Come on here folks. This is the internet yet we are all arguing back and forth like its highschool. When do we draw the line??? Sometimes ppl tend to make the forum or any other type of internet chat/forum service a reality. It becomes the air that we breathe. Lets all agree that we are here for one reason, because we are going through the same process. Doesn't that count for something? We don't all have to agree on everything and that is what makes the world so wonderful. If we all were alike, how boring that would be..Then we wouldn't be able to have these wonderful debates. There is nothing like a strong healthy debate, but where do we end it? Why do we have to sink down to the levels that all of us at one point have sunk to? I for one, don't like the internet to become my life. I like to read everyones opinions on everything and even if I don't agree right away I at least take it as food for thought and sometimes even surprise myself and change my own opinion. Yes, I am one who likes to be told how it is and not have ###### guessing games, but sometimes even this gets to be a bit much.

Yes, I like drama just like the rest...makes for good entertainment. But we need to draw the line somewhere. Lisa, Karo, Cian, and whoever else...I love the way you come back and stand up for what you believe in and state your opnions. Yes I feel like sometimes you do come across a bit harsh...but at least I know where you stand.

Rob, your welcome for the compliment...I meant it. Cian...you make me laugh. Almaty..you are funny as fook..hell alot of you are.

I have learned alot from this site, and I hope that I am able to help out others like I have been helped out..But the last thing I want ppl to remember me as is the biotch from VJ. That is how I am in person as well. I want ppl to remember me for being helpful and caring and funny. But again...that is me. I thank all of you. I think all of you have something to offer this site.

Again, just my two cents and then some

LJ

[Fandango 1,440]

Basically you think it is your right to run people down to trash people and to be nasty using it is "your opinion" to do just that... I am more than capable of standing up to you Lisa... I am not cowering in fear - or running away scared of what you and your clique have to say... you don't like what I have said and and have labelled me a hypocrite and another of your cronies calls me insufferable... you think it is your god-damned right to sit in judgement... perhaps you should tell the uscis that you could do a better job than they can and you don't need the info they ask for... all you need is a paragraph on which to base your judgement... what you want is a yes person who agrees with your stance... and ####### the rest... I will never be that... never was and never will be... I can stand up to bullies... so go right ahead and say whatever you wish... indulge in some character assassination too... would not put that past you. After all I am enemy no. 1 now... I actually dared to say what's what... and it is a what's what that you don't like... Again call me anything you want I don't give a flying **... but stop trampling on newbies who can't fight back... who are intimidated by you...

Hey you know how would you like it if I said your man is only after a green card... who knows... maybe he is... that is a risk all of you run - like it or not... loads of people want to make it to the USA from countries that you consider allies and not high-fraud countries...

You know, I was kind of preoccupied when I first responded to you, so I forgot to mention something:

* I'm not out to get you, Melo. There's no character assasination or anything like that. The beauty with dealing with someone like me is that you will always know where you stand...and tbh...you don't matter enough to me to hold a vendetta. Enemy #1? Not a chance! Sorry toots, you may be important to others, but you're not important to me Now I do feel that you are a hypocrite, not because I say so, because your actions make you one. But that's my opinion and you're free to disagree with me....I also think you're sanctimonious and you're all about crises and OMG! stuff...I think you make a big deal out of the smallest things....now this is not from this thread only, but in the interest of honesty...there it is...

Saying that, I don't wish you ill or have any nasty feelings towards you....I'm neutral actually. I hope you have a good rest of your journey on your visa & wish you the best of luck. Why is that? Cos how can I hold animosity for someone who's made my boring bed rest so filled with entertainment? That's like kinda tripping the clown after he's juggled...

So thanks again for the erm, debate

You're not going to change my mind, I'm not interested in changing yours...so as I said before, we can rehash this still or agree to disagree....either way is fine with me!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Lisa, did you used to beat up the geeks at school for their lunch money?

[Fandango 1,440]

Lisa, did you used to beat up the geeks at school for their lunch money?

har har har

Yanno, it's so odd to me that just because I will respond rudely to something that I think is rude.....because I'm not afraid to say things the way I see it, I'm labeled a ballbreaking bully. hahahaha

Fluffy kittens and cotton candy were never my thing So it's all good!

[*Robert* 2]

Lisa, did you used to beat up the geeks at school for their lunch money?

LMAO!!!! :lol:

Just when you thought it was safe to come out again!!!

[Sheriff Uling 3]

ellmoi - How does you fiance feel about this? Is he OK with this? On the surface, it appears that you maybe misleading your fiance and attempting to violate our immigration laws. Why do you feel the way that you do about having financial support this early in your relationship? I'm not attacking you and you don't even have to answer my questions. I just wanted to express what comes to mind reading this thread.

[babybunny 2]

Well IMO...... a clique is a group of bitches who take pleasure from causing upset and pain to another.....

It does not matter is its in a forum or in life it is the same result..... somepeople treat others posts as though they are a soap on TV for them to enjoy and make there own.... VJ is not a chat room it is a forum for people seeking help with immigration issues and yes they effect our personal lives as well as just paperwork and questions.....

No one has the right to go out of there way to have fun at the expence of others...

Kezzie

Lisa, did you used to beat up the geeks at school for their lunch money?

har har har

Yanno, it's so odd to me that just because I will respond rudely to something that I think is rude.....because I'm not afraid to say things the way I see it, I'm labeled a ballbreaking bully. hahahaha

Fluffy kittens and cotton candy were never my thing So it's all good!

really? why?

I love fluffy puppies < cats are MEAN >, cotton candies, things that are pink and glittery. I still

dream my prince charming will come wisk me away to some desert island full of unicorns and gum drops

but, I will puff up when people annoy me. thats ok too...

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Lisa, did you used to beat up the geeks at school for their lunch money?

har har har

Yanno, it's so odd to me that just because I will respond rudely to something that I think is rude.....because I'm not afraid to say things the way I see it, I'm labeled a ballbreaking bully. hahahaha

Fluffy kittens and cotton candy were never my thing So it's all good!

Oh come on now...I'm teasing...there is a difference Miss Ginsu.

[almaty 19]

aw, this thread got legs and support ($)

[*Robert* 2]

aw, this thread got legs and support ($)

you ain't lying about legs brother dean!!! this puppy is running away for sure!!!

lisa, maybe you could change your title to "The Ginsu of VJ"!!!

steve, you crack me up!!!

malaki ang itlug mo talaga!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

aw, this thread got legs and support ($)

you ain't lying about legs brother dean!!! this puppy is running away for sure!!!

lisa, maybe you could change your title to "The Ginsu of VJ"!!!

steve, you crack me up!!!

malaki ang itlug mo talaga!

I don't know any Tagalog and only a tiny bit Bisaya.

Now it's all making sense to me. Lisa's upset because she had to beat up boys to get money.

[*Robert* 2]

aw, this thread got legs and support ($)

you ain't lying about legs brother dean!!! this puppy is running away for sure!!!

lisa, maybe you could change your title to "The Ginsu of VJ"!!!

steve, you crack me up!!!

malaki ang itlug mo talaga!

I don't know any Tagalog and only a tiny bit Bisaya.

okay, another way to put it is:

huevos grande!!!