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Homosexuals have no right to have their marriages recognized under Federal law. Put another way, they are second-class citizens by law. Therefore, dissing them isn't bigotry.

Nor is it bigotry to address people who practice polygamy.

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This is a marriage-based community. Given that gays can't marry under federal law, anti-gay threads are entirely within scope of this site.

Given that one can be bisexual and yet still seek marriage with a partner of the opposite sex, or be straight and seek marriage with someone with a gay family member, or otherwise sponsor a gay relative, anti-gay topics can and do effect members of this community.

Homosexuals have no right to have their marriages recognized under Federal law. Put another way, they are second-class citizens by law. Therefore, dissing them isn't bigotry.

And would you say that 60 years ago, when interracial couples were legally allowed to not marry (and thus were second-class citizens, though not as second class as minorities in general were) and other race-based shenanigans were allowed, dissing minorities or mixed couples isn't bigotry? A legal flip switch doesn't change what is and is not bigotry.

As well, basing one's bigotry off of a law that is not constitutional (as per state findings in most of the states that have legalized gay marriage, where almost unilaterally, the argument of equal protection rights and the comparison to Loving v Virginia tends to be made) is sketchy at best.

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No, it's not. There are all kinds of immigration visas catered for here besides marriage based ones. Even if it were simply about marriage, there are arguably gay children from these marriages who have every right to immigrate. Bigotry is also against the TOS. Either the TOS have a meaning or they do not. If they do not, then the mods should quit chastising me and everyone else for name calling which while mindless and irritating is not as serious as racism and bigotry.

I'll tell you whats interesting to me is since I have been here at VJ, I can't count the times I have heard people who live in Mobile homes (trailers) spoken of as if they were the lowest life form... most often when one person is trying to insult another. (Trailer trash)

I'm bettin we have members right here who must feel attacked every time they see that, I checked and I could not find you opening your mouth one time in defense of them even though you know members of VJ live in Mobile homes.

NO your big concern is I used the word Pink in the title, thats being a bit of a fraud MC.

The truth of it is.... you are another UK, big government type who wants some controlling hand to make everything YOU don't like go away.

I have simply used the term PINK and post 2 news stories and look at all the saliva running down your chin over it.

When groups openly and publicly use certain words, colors or themes to identify themselves, I will feel free to use them as well.

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I can't count the times I have heard people who live in Mobile homes (trailers) spoken of as if they were the lowest life form...

They're poor and poor people are trash. Common knowledge.

A legal flip switch doesn't change what is and is not bigotry.

Yes, it does. Please try to pay attention.

Man is made by his belief. As he believes, so he is.

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I'll tell you whats interesting to me is since I have been here at VJ, I can't count the times I have heard people who live in Mobile homes (trailers) spoken of as if they were the lowest life form... most often when one person is trying to insult another. (Trailer trash)

I'm bettin we have members right here who must feel attacked every time they see that, I checked and I could not find you opening your mouth one time in defense of them even though you know members of VJ live in Mobile homes.

NO your big concern is I used the word Pink in the title, thats being a bit of a fraud MC.

The truth of it is.... you are another UK, big government type who wants some controlling hand to make everything YOU don't like go away.

I have simply used the term PINK and post 2 news stories and look at all the saliva running down your chin over it.

When groups openly and publicly use certain words, colors or themes to identify themselves, I will feel free to use them as well.

Danno, no, it's nothing to do with the word pink, it's about what having a 'thread for and about gays' says about the VJ community, particularly when the person starting the thread is known to be bigoted.

I have no wish to silence you, I do not wish you to be suspended and I have no wish to stop you posting whatever articles you want to post but I do wish it to be noted that this type of generic 'gay thread' has no place in a site that should be open and welcoming to all.

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I have put you on ignore. No really, I have, but you are still ruining my enjoyment of this site. .

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Danno, why are you so insistent on denigrating individuals on the basis of the "group" that you feel that they belong to?

Furthermore, exactly how is it possible to have a discussion about individual news stories within the scope of a single thread? That seems kinda silly.

What exactly is the point of trying to lump completely different and unrelated stories in one thread?

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Danno, why are you so insistent on denigrating individuals on the basis of the "group" that you feel that they belong to?

Furthermore, exactly how is it possible to have a discussion about individual news stories within the scope of a single thread? That seems kinda silly.

What exactly is the point of trying to lump completely different and unrelated stories in one thread?

We should have a white people thread. Every news story involving white folk in that thread.

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We should have a white people thread. Every news story involving white folk in that thread.

Yeah that's about the size of it.

If issues involving or relating to gay people can be shoehorned into a single thread, I'm sure we can do the same for white folk too.

Of course, then Danno might realize how ridiculous it is.

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And why not I would contribute to it.

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Sorry, I know he's your friend, and that's fine. Despite appearances I don't dislike Charles (but do not spread that around),

i do recall one post not too long ago where you stated otherwise.

If Charles had even mentioned the offensive nature of the title in his post, problem solved but sorry - didn't happen, credibility on this issue zero.

it's not my habit to address posts with a mod hat on outside of forums which i have no control over.

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And why not I would contribute to it.

You do recognize, of course, that 99% of every article posted would have to go in the "white thread"? Every political thread since our political establishment is largely white (even our black President is actually half white); every general interest thread involving North America, Europe and those two inconsequential nations down under; every thread about movies, unless the movie is Precious or a Spike Lee production; almost every TV thread; global warming threads, since most scientists are white; and so on.

Of course, there's a dilemma. Some of those white people are gay. So when a global warming scientist is white and gay, do we cross post across both threads?

Or do we just accept the status quo that a scientist being white or gay means nothing in a global warming thread, that his or her presence in that article is due to his scientific expertise and not his race or sexual proclivities?

You tell me. How do you wanna play this?

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i do recall one post not too long ago where you stated otherwise.

it's not my habit to address posts with a mod hat on outside of forums which i have no control over.

I have and do call you a wanker, because of these sorts of posts. I don't hate people based on whether they are wankers or not.

Refusing to use the spellchick!

I have put you on ignore. No really, I have, but you are still ruining my enjoyment of this site. .

 

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