Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 24!

[Ellsinlove 2]

Part 13:

My good friend has 44J...and she is only 5'2".... has such a hard time finding bra's cause she doesn't like to order them online due to every company sizes a little different. I am just glad not to have that problem...had mine taken down after having Alanah 9 years ago....that was a load off of my back ...REALLY

*FAINTS*

hey everybody.. i keep trying to get caught up, but it keep kicking me out. so i guess i'll just say hi before it goes down again!

roger got is hours increased.. he is now working full time 8pm-5am.. booo at those hours.. but yayy for the money..

he is not working weekends only..

Congrats on more hours for Roger even though it's not as convenient now! At least that paycheck will be more convenient!

RuPaul's Drag Race is on Logo and I can't get enough!

Tee I'm sorry but I know how you feel about the surgery, I am not down for it neither. I don't have back issues or anything, prolly cause I'm built to hold this shelf

But one girl I almost gave myself a concussion, I was sleep and turned over quickly and mollywhopped myself right upside the head! I saw Stars Hot mess

I can't get drag race at work but all of this talk about it had me at home watching it on VH1's web site late!

@ mollywhopped yourself!

[MRStee 19]

bye everybody

Bye QQ

[Ellsinlove 2]

Part 14:

So after the biotch chukkles, I drop my keys and my purse, and commence to whiopp her azzz The fight felt like 15 minutes but it was only for about 1 1/2 or 2 minutes. She tried to slam me about 3 times. she was trying to be like a raging bull but it was more like a . I was dog walking that hoe. She pull my braids from the back and it still hurts like heck. So my cousin was there and when I started whooping it she started recording. She was recording the woman and the man fighting and arguing when she was throwing stuff at him. She was letting me buy some foodstamps so we were separately grocery shopping in the same store.

But anyways so after a few minutes she was begging me to stop because she said her heart was hurting. I cant hear the lady yall I was just in kill mode. She was trying to sock me but I swear I could feel the hits like she was hitting herself. until I woke up this Sunday morning my azzz was sorrrrrrrrrrrreeee.

The security comes with the manager and a clerk. They break us up and they grab me because I was winning and she was crying or whining. When the security grabbed me like he was going to put me in handcuffs that hoe got a sucker punch

I'm mostly a lover & not a fighter but there is definitely a time & a place to open up a can o' whoop azz & I think that was the time & place! We'll just call you 'Tyson' from now on!

Why did she do that, I kicked the hell out of the security and started beating it like MJ. She dropped to the floor and was covering her head. At that time the security told me if I didnt stop he was going to taze me. SO I STOPPED She started telling her boyfriend who was cheering me on to call the police.

I heard my son saying momma you beating her up ( im hella embarrassed at that)

I heard my cousin saying Get that AZZZ girl.

And the boyfriend saying whoop that bytch azz and then asked my cuzzin whats my name she told him Tyson and he started saying whoop her Tyson.

You can hear it on the recording from the cell phone.

So they take us to the back holding cell or something and they are saying that I am going to jail because I was fighting on their property.

I told them that I am going to sue the company because they knew the lady and the man was disruptive and they didnt do anything. Which ended up getting her azz kick because she hit my baby in the head after throwing stuff at the man.

2 hours later the police was there my husband had came and left to get my son and took my keys purse and jacket home.

I gave them a fake name and wrote a police report.

The lady officer was so nice.

They watched the surveillance camera and showed the lady throwing stuff at the man and when it hit my baby it showed her laughing.

the office said I would have kicked her azz too. between me and you.

She was so nice but said I had to appear in court because the store was pressing charges on me and the security officer was also because I kicked him, but the tape clearly shows them detaining me and not her.

I am still mad and my cousin posted the fight on FB I was like you so stupid and everyone knew it was me. So I dont know who else maybe copied it from there or what but I told her to remove it.

She needs assault charges for hitting your son. I almost don't want to quote your story but I just had to reply. After this we'll all drop it. Anyway, that is crazy & some people need an attitude adjustment....it was her day for one!

Edited March 16, 2010 by Ellsinlove

[Ellsinlove 2]

Part 15:

MsTee i aint had to fight in like 7 years. but the devil took control of me and I started going crazy. she is beat up and now I feel bad but you gotta watch what you do when you around other people kids.

Because I will die for my babies all day every day

And she was thinking it was a joke until I showed her what joking will get her.

i aint the biggest person in the world Im just tall, but Im under 200 and she was way over. she was samoan (sp). and young 27 years old and thought she was bad. had the whole samoan mafia up there. But yall know my family deep so everyone was there also. it looked like a celebrity was at the supermarket with all the people there.

My daddy came up there and said how you feeling champ. i was like thats not funny I am embarrassed because my baby seen me get down like that

But I teach them to defend there selves but I feel I went to far.

So please dont post anything on FB yall because it is pending appearances in court and I used a fake name.

Some people think they're bad...until someone shows them otherwise.

All you ex-ETJ girls......what they hell did I ever see in that site. Well, except for you guys. Same Shyt different day. Geez.....they never ever change.

Please keep me entertained so I don't venture over there anymore.

Wha happened?? I peeked in & couldn't find anything juicy.

Back from school....80 out of 100....I am toooo happy about that because kinesiology aint easy at all!!! Plus I am OLD... and mi nah memba much...

Jam Q...DANG GIRL...... That was some grocery shopping experience! What I am wondering-why is the store pressing charges? Shoot...that's the security guard's job to maintain the public...normally they just watching for shoplifters he should be glad he had something to do!

ok, 2 tests tomorrow...Anatomy and Physiology lab and lecture so gonna go study about the Nervous System and cells

Congrats Jamerican on the good score! How'd you do on the others?

Alarm set to ring in 3 hrs. Why am I STILL awake? I did just finish Dave Ramsey's Total Money Makeover. I'd started it years ago & it sat on the book shelf half read until now.

Sounds like you have a slight case of insomnia...I know the time change doesn't help either. I've been going to bed real late the last couple nights. Had to take melatonin last night to get my self in 'sleep mode'. Then hubby's mom calls at 4:30 a.m. cause after nearly 9 months she STILL doesn't realize the time difference! Hubby forgot to turn off the ringer last night before bed so we had an unwanted wake up call. Couldn't go back to sleep until almost 6 a.m. & the alarm went off 30 minutes later. Sometimes I tell ya.....

Nat, I swear in the 2 days since changing clocks back... I cannot get to sleep at night. I am up until midnight and then tired when I have to get up in the morning. It is so annoying. Although in your case it seems your getting alot of work done.

Also, when Louis was in SLU I didnt sleep well then either. Even though he works nights... it was different when he was in a whole other country! Maybe you will be super sleepy tonight and can get to bed early. Don't drink that Earl Grey before bed.... caffeine!

Have a great Tuesday everyone!

I've been to bed at 12:30 or later since the time change. I wish I was doing something productive like Nat....usually I'm just goofing off online.

TODAY IS MY 4TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

Happy Anniversary 1luv!

[Ellsinlove 2]

Part 16:

Does anyone else see a problem with this.

I told Eric that I had a problem with his FB profile. He has on there that he is married (that good) but then he has that he is interested in women. All his friends are women except for one guy. Now he didn't even add me as a friend until I saw that he had a FB page( he didn't know how to log out)go figure!!!

Then he says that I shouldn't have been snooping. WOW!!!! Now he had people writting on his wall now he has that option blocked. UMMM HMM!!!

So I decided to just delete him as my friend all together. So that way I won't be consider as snooping.

You're married, there is no longer such a thing as 'snooping'. In my humble little opinion, his business IS your business now! (And vice versa of course.) There should be nothing to hide that snooping should be a concern.

LOL we were watching Chelsea girlllllll it was so good Part 3 soon come but let me tell you Damian was freaking out he said he nuh watch no more African shows if they make parts 1-2-3-4-5 infinity LOL. He wants to watch the whole movie and done Now if D was hotter than fish grease you know it was good, I'm tryna find it on Youtube to post but that may be a lost cause......

YOU need to lay down the law and we he days Im done talking say well im not... we have to communicate our feelings or this marriage is headed for destruction....

I've said something very similar to my hubby recently even.

I have had similiar problems just not with FB. One thing Im learning is to pick and choose your battles (now ladies this is HARD coming from me, believe me when I say this) You have to say to yourself is FB worth losing my husband over...

The other realization that you have to come to is that Eric needs to respect your feelings as a woman and as his wife. One of the reasons he decided to marry you was because he loves and respect you. Right now he is falling a little short on the respect issue. If he knows being on FB bothers you, he either needs to let you in or get rid of it. Thats how I see it. What is it going to hurt for him to change "Interested in Women" to "Interest in Friends". Not to mention you have family members looking at his page and they probably wondering the same thing too.

I basically had to tell hubby that this life with him is not what I signed up for and that if we can't get it together then we don't need to be together. I love my hubby with all I got, but Im not afraid to let go in the end. I will not be miserable with or without the person I love. I refuse. Im not saying its this deep with you and Eric but you two really need to get things out on the table.

Hubby said the most hurtful thing to me the other night and after he said it I shut down went in my room, but *baaaaaaaaaaaaaby.... when Rashida got ready... I put his azz on blast and told him don't ever disrespect me like that again, because he has not a clue on what he is talking about and about to get himself into. He apologized to Rashida cause Tracey wasn't ready to hear it just then! lol

I'm not sure what you two are going through but I almost could've written what you wrote here because it can apply to many situations & even last night this could have applied for us. I was annoyed that this weekend he was gone A LOT & never bothered to check in with me. Sometimes I feel like I have a roommate rather than a husband. That whole 'married but alone' thing. Then I wonder if I'm overreacting. THEN, he goes & makes up for it at least a little bit. If you ever want to chat, you know how to find me!

I guess Im different, Im fiesty and I think because Im older, Im more outspoken. I just try to rationalize with him and show him examples like flipping the script to see if he can understand where Im coming from, if he felt the way I felt because my feelings are valid...your right, nothing you do will stop them but I will be dayumed if I am going to be with someone who can't respect my feelings and/or wishes, or even take them into consideration. You done gained a lifetime membership of "Rashida"!

I'm going to be making more of an effort ASAP to start 'flipping the script' to show hubby how it feels. Not to be mean, just to show him what it feels like to be the one on the other side.

[Ellsinlove 2]

Part 17:

I am thinking also because I have no car and cannot get anywhere... I can't spend my money! LOL

It's a blessing in disguise!

Well Irie...that is one positive thing that came out of not having a car.

Dillon always says what I wanted to say but in a slightly different way.

girl it hard.. i wanted to go out last night, but im learning not to spend every dollar cuz i can LOL..

roger is irking me tho cuz he has an $18 check from his job.. he had come in and signed some papers and they paid him for his time girl everytime i look at it, im like.. WHY ISN"T THAT IN THE BANK.. he said he will just wait till he get his check on friday and put them both in the bank girl do you know all the plans i had for that $18, i just keep passing it on the dresser and it calls my name LOL..i am not a frivolous person w/ money, but you better believe i will FIND something i can do w/ any dollar i find..

@ calling your name. I'm like Roger that way....I wait to cash checks just so there ISN'T temptation to spend it.

Mikel had to go to Kingston yesterday and said that there was some shoot out. Said one police officer died and like 2 other people as well. Hope you are staying safe.

Serious times!

sunny..SHUT UP.. i can see u pushing him out then turning on ur soft music in the bubble bath wid a glass of champagne!!! like YESSS heehee

roger took his sweet time leaving last night, i thought he was gonna be late, im like babe, we gotta get out the bed..then he had the NERVE to tell me to come visit him at the store.. i was like but i took my happy rass up there right b4 closing

SAAAADDDDDDDDDDD..

NO, not sad, SWEET!

We are so alike.. I would be the same way with the $18! I LOVE LOVE When I have a # in my head for groceries and go under. The check out lady I am sure thinks I am a weirdo when I say "YESSSS!"

Ok Ladies... I have ONE HUNDRED AND FIFTY BUCKS! Wooo!

I've actually got more than $500 still. Of course, I only get paid once a month so it has to stretch....AND, the car is going in to the shop tomorrow morning for repairs before my extended warranty expires. (Dreading the fight on my hands to get them to cover the expenses for the repairs.)

Hey JQ, have you told him how this is making you feel? You know my motto is communication 24/7. We don't have this exact issue we are good at making decisions together but I know he always wants to make me happy so sometimes I feel he is just going along so I wont get "Hype" as he calls it. I told him that ain't gonna work cause this is 50/50 and he can't just acquiesce to appease me nuh suh!

Hubby says I 'chip out' when I get mad!

[Ellsinlove 2]

Part 18:

Am the only one that is attached to the hip and doesn't need break time

No! I think I could be attached at the hip more than hubby. I'm happiest when we're just hanging out. He on the other hand, can spend all day out & about but then he gets all needy when he gets home. And that gets on my nerves.

Q, I be looking t the clock. LMAO He says I'm on FB and VJ too damn much and so when he leaves, I log on or do whateva I want to at that point. He hard the nerve to ask me if I could bring his lunch up to the job at midnight last night. I was like what yuh tek mi fah.... He said I'm just playing and I hung up in his ear. This morning I said you weren't playing you really thought I was going to get out the bed at 12pm and bring you lunch. ###### naw... I'm kind, but not that damn kind. He got the game twisted.

Me too!

My phone disappeared

I went to a Toastmasters meeting after lunch and sat my purse in the chair beside me. As I was running the meeting, I took out my phone at one point to see the time so I'd know when to start. That was the last time I saw it.

I didn't realize until about 1:45 that it was missing, and went back downstairs to the conference room. It wasn't there & neither security guard said anyone turned it in. I've emailed the other 8 people who were at the meeting asking if they saw it. No luck so far.

And I'm MAD because just a couple of days ago, I turned off the Wifi setting. Had I kept it on, I could use Google Latitude to track the phone's whereabouts (if it were turned on). Right now, it's turned off & goes straight to voicemail.

Fortunately, I noted the IMEI number from the phone shortly after I got it. I'll be able to give this # to TMobile & they can track the phone. Plus I can see if someone makes any calls with it by checking at tmobile.com.

I hope it shows up though.

You are good to have been prepared by having that # though. Good luck with that! The one positive to AT&T (cause they kinda suck otherwise), is that with my plan, I'm entitled to a new phone every year. I don't take advantage though because my current phone is still perfectly good & does everything I need it to. I don't do all the fancy stuff so if it takes pics & a few other things, I'm good.

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Okay, 4:00 & time for me to cut out for class tonight. Likkle more yardies!

[MRStee 19]

Part 16:

You're married, there is no longer such a thing as 'snooping'. In my humble little opinion, his business IS your business now! (And vice versa of course.) There should be nothing to hide that snooping should be a concern.

I've said something very similar to my hubby recently even.

I'm not sure what you two are going through but I almost could've written what you wrote here because it can apply to many situations & even last night this could have applied for us. I was annoyed that this weekend he was gone A LOT & never bothered to check in with me. Sometimes I feel like I have a roommate rather than a husband. That whole 'married but alone' thing. Then I wonder if I'm overreacting. THEN, he goes & makes up for it at least a little bit. If you ever want to chat, you know how to find me!

I'm going to be making more of an effort ASAP to start 'flipping the script' to show hubby how it feels. Not to be mean, just to show him what it feels like to be the one on the other side.

Aint it crazy how they starting to act.. see the weather getting nice.... they startin not to suffer from "noactrightinem" (no act right in them) lol

Edited March 16, 2010 by MRStee

[MRStee 19]

Part 17:

It's a blessing in disguise!

Dillon always says what I wanted to say but in a slightly different way.

@ calling your name. I'm like Roger that way....I wait to cash checks just so there ISN'T temptation to spend it.

Serious times!

NO, not sad, SWEET!

I've actually got more than $500 still. Of course, I only get paid once a month so it has to stretch....AND, the car is going in to the shop tomorrow morning for repairs before my extended warranty expires. (Dreading the fight on my hands to get them to cover the expenses for the repairs.)

Hubby says I 'chip out' when I get mad!

mine need belts and inspection im dreading it too! Thats from travellin to see these Vjer's.. just teasin

[MRStee 19]

philly im watching The monster in me with nadia buari

[NatPatBen 3]

So my investigation began:

I figured the first step is to identify potential suspects. Who could've possibly been in one of the 5 conference rooms in the secured section where my phone disappeared. Here's how I narrowed the list from all employees in the building to 74:

1) Checked to see who'd reserved any of the 5 conference rooms

2) Found 3 rooms combined & reserved from 12:30 to 2:30. My phone disappeared between 12 and 1:45, so this one fit.

3) Went to the calendar of the person that made the reservation. Access Denied.

4) Looked up her job title. Admin assistant to Mrs Manager

5) Looked at Mrs Manager's calendar. She was off today & didn't have the meeting on her calendar.

6) Saw that Mrs Manager had scheduled meeting with Team Leads for Thursday.

7) Checked each of the 3 Team Leads' calendars to see if they had today's meeting on there.

8) The second Team Lead I tried had meeting on calendar. Saw that meeting ran from 1 to 2. Also saw the people invited to the meeting.

9) Unfortunately, it was a quarterly safety meeting for everyone in the department: 65 people. Still, the list is narrowed to about 74 people: 65 from that meeting, 7 from the meeting I was in, & the 2 sec guards.

So... Do I email these 65 people from some other group about the missing cell phone? If I do, would anything REALLY come of it? I've already prayed that God softens the heart of the thief to the point where they turn it into security.

But in the grand scheme, it's not THAT big a deal to lose a new, expensive cell phone . After all, Quana said she's lost a bunch.

[NatPatBen 3]

You are good to have been prepared by having that # though. Good luck with that! The one positive to AT&T (cause they kinda suck otherwise), is that with my plan, I'm entitled to a new phone every year. I don't take advantage though because my current phone is still perfectly good & does everything I need it to. I don't do all the fancy stuff so if it takes pics & a few other things, I'm good.

I don't take advantage of the annual upgrades either. I had my same phone for over 3 years! I just upgraded to this Google phone 1.5 months ago & was loving it. I didn't think I needed or would really use internet on my phone, but once I had it, I realized how useful it is. Waiting is never an issue if you have the internet on you.

[dillon 6]

i haven't spoken to him in a few days and its hard because i can tell he wants to break down crying.. i feel bad for him.. gonna call him tonight...

MrsTee...just let him cry. It breaks your heart but sometimes it really helps them. I have heard my Dad cry so much over the last couple of months and it doesn't get any easier. Chokes me up everytime.

[MRStee 19]

So my investigation began:

I figured the first step is to identify potential suspects. Who could've possibly been in one of the 5 conference rooms in the secured section where my phone disappeared. Here's how I narrowed the list from all employees in the building to 74:

1) Checked to see who'd reserved any of the 5 conference rooms

2) Found 3 rooms combined & reserved from 12:30 to 2:30. My phone disappeared between 12 and 1:45, so this one fit.

3) Went to the calendar of the person that made the reservation. Access Denied.

4) Looked up her job title. Admin assistant to Mrs Manager

5) Looked at Mrs Manager's calendar. She was off today & didn't have the meeting on her calendar.

6) Saw that Mrs Manager had scheduled meeting with Team Leads for Thursday.

7) Checked each of the 3 Team Leads' calendars to see if they had today's meeting on there.

8) The second Team Lead I tried had meeting on calendar. Saw that meeting ran from 1 to 2. Also saw the people invited to the meeting.

9) Unfortunately, it was a quarterly safety meeting for everyone in the department: 65 people. Still, the list is narrowed to about 74 people: 65 from that meeting, 7 from the meeting I was in, & the 2 sec guards.

So... Do I email these 65 people from some other group about the missing cell phone? If I do, would anything REALLY come of it? I've already prayed that God softens the heart of the thief to the point where they turn it into security.

But in the grand scheme, it's not THAT big a deal to lose a new, expensive cell phone . After all, Quana said she's lost a bunch.

detective NatPat.. that was some good work.. i will pray that God points you in the right direction and softens the heart of the person who has it!

MrsTee...just let him cry. It breaks your heart but sometimes it really helps them. I have heard my Dad cry so much over the last couple of months and it doesn't get any easier. Chokes me up everytime.

You're right.. i don't know how well I will handle it though

[kjenkins86 5]

Thanks guys for helping me out with that social security question.

I go and fill out the form, called in by some man who said that we don't need to apply because for the past 3 months immigration automatically apllies for it once he comes, and that we'll get it in the mail within 2-3 weeks

I don't think that's the case so I'm going back next week. Will let y'all know what happens because there's quite a few of us who will be applying for social security cards in the near future.

Nat: I hope you get the phone back.

MrsTee: dhs authorization? What's that????

JQ: I hope it works out and that the charges are dropped before you go to court.