How to get out of affidivet of support

[floridalaurie 0]

Don't hold your breath on this one, but you CAN write a letter to the Department of Homeland Security asking to be removed depending on the circumstances. I called and that is what they advised me to do when my ex was dumb enough to admit, in front of the divorce attornies that when I told him about the divorce papers, his response was, "If you stop this paperwork stuff and let me stay here for free until I get my 2 year permanent card, I will go away and never bother you again and I will even try to send you money for the baby."

The reality is, he likes his toys enough (cars and women) to earn enough to pay for them, so he's not likely to apply for aid or do anything that leaves me on the hook because it would not be enough money to keep him in the lifestyle he desires...of course, he manages to get by with about half of the court calculated minimum in child support because I cannot afford to take him to court - only the attornies would win there, not our child.

Bottom line, BE VERY SURE before you sign a contract to be responsible for anyone because it's extremely difficult to prove fraud...

[Dakine 26]

Don't hold your breath on this one, but you CAN write a letter to the Department of Homeland Security asking to be removed depending on the circumstances. I called and that is what they advised me to do when my ex was dumb enough to admit, in front of the divorce attornies that when I told him about the divorce papers, his response was, "If you stop this paperwork stuff and let me stay here for free until I get my 2 year permanent card, I will go away and never bother you again and I will even try to send you money for the baby."

The reality is, he likes his toys enough (cars and women) to earn enough to pay for them, so he's not likely to apply for aid or do anything that leaves me on the hook because it would not be enough money to keep him in the lifestyle he desires...of course, he manages to get by with about half of the court calculated minimum in child support because I cannot afford to take him to court - only the attornies would win there, not our child.

Bottom line, BE VERY SURE before you sign a contract to be responsible for anyone because it's extremely difficult to prove fraud...

I will even try to send you money for the baby."

Guy sounds like a real winner!!

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Duplicate threads on the same topic merged. It is not necessary to start more than one thread with the same question.

[justashooter 430]

alimony is a thing of the past, and is not awarded to able bodied men without children unless the ex-wife is worth millions, and the man helped her earn them in some way. affidavits of support are worth zero in divorce court if the man is not crippled or blind. tehy are a contract between the petitioner and the US, and involve teh beneficiary only as a bystander.