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Wantedtobelieve   4

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Well, I am throwing in the towel. The love is gone, he will soon be gone. He was nice enough to tell me that he can easily "find another woman to support him." I hope your journey doesn't end as badly. My heart has been broken and stomped on. Beware, the pretty face that hides an evil heart. Some can't love because they can't love themselves. They can't give, trust, or love. Some are just plain lazy and feel entitled to a free ride. Guard your heart, ladies because people can change to their true selves after you are married. He will have his green card, so he will be happy. What a sad way to live, using and stepping on people to get what you want. My life will go on, but my heart is truly broken.

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Well, I am throwing in the towel. The love is gone, he will soon be gone. He was nice enough to tell me that he can easily "find another woman to support him." I hope your journey doesn't end as badly. My heart has been broken and stomped on. Beware, the pretty face that hides an evil heart. Some can't love because they can't love themselves. They can't give, trust, or love. Some are just plain lazy and feel entitled to a free ride. Guard your heart, ladies because people can change to their true selves after you are married. He will have his green card, so he will be happy. What a sad way to live, using and stepping on people to get what you want. My life will go on, but my heart is truly broken.

Sorry for you pain and no one deserves this type of treatment, but this goes for women as well. I walked off and left my wife and she was drop-dead gorgeous and people ask me how I could have left someone so beautiful. Only if they knew what I was put through. I bought a one-way plane ticket to my destination while she was at work and never looked back.

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01/05/12 - Mailed I-751, Petition to Remove Conditions.

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11/15/12 - Wife Received ten year PR Card.

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Sorry to hear

Removal of Conditions: 12/09/2011

ROC check cashed 12/15/11

NOA1 12/13/11

Biometrics 1/6/12 Complete

RFE 9/13/12

RFE package sent back 10/17/12

Card Production Ordered 12/04/12

10 year card arrived in mail 12/10/12

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shefellfromheaven   18

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May the peace of God be with you.

In your Strength, I can crush an army; with my God , I can scale any wall .....2nd Samuel 22:30

For God did not give us a spirit of fear and timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self discipline}... 2 Timothy 1 :7[/i]

Set me as seal over your heart. Solomon 8:6

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AOS

08/03/2009 - AOS Approval

08/13/ 2009- GC in mail

ROC

09/01/2011 - Roc Approval

N - 400

06/15/2012 - Mailed N - 400 package to Phoenix

06/19/2012 - Notice of Action

07/20/2012 - Biometrics

08/20/2012 - Interview: PASSED

09/21/2012 - Oath Ceremony :)

09/21/2012 - US Citizen

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Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows James 1 : 17[/center]

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Wantedtobelieve,

Why do you necessarily think such separation is a bad thing for you? Cheer up...you never know what's hidden. One may visit a doctor and get his foot amputated, and would wonder why did this happen to him/her? If they only know that that foot may have killed them due to diabetic ulcers, then they would be so thankful for the doctor. Do we have to wait and find out about the harm that may have happened for us to be content with fate?

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Wife's I-130:

03/15/2019 NOA1 (Nebraska Service Center)

02/11/2020 Case transferred to Vermont Service Center

02/02/2021 NOA2 الحمد لله

02/04/2021 Approval email
02/12/2022 NVC documents submitted

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Wow!I feel so bad for you,but I know you will be ok. Love can be a scary thing,so guard your heart!!

Well, I am throwing in the towel. The love is gone, he will soon be gone. He was nice enough to tell me that he can easily "find another woman to support him." I hope your journey doesn't end as badly. My heart has been broken and stomped on. Beware, the pretty face that hides an evil heart. Some can't love because they can't love themselves. They can't give, trust, or love. Some are just plain lazy and feel entitled to a free ride. Guard your heart, ladies because people can change to their true selves after you are married. He will have his green card, so he will be happy. What a sad way to live, using and stepping on people to get what you want. My life will go on, but my heart is truly broken.

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HI there..soooo sorry to hear that. Take heart that you gave it your all and you 'left it all out on the field' as they say. You have done your best, that is all you can ask for. May your pain go away quickly and you move onwards and upwards. How long after you got married until you started seeing 'the signs'?

2009 - Meet First Time in San Jose, CR

10/24 - 10/26/2009 - Another trip to spend time together

10/30 - 11/1/2009 - More time and met daughter and had a lovely time. Happy Halloween!

11/14 - 11/16/2009 - Officially engaged - This is the real deal!

12/19 - 12/27/2009 - Spent Christmas in Costa Rica.

2010

01/15 - 01/27/2010 - Vacation in Guanacaste

02/18 - 02/23/2010 - Back to Rio Frio for Mandy's B-day

03/05 - 03/08/2010 - Surprise Weekend Visit to Rio Frio

K 1 - Timeline:

Immigration Started

11/17/2009 - Send I-129F to Vermont Service Center

11/24/2009 - NOA1 physically received in Houston, TX

12/18/2009 - 12/28/09 - Fourth Visit to Costa Rica....stay in Rio Frio, CR.....Merry Christmas!!!!

3/3/2010 - Received NOA2 via email from USCIS!

3/16/2010 - Received Packet 3.

3/23/2010 - Finished Paperwork and received interview date

4/7/2010 - Interview in San Jose, CR

4/15/2010 - Travel together to Houston, TX

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HI there..soooo sorry to hear that. Take heart that you gave it your all and you 'left it all out on the field' as they say. You have done your best, that is all you can ask for. May your pain go away quickly and you move onwards and upwards. How long after you got married until you started seeing 'the signs'?

You know, really, as soon as we got married, he started showing his butt. Too much to even detail, but my friends think I am crazy for putting up with his #######. Even as we speak, he thinks I am the problem. He is jealous of his friends who did not have to work as soon as they got here. The absurdity of it all is overwhelming!!! The problem here is someone who hasn't matured past about 13 and feels he is always right. I am still trying to get him to leave and will see a lawyer tomorrow. You know, he operates like an abuser, in that he tries to make it all my fault. I admit I'm bossy, but have probably done too much for him, but he always wants more. I suppose I don't understand the entitlement mentality of somebody coming here and expecting the other person to literally take care of him. The problem is I'm all used up. Wish me luck and please say a prayer for me and for him that he will one day find happiness and/or peace. Thanks for listening!

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You should call ICE and inquire with them if you should file a case for visa fraud. The number is at the bottom of this page, in the fine print.

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

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