Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!

[kjenkins86 5]

Besa sweetheart, as I said before no offense intended so I hope you weren't offended. You have every right to be mad in a situation like that and I'm glad she's no longer a problem.

I apologize if I came off too strong, always an issue that I've had. Also thanks for sharing your experience with us all.

MrsTee I learned from the best, Rashida! Lol just kidding. But we're cool...

Edited April 11, 2010 by kjenkins86

[justucia 0]

Really I wasnt seeking things out, as I said, I talked to her before and she seemed all cool. Then when I kindly asked her not to text him at 5 am, she came at me like I shouldnt tell her what she can do with my husband, even though he told her the same thing. Some women just make it hard for the rest of us lol.

ooooooooh hell no!

she got fresh with you?

i am with you 101%, i agree that many many many people have no clue how to behave - re manners

she knows she's wrong!

** that!

[My4rmylife 0]

Hey KJ Mawning

Hey My3 long time no speak how are you and the fam doing?

Hey Dens' I am missing mi Yaad right now too but August soon come we are going for 2 weeks then to Haiti for a week. Back on my diet and exercise hustle got to right and tight

hey philly we are great how is yours.

[My4rmylife 0]

If this keeps up, he's going to see Lesheka come out!

Wishing him lots of luck!

Oh no, not just an hour. He talks CONSTANTLY on the landline! If we didn't turn the ringer off sometimes, every night it would be ringing every 5 minutes. It's very disruptive & annoying. Sometimes I think I married a frikkin teenager!

We tried the prepaid...TWICE! With AT&T the 1st time & his Dad got him Verizon the 2nd time with the promise of keeping his minutes going for him....well, apparently even his Dad got tired of how quickly he went through it because he stopped offering & then Lehi started begging him, then his Mom & then me. I told him I stopped the pre-paid for a reason & if his Dad wanted to keep up with it, that was between the two of them. I'm not spending my limited funds & breaking the budget for him to go through $50/mo in phone charges. I decided to add him to my plan finally since it will only be about $20 more to do so. But, he is not sticking with the agreement that it's mostly for emergency or 'check in' calls except for when it's unlimited on nights/weekends. This guy just doesn't get it that we don't have it like that right now.

you dont have any prepaid plans that are unlimited in your area..

[My4rmylife 0]

Besa, my mom sent two seperate money orders and she got her receipt letter yesterday...

Ladies, when your men went to the k-1 interview, I'm surentheybgot this paper saying that they should register for selective services (or something like that) as soon as they enter the country or else there'll be a fine. Did y'all let your men register? I didn't...

yes mine did it required in the first 30 days if they are under 26

[My4rmylife 0]

If they over 25 do they have to register? Now I need to go and investigate as well...ughhh!

no

[besaangel 18]

Good luck baby, Claim it! hi Den!

yes sometimes you can get stuff discounted.

Gut a mofo- far too funny lol

[besaangel 18]

ooooooooh hell no!

she got fresh with you?

i am with you 101%, i agree that many many many people have no clue how to behave - re manners

she knows she's wrong!

** that!

Girl... I so wanted to cuss her out but was being humble

Jenkins had the same issue in sending you a message- had to edited and re-edit which took me like 15 mins to write

Dada I agree with you in that things are going to change once you get married, maybe not ar once but certain things ought to change in respects to each other

[DaDa 1]

ooooooooh hell no!

she got fresh with you?

i am with you 101%, i agree that many many many people have no clue how to behave - re manners

she knows she's wrong!

** that!

Another thing ladies woman/ men don't respect a marriage that is why there are so many problems. Memba how back in the day a woman/man would see a wedding ring and wouldn't go near you because they \knew that person was off limits but no adays folk don't care. They be like I'm married and the next response it so?? ####### you mean so..I never wanted to date anyone who wasn't fully mine and I still don't.

She knew she was dead azz wrong why would you text someone at that time of morning. Whatever the issue was would still be there in a few hours knowing dis man is hugged up with em wife. Ooh dat makes mad!!!

[DaDa 1]

Tee!!!!! Help!!! I can't seem to write this cover letter. Can I e-mail it to you so you can look it over for me? You said you were good with writing If so can you PM mi yuh e-mail address?

[DedicatedWife 4]

no

Thanks My3! I thought so but was having a moment the other day. With everything I'm juggling I'm trying to make sure we not out the loop on anything but we straight since Den over the age.

Hope all is well with you and your fam!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Thanks for the luv mija... same to you cuz we need as much support as possible.

Yes we all need support every now and again.

[DedicatedWife 4]

We all have different views/opinions of what marriage should be and should not be. As you can see, Im not the babying, coddling type.. If you want to be treated like a man, you just need to act as such. I love teaching, helping, showing, but somethings you have to stand up and do it for yourself. I believe in independence when necessary.

Only you yourself can gauge what type of marriage/relationship you want through communication. That's the key!

[DedicatedWife 4]

DW you might not agree with me but as I told Besa, if you were comfortable with him before marriage then you should be just as comfortable with him after marriage. Don't be trying to do no major changes where it isn't necessary.

As me and Tee were laughing at the fact that I pass gas in front of G, when I get married I'm still gonna do, that is until he says "enough gas girl" He tickles until I'm at the brink of p'ing on myself and he won't stop when we get married. Those are minor things but major things should be dealt with before marriage, not after.

Goodluck on the inspection!!! As you'd say "claim it girl!"

Have a great weekend ladies.

KJ, I survived the rugrats...barely...lol. Dem five kids kicked my butt.

No, I'm very comfortable with him or else we would not have married! I'm not trying to change him at all. One thing about me...I will never walk around like my stuff don't stank...you can never put anything above and beyond someone. I stay prayed up and focused. I try my best to trust as much as I can...but I had a moment the other night. I admitted it, discussed it,and now we stronger today from it. Den is a wonderful man, a loving husband and father! I couldn't pray for a better man. So little things may come up because every day will not be sunshine but we'll get though it. I believe we have what it takes to make it through the test of time, I really do!So love that man!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Gut a mofo- far too funny lol

Girl sometimes it gets like that but not often!