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How to Withdraw AOS or Affidavit of Support?

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Texsinbad   6

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My wife has recently informed me that she intends to leave me when she recives her Green Card. She wants to find someone younger and/or richer. It seems like the only reason she married me was to come to the United States. I love her very much, but a marriage can't work unless both want it to.

Since this wasn't a "true" marriage on her part, I want to withdraw the AOS or Affidavit of Support. Does anyone know how or what I should do to do this?

A little background: A couple of weeks or so ago, we received a notice that our file had been transferred to California (we are in Texas). This means that there will not be an interview. If may already be to late, but I want to try to stop it.

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Markieboy   104

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I'm so sorry to hear your situation.

I'm assuming this is a conditional 2-year green card? When were you married?

If you are financially supporting her, she will have problems when it is time to remove conditional permanent residence status. She will be unable to prove a bona fide marriage. This will lead to a denial of a 10-year green card, and removal proceedings will ensue.

Or, if you do get an RFE...just ignore it. Eventually, your application will be considered abandoned. But if it is already transferred to CSC, most likely...the green card is on its way.

Again, sorry to hear your situation. Terrible, just terrible.

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NATURALIZATION
02/15/13 - Mailed N-400
02/19/13 - Received by Phoenix Lockbox (day 01)
02/21/13 - NOA1 issued (day 03)

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS (WIFE)
02/18/12 - Eligible for Removal of Conditions on Residence
03/23/12 - Mailed I-751 to CSC
03/26/12 - Received by CSC (day 01)
03/31/12 - Received NOA1 (day 06)
05/02/12 - Biometrics done (day 38)
10/23/12 - Received approval email (day 212)
11/01/12 - Received green card (day 221)

IR-2 (STEPDAUGHTER)
06/01/10 - Mailed I-130 petition
06/03/10 - Package delivered to USCIS (day 01)
06/08/10 - NOA1 issued (day 06)
11/03/10 - Received approval email (day 154)
11/08/10 - Received approval notice in mail (day 159)

NATIONAL VISA CENTER (STEPDAUGHTER)
11/08/10 - NVC received case from USCIS
11/09/10 - NVC case # & IIN generated, email addresses given, DS-3032 sent via email & USPS (day 01)
11/16/10 - Received and paid AOS bill (day 08)
11/17/10 - AOS bill marked as PAID; AOS packet express mailed (day 09)
11/19/10 - Received and paid IV bill; DS-3032 accepted (day 11)
11/22/10 - IV bill marked as PAID; IV packet express mailed (day 14)
12/03/10 - Sign-in failed (day 25)
12/09/10 - INTERVIEW SCHEDULED FOR JANUARY 10, 2011 @ 6:45AM
12/28/10 - Medical exam done at SLEC Manila - PASSED! (day 40)
01/10/11 - Interview at USEM Manila - APPROVED! (day 53)
01/21/11 - Stepdaughter received passport with IR-2 visa! (day 64)

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My sympathies are with you. From what I know, the only way to withdraw an application is to write a formal request. Maybe you can send one to CSC, indicating your case number and then the reason you're withdrawing your application. I think you should really withdraw it since if she gets the GC, that will only give her the opportunity to find a younger man and you will give her ammunition to succeed in her plans. Im not saying you should be vindictive, but I believe in honesty and respect. You deserve better

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sachinky   465

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Send a notarized statement to CSC withdrawing your AOS.

Sorry to hear about your situation.

03/27/2009: Engaged in Ithaca, New York.
08/17/2009: Wedding in Calcutta, India.
09/29/2009: I-130 NOA1
01/25/2010: I-130 NOA2
03/23/2010: Case completed.
05/12/2010: CR-1 interview at Mumbai, India.
05/20/2010: US Entry, Chicago.
03/01/2012: ROC NOA1.
03/26/2012: Biometrics completed.
12/07/2012: 10 year card production ordered.

09/25/2013: N-400 NOA1

10/16/2013: Biometrics completed

12/03/2013: Interview

12/20/2013: Oath ceremony

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Nik+Heather   121

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Send a notarized statement to CSC withdrawing your AOS.

Sorry to hear about your situation.

As the petitioner, you withdraw your financial support, you you withdraw your I-864. I would do as suggested above, as well as get an infopass to ensure that there isn't anything else you should do or a different address to send it to. Take another copy of your notorized withdrawal to the infopass.

Also, get started on your divorce.

K-1:

January 28, 2009: NOA1

June 4, 2009: Interview - APPROVED!!!

October 11, 2009: Wedding

AOS:

December 23, 2009: NOA1!

January 22, 2010: Bogus RFE corrected through congressional inquiry "EAD waiting on biometrics only" Read about it here.

March 15, 2010: AOS interview - RFE for I-693 vaccination supplement - CS signed part 6!

March 27, 2010: Green Card recieved

ROC:

March 1, 2012: Mailed ROC package

March 7, 2012: Tracking says "notice left"...after a phone call to post office.

More detailed time line in profile.

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besaangel   18

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simply startling... withdraw and let her reap her #######

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01/06/10 - ♥ Got Married ♥

AOS from F-1 visa (2 months 2 1/2 weeks or 82 days)

04/14/10 - Sent AOS Package

04/26/10 - Hardcopy NOAs Received

05/16/10 - Biometrics letter

05/19/12 - Successful Walk-in Biometrics in Dover DE

07/07/10 - Interview Appointment in Philly- July 7 @ 11:05 am APPROVED

07/19/10 - 2 YEAR Green Card received

Removal of Conditions (9 months 1 1/2 weeks or 285 days)

04/08/12 - Eligibility date

04/19/12 - Sent ROC Package

04/26/12 - Hardcopy NOAs Received

05/17/10 - Biometrics letter

05/24/12 - Successful Walk-in Biometrics in Dover DE

01/25/13 - APPROVED- ROC card production ordered

02/05/13 - 10 YEAR Green Card received

Naturalization (5 months 2 days or 155 days)

04/15/13 - Eligibility date

06/07/13 - Sent Package

06/20/13 - Hardcopy NOAs Received

06/27/12 - Successful Walk-in Biometrics in Dover DE

07/05/13 - Interview letter sent/In-line notification

08/14/13 - Interview scheduled in Philly @ 1:30 pm APPROVED

11/07/13 - Oath Ceremony

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Texsinbad   6

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I am in the process of getting an attorney to file for divorce. I will also sent a notarized withdrawal letter to CSC, and hope that it is not too late.

Things are starting to get worse. She went to visit a friend yesterday, and didn't come home last night. All of her things are still here; so, she will come back sometime.

Thanks for the suggestions.

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Also if you suspect immigration fraud, you should report her to ICE. Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can phone them - 1-866-347-2423

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I am in the process of getting an attorney to file for divorce. I will also sent a notarized withdrawal letter to CSC, and hope that it is not too late.

Things are starting to get worse. She went to visit a friend yesterday, and didn't come home last night. All of her things are still here; so, she will come back sometime.

Thanks for the suggestions.

Do try to maintain your composure and not hint her as to what you intend to do as she might try to manipulate the matter even more. Please be prompt and take care. Neither you or anyone else deserves such treatment. All the best

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01/06/10 - ♥ Got Married ♥

AOS from F-1 visa (2 months 2 1/2 weeks or 82 days)

04/14/10 - Sent AOS Package

04/26/10 - Hardcopy NOAs Received

05/16/10 - Biometrics letter

05/19/12 - Successful Walk-in Biometrics in Dover DE

07/07/10 - Interview Appointment in Philly- July 7 @ 11:05 am APPROVED

07/19/10 - 2 YEAR Green Card received

Removal of Conditions (9 months 1 1/2 weeks or 285 days)

04/08/12 - Eligibility date

04/19/12 - Sent ROC Package

04/26/12 - Hardcopy NOAs Received

05/17/10 - Biometrics letter

05/24/12 - Successful Walk-in Biometrics in Dover DE

01/25/13 - APPROVED- ROC card production ordered

02/05/13 - 10 YEAR Green Card received

Naturalization (5 months 2 days or 155 days)

04/15/13 - Eligibility date

06/07/13 - Sent Package

06/20/13 - Hardcopy NOAs Received

06/27/12 - Successful Walk-in Biometrics in Dover DE

07/05/13 - Interview letter sent/In-line notification

08/14/13 - Interview scheduled in Philly @ 1:30 pm APPROVED

11/07/13 - Oath Ceremony

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belinda63   3,038

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1. send notarized/ delivery confirmed letter to CSC.

2. Make info pass appointment and provide copy of the letter.

3. Call Ice

4. File for divorce

5. Protect yourself assets/property/claims of domestic violence.

Good luck and sorry this happened to you. Protect yourself first.

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1. send notarized/ delivery confirmed letter to CSC.

2. Make info pass appointment and provide copy of the letter.

3. Call Ice

4. File for divorce

5. Protect yourself assets/property/claims of domestic violence.

Good luck and sorry this happened to you. Protect yourself first.

And do it NOW. Time is not on your side.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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My wife has recently informed me that she intends to leave me when she recives her Green Card. She wants to find someone younger and/or richer. It seems like the only reason she married me was to come to the United States. I love her very much, but a marriage can't work unless both want it to.

Since this wasn't a "true" marriage on her part, I want to withdraw the AOS or Affidavit of Support. Does anyone know how or what I should do to do this?

A little background: A couple of weeks or so ago, we received a notice that our file had been transferred to California (we are in Texas). This means that there will not be an interview. If may already be to late, but I want to try to stop it.

Thanks

As your case has not yet been approved do this:

1. send notarized/ delivery confirmed letter to CSC VIA EXPRESS POST

2. Make info pass appointment and provide copy of the letter.

3. Call Ice

4. File for divorce

5. Protect yourself assets/property/claims of domestic violence.

and do part 1 especially NOW! If you wait until it is approved then it is too late.

Kick her out of the house. Make sure she is NOT living with you. Some people try and fake abuse to get the GC and you are left with spousal abuse against your name. Do NOT allow yourself to be alone with her. Have someone (or several someone's) come over while she packs her things (and watch she doesn't steal anything) or pack her things for her.

Have her leave the property. If she can stay out overnight she has somewhere to stay. Perhaps consider giving her $20 to call someone (or home) or get food or something (if you want to be extra nice).

Also if you suspect immigration fraud, you should report her to ICE. Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can phone them - 1-866-347-2423

Good luck :)

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Aussie K1 process - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/206016-australian-beneficiaries-packet-3-to-interview-date/
AOS, EAD & AP - the Aussie Way (including document list) - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/235331-aos-ead-ap-from-k1-the-aussie-way-doc-list-included/
ROC April 2012 - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/358760-i-751-april-2012-filers/ (includes document list)
N-400 April 2013 - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/412738-n-400-april-2013-filers/ (includes document list)

N-400 Interview review - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/412738-n-400-april-2013-filers/?p=6381814

N-400 Oath Ceremony review - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/412738-n-400-april-2013-filers/?p=6537699
Aussie Chat page continued - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/331922-new-2011-land-downunder-aussie-aussie-aussie-oi-oi-oi/
Aussie Name Change on Passport Process - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/248400-australian-passport-name-change-process/
Travel on maiden name passport with married name GC, tickets in married name - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/183541-land-downunder-aussie-aussie-aussie-oi-oi-oi/page__view__findpost__p__4135806
Shipping Costs from Aus to US - http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/293179-shipping-costs-aus-to-usa/

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- For my "standard" timeline please see timeline to the left
- For timeline with Aussie specifics & more detailed info, please see the "About Me" section of my profile

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1. send notarized/ delivery confirmed letter to CSC.

2. Make info pass appointment and provide copy of the letter.

3. Call Ice

4. File for divorce

5. Protect yourself assets/property/claims of domestic violence.

Good luck and sorry this happened to you. Protect yourself first.

Can I have the address of where to send the notarized letter of "Affidavit of Support" Withdrawal? You wrote CSC, but I dont know where I would find that particular address

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