Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!

[charandivan 0]

I'm here...got in late because I took Hubby to do his driving test. HE PASSED!!!!

Congrats! On your hubby passing his test.

Yup! But Im still a lil freaked out that we got it so early - I just hope he can get to the medical center in Mobay-

Congrats on your interview date.

Afternoon Yardies!

I have a bunch to reply to but I'm feeling some urgency that I just need to put some business out here first. I may need to be talked down off the ledge so to speak today. I'm gonna preface by stating that I'm not distraught, not very upset, nothing....just sort of matter-of-fact about what I'm feeling right now. I'm not going to jump to any conclusions or decisions but I'm definitely mulling things over. So here it is:

My hubby is a chronic liar. Since we have lived together full-time since he arrived here, all of the lying has become more apparent. He lies about the smallest of things at times & although I don't necessary think (or want to accuse him) he's cheating, he's behaved in ways that are suspect & it's really coming to light now that he's on my cell phone plan & I can monitor things. I really don't want to go into detail cause it would be too long but basically, I've caught him in lies all along but have a specific incident on Saturday that I was able to directly call him on a lie because I could see the phone log. He received a call while we were out Saturday & I could hear it was a pretty basic (albeit short) conversation with a female. He said he'd give a call later & the response was like this (with a high-pitched very feminine voice), "Oookaaaaaaaay byyyyyyyyyyeeeeee!" After I asked who it was he tried to pass it off like it was a 'new person' at his school who is a tranny (we have many around here so it is conceivable). Well, checking the phone log this morning I saw that it was the same friend who is in his 'soccer gang' who is supposedly a girlfriend of one of his guy friends. I've called him on this before but I don't have a problem with him having female friends as long as they respect our marriage so I just let it go at that time. He tries to tell me that his friend (whose girlfriend he talks to) doesn't have his own phone (YEAH RIGHT!) so he always uses his girlfriend's phone (is this making any sense??). Well, WHATEVER. I haven't met these friends yet but I'm going to for sure now....who cares if they're young & will ridicule him about his fat, old wife. I'm also going to start answering the house phone now. I used to leave that to him cause it was always for him but now I'm going to make my presence KNOWN!

But the real problem is, he just plain lies...about his phone calls, about his friends, about random ish around the house, etc. etc. etc. I'm nearly ready to file for divorce. We've had this discussion on several occasions that he has a lying problem & I told him if he doesn't change that, I will never be able to trust him. If I can't trust him about the little things, how will I trust him when the big issues arise?? Again, I'm not distressed or depressed, I'm not all that angry, I'm just feeling exhausted with this all. Also, lately he's been slacking (again) with helping me out around the house, etc. & frankly, I'm tired of doing everything I always did for myself & now for one more person on top of it. I'll defer to the Madea quote now, "I can do bad ALL BY MYSELF!" Anyway, we may seek counseling although he doesn't want to go or we may try other things but I've been scouring this web site about lying in relationships http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/ & I'm not really sure compulsive/chronic liars can be 'cured'. I know I can't live with that....to me that is a seriously fatal flaw. I'm by no means perfect but if there's one thing I am, it's HONEST. I've been honest to him about everything & he is not returning the favor. Well, WHEW....just writing this out felt much better! I'm ready for any responses....don't temper your responses, if I wanted to be coddled or told the easy stuff, I wouldn't have put this out there.

So sorry to hear that you are going through this. I think women have a tendency to bring their insecurities into the next relationship. This includes myself. But you have to tell him what you do and do not expect. I feel that if Lehi truly cares then he will be willing to do whatever to gain your trust back. But you can't just say that you need to trust him, you need to explain the things that will make you feel more trustworthy of him. I told my hubby to call the chick that he was talking to so she could explain their conversation. That's what it took for me to feel comfortable, so that's what he did. I told the both of them straight up that there is no reason for them to be conversing on the phone. You have to tell people how you expect to be treated. If he truly loves you, he will fix the situation. Because a little chick with some convo, is not worth your marraige. I also don't tolerate little white lie. It may not be a big deal to him or others, but to me its unacceptable. You also have to understand they are used to being in relationships where they are not questioned about anything so its somewhat new for them to be questioned about the whereabout and who they are talking to. I told hubby that I don't tolerate the lying so before you fix your mouth to tell I lie, thick twice!!!

Good Morning Yardies...I hope everyone is having a good week. Well my hubby started working with my friend/coworker Landscaping company today and he had to take the Metro Bus and Train all by himself. He got ther so it was ok. We are also packing to move on Friday so its been hectic. Me with my 2 jobs one at Jackson Hewitt so the end of tax season rush and hours are killing me. Now hubby started working (thank you lord) and my step son will be here on the 30th. Whew I feel so damn tired

That's awesome Lady C. Looks like you guys are on your hustle.

Great!

Oh ok.

On another note I'm so P'D OFF!

I'm sure I told y'all I'm not sure if I'm preggo, anyhow I had an appt today and he knew. So I woke up, got dressed and left. At the doc office he called and said he's coming so I said fine. Waiting and looking out for him, waitng and looking out for him Then he calls to say he's drinking tea he'll be there in a minute so I said ok. The receptionist came out and told us the doc is gonna be late so we can leave or wait so I left without calling him, I walk in the door to see him sitting on the computer on FACEFRIGGGINBOOK!! His response "you couldn't call and tell me you left the doc, what if I had walked up there?" So I slapped the ###### outta his azz (shouldn't have) and grabbed my laptop and walked away. Now tell me, if you don't wanna come to the doctor's office just fcuking say so, but don't have me sitting there looking out for you and here fcuking rapping on facebook. Rant Over.

I'm trying my best not to put my hands on him because I'd stab his azz if he dare try to hit me back but I was pissed

Girl, you are prego with that attitude!!!

Hubby just called.. biometrics appointement on 4/29/10 @2:30 yippppppppppppppeeeeeeeeeee

Congrats, Ms. Tee!!

[DaDa 1]

She could make up an itinerary and post on the fridge like so:

4/12 - Lesheka going out with friends to celebrate

4/13 - Lesheka starts packing Lehi's clothes

4/14 - While at work Lesheka tells boss she needs a day off

4/15 - Lesheka gasses up the whip

4/16 - Lesheka has to make it to the airport by 7:45 am so Lehi don't miss his flight

4/17 - Lesheka treats herself to a day at the spa and puts it on the credit card that would have been Lehi's if he had "act right" in him

Later on Lesheka meets back up with friends to celebrate the success of shipping Lehi's bummaclot azz back to the JA... She also books

her next vacation to St. Thomas on Lehi's credit card and meets Dexter St. Jacque hahahahahaha

K maybe I need...

Yup its official you need help...

And I thought I was a donut short of a dozen...

Dillion/Niq don't listen to har !!!

[LadyC 1]

Hubby just called.. biometrics appointement on 4/29/10 @2:30 yippppppppppppppeeeeeeeeeee

Yea Tee and Steve...Congrats on the Bio Date

[LadyC 1]

She could make up an itinerary and post on the fridge like so:

4/12 - Lesheka going out with friends to celebrate

4/13 - Lesheka starts packing Lehi's clothes

4/14 - While at work Lesheka tells boss she needs a day off

4/15 - Lesheka gasses up the whip

4/16 - Lesheka has to make it to the airport by 7:45 am so Lehi don't miss his flight

4/17 - Lesheka treats herself to a day at the spa and puts it on the credit card that would have been Lehi's if he had "act right" in him

Later on Lesheka meets back up with friends to celebrate the success of shipping Lehi's bummaclot azz back to the JA... She also books

her next vacation to St. Thomas on Lehi's credit card and meets Dexter St. Jacque hahahahahaha

K maybe I need...

MrsTee you are CRAZY....But I will save this idea for Garfield.

[TAMH 2]

Hubby just called.. biometrics appointement on 4/29/10 @2:30 yippppppppppppppeeeeeeeeeee

Congratulations! :dance: You are one step closer.

[TAMH 2]

Words of Encouragement from Tyler Perry:

I was looking through my personal photo album the other day, and I ran

across some pictures of my mother from last year. I was looking at her

face in these pictures...she was so happy. I had asked her to take a walk

with me, as I was trying to get her to do a little exercise. She was so

tired since she had just come in from dialysis, but whenever I asked her

to do something she would always put on a smile and try it. She and I

walked very slowly up her driveway. She was laboring but still so happy.

She was telling me how much she loved her house and how thankful she was.

She said she never would have imagined being able to live in such a fine

house (her words). She said she always wanted to know what it was like to

live like Mrs. Chancellor (from "The Young and the Restless") and wondered

what it would be like to have a maid and "now I know" she said. We

laughed about that for a second and then I asked her how that made her

feel... she quickly said "loved." So, as I looked at that picture, I

thought about that moment with tears in my eyes and I began to get really

sad. Then I looked down at the bottom of the picture and saw the date, it

was January 4th 2009.

I asked myself this question, if someone had told me that by the same time

next year she would have passed, would I have any regrets? I thought

about it for a few seconds and I can honestly say that I have no regrets.

With that thought, I felt the greatest sense of peace come over me. I

have no regrets. That is the best feeling. I know that I did everything

in my power for her. I can truly say there is not one thing I would

change. I didn't realize how much of a blessing that was until I thought

about it.

I want to ask you that question today. Think about this...if I said to

you, by this time next year, someone you love the most will not be here,

would you have any regrets?

What a thought, right?

We waste so much time on petty grievances and arguments, being angry about

things that don't really matter. If I can tell you anything, it would be

to fix the things you have done wrong. We live in so much fear by not

telling the people we love how much they mean to us, or never even

revealing to them that we love them.

You don't want something to happen to the person you love and not have had

to have a chance to fix it. Or, for something to happen and you let that

person go to the grave not knowing they were truly loved. The guilt can

be overwhelming.

So take some time today to mend some fences and make peace. Give some

love and get some love. Even if you try and the other person doesn't want

to hear it, you will rest better knowing that you tried to fix it, that

you tried to share it. Just knowing you tried, period, is enough to give

you peace.

This life is short and no man knows the day or the hour.

Tyler Perry

This is very comforting mama. I'm sure anyone whose going through a rough time will find solace in these words.

[MRStee 19]

Yup its official you need help...

And I thought I was a donut short of a dozen...

Dillion/Niq don't listen to har !!!

Donuts???

[MRStee 19]

MrsTee you are CRAZY....But I will save this idea for Garfield.

Oh my what did I start?

[Ellsinlove 2]

Afternoon Yardies!

Thank you all for your input & support. That's why the yardie thread is the best!

First of all I applaud you putting it out there, take alot of guts.

Um, I don't think liars can be cured. My honey lies and he lies about the simpliest of things but I knew he was a liar and I just have to hope and pray that one day he'll change on his own.

As for your situation, everyone is different but if I were you I'd try to find out what's going on for a fact before I jump to conclusions. I do hope, for your sake that nothing is going on and if there is something going on then it's your choice what to do. I really do wish you the best of luck sweetie

Thanks KJ! I know it's hard to come forward when having problems but I figure I've tried to do everything the right way in this relationship (although I'm far from perfect), I certainly don't feel like I jumped into anything with our relationship (waited a year of dating/knowing him before even filing), & I went in to the whole thing knowing full well that there's a good chance it won't work out but hoping & praying for the best. I just want to put it out there in case anyone else can gain something from it....even if it means knowing they are not alone in the issues they face. It's comforting to learn that others have a problem with their partners lying about things, especially insignificant things. It just makes me wonder, WHY??? Seriously, it's so much easier to just tell the truth & tell the story straight the first time! He did explain to me when we had our serious talk last night that his Grandpa used to tell him when he was a kid to lie if it could keep him out of trouble. I don't want to generalize & piss anyone off but it seems to be the way things go there often times.

Hey Ells,

My heart goes out to you! As soon as I read your post it felt like my heart leaped from my chest into my stomach. I have to applauded you for being so opened about your marriage.

So the reason for me writing other then the above is because I have felt what you are feeling right now and I believe more then a few of us are going through the same thing and just do not have it in us to post it. I do not know if you are a spiritual person or not but I can tell you to pray, I rest to sure you that it has helped extremely in my relationship with my husband. He is a great guy yet he has some flaws and extra baggage having a baby mother here in the states actually a hour away from where we live it is a difficult situation because the baby mother makes it so.

Anyway there is book I started reading and it is helping out alot and believe it or not I am seeing changes almost immediately. The book is called the power of a praying wife By Stormie Omartian. If you can and want to it is a very good investmnent and it really soothes the soul, soften your heart towards the man you loved and became one with even when he does anger you.

I just want you to know if you ever need to talk I am here, I know I do not say much usually on the board but I do have good listening ears. If you do not mind I would love to pray for your marriage, as I believe you truely love your husband.

Lord I pray for your blood and protection to heal the wounds in this marriage where there is lies I pray they will be repented of and replaced with truth. Father I ask that you open Lehi's heart and allow the love to overflow into his wife life, Father you gave your blessing upon them to marry and it is stated in the Bible that you have given us the power of authority over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19) and when we pray Lord we can do great damage to the enemies plan to destroy his work. Father we know this is not your plan for our/their life and we take authoriity over this marriage NOW! This marriage will not be destroyed We/ I will not allow confusion, miscommunication , wrong attitudes, and bad choices to erode what we/they are trying to build together hurt and unforgivness will not lead this marriage to divorce.

We build a hedge of protection around this marriage Lord and we bind the enemies hand , it is stated what we bind here on earth is bound in Heaven and what ever we loose on earth is loosed in heaven (Matthew 18:18) So therfore father we call peace and harmonoy, love and kindess, respect and honor to this marriage and we pray that your hand has healed this marriage and ended the wrong doing now.

In the name of you Son Jesus Christ our Lord and savor we pray AMEN and AMEN.

Take care Julianne

Thank you so much Julianne! I'll check out that book you're referring to. I'm not terribly 'religious' per se but I am spiritual & I do believe that God works for those who trust in him. As for your beautiful prayer, I'm going to read this to Hubby tonight!

Good Morning Yardies...I hope everyone is having a good week. Well my hubby started working with my friend/coworker Landscaping company today and he had to take the Metro Bus and Train all by himself. He got ther so it was ok. We are also packing to move on Friday so its been hectic. Me with my 2 jobs one at Jackson Hewitt so the end of tax season rush and hours are killing me. Now hubby started working (thank you lord) and my step son will be here on the 30th. Whew I feel so damn tired

Congrats to G! Way to go man!

Boy LadyC, you sound taxed right now....hope it soon eases up for you...I'm sure it will be better once you get moved.

Good Morning!!!! With all that has been going on, I forgot to mention that Acory received his biometrics letter Friday past(4/9/10). His appt is 4/23/10, next Friday. I before hand was thinking i'd have to push apt closer when we get one. But the 23rd actually isn't that far so we can wait until then.

Getting closer!

Ells Im sorry to hear about your hubby's behavior but truth be told we all in some way or another are finding out that some of the things our hubbys do are just plain stupid. My advise to you is to keep your eyes open and follow up on his suspicious actions. Trust is a big part of any relationship and without it there is no relationship. My huuby has some really childish behavior that drives me crazy. He does not like to listen to people and when he is wrong he acts like 12 year old and when you tell him he is acting childish he shuts down for days. When he acts that way I tell his behind off and keep it moving. When he see I am paying him no attention he switch back. But as I said the adjusment period is very hard and we all see things in each other that we do not like or understand. Keep the faith Ells

Thanks mi fren! Yeah, I'm about to get really involved! I've been feeling awkward being a bit older than him & not wanting to be the 'fuddy duddy' wife but you know what? I'm a pretty frikkin cool person & I'm about to show him & his friends what's up! Why should I be afraid to stand up for myself & our marriage?? This is no small thing so I need to just suck it up & get bold! I feel you on the 'childish' thing....sometimes I really feel like I have a toddler or teenager but I think I'm repeating myself here. I'm pretty proud of myself though...when we talked yesterday evening, I kept things real calm & fairly unemotional & just told him he had a few options. By the end of this school semester (which I'm urging him to finish), if things haven't changed for the better, he can (1) try to survive here on his own (not living with me) by getting a job, etc., (2) go back to Jamaica or (3) go to St. Maarten where his Mom is. Now I just have to see if he takes this seriously.

[Ellsinlove 2]

Girl Girl Girl I almost dropped out my seat reading this. Whoo if dis don’t bring back memories. My husband well X lied about everything and I mean everything it was stupid shyt he lied about to the point where you looked at him like dawg serious stop it. I think he had a condition to be honest because there was no need fi it all. Imma keep it real with you Ells I’m not sure if he will stop. Mines didn’t. Hopefully with prayer and some real attitude he can change but it just bites me in de butt why a grown rass man has to lie. I used to tell mi hubby all de tem. I can’t beat you so why do you have to lie to me what you think you gwaan get jumped on or something.

The phone calls jeez dats another thing. I swear these cell phones can be your best and worst friends. God gave us the best and worst gift woman intuition. When it surfaces its normally not wrong. You get that feeling in the pit of your stomach that something isn’t right and its up to you rather to ignore it or act on it. I tell you when it kicks in full drive its no joke. I used to play detective. Some of the things I did I am not proud of and I would have you all ladies on the ground rolling but I think I’m almost the best there ever was. I always found out the truth rather I wanted to or not and I vow that I will never live that way again. What used to hurt my feelings was my hubby had so called friends that he called over twenty times a day. It used to burn me up like what is der to talk about you don’t even call me that much. I told him you’re probably a pain in her rass.

Anywho I feel you on how do you expect me to trust you if you never tell me the truth. I also don’t blame you for making your presence known. I really hope this all works its way out. I don’t think you need to consider divorce just yet. See if you can get him to go to the counseling and put Lasheka away and talk to him for minute. Let him know you’re at the edge and about to let this marriage go. If he is not willing to work on it then neither are you. Its too early in the marriage for all this nonsense already. You r are supposed to be his best friend and he shouldn’t have to lie to you about anything. Rather it will hurt you or not just tell you the truth. Let him know Ells. Give him a serious look at let him know you will not be having this conversation again. This is it. Tell him your going to give it your all and try to get things back on track but if he isn’t in agreement let you know now or forever hold your peace.

There were so many lines I wanted to bold here but then I could've just bolded this whole thing. Thanks Dada for the advice! I agree on every point here! After some reflection, I'm not set to throw in the towel yet but I'm bracing myself for anything that might come up. It's tough....he's a good, sweet guy for the most part but all of this mess is a serious problem & I spent a lot of time yesterday asking what I was getting out of this marriage. I couldn't come up with much & can't even after we talked last night. Maybe my 'payoff' (not that that was my intention in going through all this) will come later but right now, it's a burden on me & I'm not benefiting much from it. I hate to admit this but, I've spent a lot of hours recently thinking about life before this relationship & as hard as it was at times to be lonely, I've begun to think I didn't know how good I had it! I'm not even talking about the freedom to be with whoever you want romantically, just the freedom to do what you want, when, where, with whoever, etc.! If this doesn't work out, I may be one of the biggest advocates on the planet to tell folks to STAY SINGLE! It's not so bad!

Morning, everyone!

I need to catch up from Saturday, but I did want to drop some good news: Steven got an A on his Business class test! So far, he has a B in the class, but I hope he gets A's on the next 2 tests to get an A overall.

Go Steven!

Dada I agree with your advice goven but sometimes you sit down and have a serious talk and think that everything is all gravy then a few weeks later they're at it again so it's as if you're at your wits end with talking and it's extremely frustrating because you see no progress. As you said, if he's not willing to work on it then she shouldn't be willing either because you can't get help if you don't admit that you need help.

Don't feel bad about being an investigator, you gotta do what you have to do to protect yourself and your feelings because when men/women are cheating they don't think about their SO and I know this because I've cheated and have been cheated on.

True KJ! We've had similar convos before but never quite to this degree of seriousness. I *think* he knows I'm not playing anymore. Again, we shall see. I wouldn't feel bad about being a PI either...I'm about to don some dark glasses & follow him on my bicycle...ducking behind cars & bushes & ish! LOL!!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Good afternoon, ladies

Whats beeen up since ive been gone, still not home yet waiting for my flight from dallas fort worth,

Mrstee dada give me an update,, PLEASE

[MRStee 19]

One thing came to mind when you were saying all this Ells "Phenomenal Woman" by Dr. Maya Angelou.... We all are!!!

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.

I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size (except for kj and besa )

But when I start to tell them,

They think I'm telling lies.

I say,

It's in the reach of my arms

The span of my hips,

The stride of my step,

The curl of my lips.

I'm a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That's me.

I walk into a room

Just as cool as you please,

And to a man,

The fellows stand or

Fall down on their knees.

Then they swarm around me,

A hive of honey bees.

I say,

It's the fire in my eyes,

And the flash of my teeth,

The swing in my waist,

And the joy in my feet.

I'm a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That's me.

Men themselves have wondered

What they see in me.

They try so much

But they can't touch

My inner mystery.

When I try to show them

They say they still can't see.

I say,

It's in the arch of my back,

The sun of my smile,

The ride of my breasts,

The grace of my style.

I'm a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That's me.

Now you understand

Just why my head's not bowed.

I don't shout or jump about

Or have to talk real loud.

When you see me passing

It ought to make you proud.

I say,

It's in the click of my heels,

The bend of my hair,

the palm of my hand,

The need of my care,

'Cause I'm a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That's me.

[Ellsinlove 2]

Well well, Im sorry to hear about this. Dont want you to feel any worse hon, I can understand your situation very well, i.e. my dad, brother and hubby's best friend. Honestly, hubby used to lie about dumb stuff too. Through this, I feel like men just have to lie to be in control of the situation.

I think thats just retarded, and when used to lie over calls and stuff, I'd always find out, so he stopped. Although we had our fight last week, he was honest about who he was talking to and when. Maybe your husband will change when he realizes he keeps getting caught in his lie and sees that its no use because there really isnt any reason to lie about who he is talking to if she is his boy's girlfriend.

I pray and hope it gets better and he does what needed to please and make you comfortable.

Thanks Besa! Hubby is learning that there's very little he can get away with that I won't at least eventually find out about but I don't know if it will deter him. Only time will tell. Thank you (& everyone) for your prayers...I'll be doing the same because I do want this marriage to work.

On another note I'm so P'D OFF!

I'm sure I told y'all I'm not sure if I'm preggo, anyhow I had an appt today and he knew. So I woke up, got dressed and left. At the doc office he called and said he's coming so I said fine. Waiting and looking out for him, waitng and looking out for him Then he calls to say he's drinking tea he'll be there in a minute so I said ok. The receptionist came out and told us the doc is gonna be late so we can leave or wait so I left without calling him, I walk in the door to see him sitting on the computer on FACEFRIGGGINBOOK!! His response "you couldn't call and tell me you left the doc, what if I had walked up there?" So I slapped the ###### outta his azz (shouldn't have) and grabbed my laptop and walked away. Now tell me, if you don't wanna come to the doctor's office just fcuking say so, but don't have me sitting there looking out for you and here fcuking rapping on facebook. Rant Over.

I'm trying my best not to put my hands on him because I'd stab his azz if he dare try to hit me back but I was pissed

Oh KJ, I was mad right along with you....men can be so stupid & insensitive at times. And I don't blame you for smackin 'im! I feel a little bad though that reading that part made me laugh my a$$ off! I'm not laughing at you or the situation but I guess your frustration hit home with me & I took a little pleasure in imagining myself doing the same kinda thing! I hope hubby sees what a butthead he was being & is a little more supportive of you the next time around.

KJ girl I have been there many tomes. Sometimes G make me so mad I want to go up side his head. Once I punched him on his leg and he just stop talk and look pon mi like mi crazy. I told him I have anger management issues and if he piss me off I can snap. So now when he piss me off he does it from a far.

[MRStee 19]

There were so many lines I wanted to bold here but then I could've just bolded this whole thing. Thanks Dada for the advice! I agree on every point here! After some reflection, I'm not set to throw in the towel yet but I'm bracing myself for anything that might come up. It's tough....he's a good, sweet guy for the most part but all of this mess is a serious problem & I spent a lot of time yesterday asking what I was getting out of this marriage. I couldn't come up with much & can't even after we talked last night. Maybe my 'payoff' (not that that was my intention in going through all this) will come later but right now, it's a burden on me & I'm not benefiting much from it. I hate to admit this but, I've spent a lot of hours recently thinking about life before this relationship & as hard as it was at times to be lonely, I've begun to think I didn't know how good I had it! I'm not even talking about the freedom to be with whoever you want romantically, just the freedom to do what you want, when, where, with whoever, etc.! If this doesn't work out, I may be one of the biggest advocates on the planet to tell folks to STAY SINGLE! It's not so bad!

Go Steven!

True KJ! We've had similar convos before but never quite to this degree of seriousness. I *think* he knows I'm not playing anymore. Again, we shall see. I wouldn't feel bad about being a PI either...I'm about to don some dark glasses & follow him on my bicycle...ducking behind cars & bushes & ish! LOL!!

Lawwwwwwd Ells not the PI

[MRStee 19]

Whats beeen up since ive been gone, still not home yet waiting for my flight from dallas fort worth,

Mrstee dada give me an update,, PLEASE

UPDATE:

Basically a few of us wanted to our hubbies because they gone madddddd! Ells put it out there though! She about to ship Lehi back in a barrel to the JA.. Me and Dada was fussin wit each odda but we good now lol.. umm lot of AOS activity.. Thats it..

Did you get your baby girl?