Desperate need of advise :(

[DanielParul 50]

That's, honestly, really good to know.

Personally, I really hear him. No matter happened, including 'dropping out of school,' the question is how to solve it, if not fix the marriage at this stage. The reason why I am pointing this out is that there are people out there who might be going through the same problem. To say the least (not the fake part, but real marriage trouble like anyone else) about, not the exact same scenario, feeling stuck and horrified by the idea that they don't know what to do or what to expect. Because we all know that some people are not just compatible, let alone how short amount of time they had before or after their weddings or altogether and filing AOS, and in this kind of circumstances, they would feel trapped. Feels like the whole world they know of is crumbling.

Now, because I don't know much, and I am just a junior member whose AOS is still pending, I can't really write anything helpful in terms of solving the problem, but then I can't help myself wondering what if my marriage breaks down, say, tomorrow... Obviously, my circumstance would be different, but the reason why I am saying this is that I have found myself arguing with my wife numerous times (in spite of the fact that our relationship is 1 year and 4 months old, including our marriage), sometimes I get afraid that she might drop a bomb and reverse the whole immigration idea. Besides this unforeseen incompatibility, in spite of the fact that everything looked rosy at first, I sometimes wonder what if our marriage might really fall apart... What should I do?

My point is that... I don't think the OP's marriage fell apart in that 19-day period of time if it was real. Because I am who I am (of course, I am nobody with any legal knowledge), in spite of all too-coincidental circumstances, I'd like to give the OP the benefit of the doubt. Let's say... his marriage was falling apart before his interview. (Please, OP, I am just speculating, but I apologize if I offended you by saying that.) But out of the goodness of their relationship, they both agreed, at least, to go ahead and help him obtain his GC so that he can stay for awhile.

Do you think then that that's going to be the ground where he would be denied upon by the USCIS? Besides, of course, the whole thing might look suspicious to them.

If it wa

[DanielParul 50]

Ignore previous post, for some reason it did not show.

[Fandango 1,440]

I still can't get past the point where you came here to study, then dropped out after getting AOS, all in under a year. My fiance moved cross country to come here to study, we met, and now we're having a baby...all perfectly logical reasons to drop out and get a job. But at the same time, that's not what he moved here for. So we deal until he graduates.

You moved across the world to study, then for some reason it became irrelevant after AOSing from an F-1. You're lucky I don't work for USCIS, because that smells well dodgy by itself, let alone wanting a divorce 3 weeks after getting a GC.

[Tahoma 2,292]

You say you both love each other. We all know that "love" isn't enough... and communication is a clear issue. If it means enough to you all, then learn new communication skills, even if that means you both going to individual and couples counseling.

This comment hits the nail squarely on its head.

Why isn't the OP currently involved in individual counseling or in couples counseling? He's certainly needs it.