Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 24!

[dancehallquana 5]

Jew...I have had problems with FB and hubby too. It drives me insane that he has like 2 male friends and a hundred women friends on there. He assures me I have NOTHING to worry about and it is just fun for him. I still don't like it but I am not going to have an arguement over FB anymore. It is one of the things that I am insecure about and I am not going to let it get the best of me.

i don't wanna take up for the guys cuz i know some guys have taken this very thing OVER the line, but SOME of the guys can really mean nothing by this stuff. i also chat and have flirty talk w/ guy friends and its SOOO innocent.. roger used to be upset by it ,so i had cut off alot of it.. it really wasn't going anywhere tho, i love my husband, but i had to respect his feelings too

[dillon 6]

Oh believe you me MrsT he knows what is on my mind. Sometimes when I open my mouth it just flows out! If I have a problem you are going to know about it.

He was teasing me yesterday that I don't hold anything back.

He really isn't doing anything wrong on FB it is just my own insecurity creeping in so

I really am trying to overcome that.

Oh believe you me MrsT he knows what is on my mind. Sometimes when I open my mouth it just flows out! If I have a problem you are going to know about it.

He was teasing me yesterday that I don't hold anything back.

He really isn't doing anything wrong on FB it is just my own insecurity creeping in so

I really am trying to overcome that.

[dancehallquana 5]

Quana, that is too funny. I pictured you throwing your purse down and having a tantrum... Like Tierra would! LOL When I tell her she can't go somewhere or do something! LOL

I flat out tell my friends... I can go on Payday..otherwise I am BROKE! LOL

Louis is more willing to take money we may not have so people don't know we have no money... I am always like.. "my friend have known me for a long time and all those years I have been broke.." LOL

Its actually nice to know I still have a little money in savings and we are on the off week for paydays. Small victory!

HEYYY.. girl that is something i have looked forward to saying FOREVER.. make it do what it do mami!!!

and yes girl.. i went 2 yr old FOR REAL!!!!!!!!!!

[IrieCat 2]

It is the same way for me this week! Trying not to go anywhere at all this week where I might spend any money.

I am thinking also because I have no car and cannot get anywhere... I can't spend my money! LOL

[dancehallquana 5]

oohh, look at ya'll all grown up and stuff.. well i get paid friday and i still have $60 lol.. im on my way to "big girldom"..

[dillon 6]

Well Irie...that is one positive thing that came out of not having a car.

[dillon 6]

You go Q!!!! I know there are days I am happy I have $10.00...I feel rich with that. $60 makes you feel like a millionare!

[dancehallquana 5]

Yep I even deleted my FB account for a short time because it was bothering me so much. But then why should I have to delete my account! So I reactivated it. If they are going to do something NOTHING you can do will stop them. That is how I have to think.

i had a friend that did the same.. well she didn't delete her accnt..she just never went onto her husbands..she said it would upset her too much..nothing inappropriate, just seeing women say hi to him..

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

i haven't read every single post relating to the issue but incidents like this is why I said a while back that facebook can be the devil for relationships

i agree with tee though, you have to choose your battles

and if you are in search of something, chances are you're gonna find it

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

I have had similiar problems just not with FB. One thing Im learning is to pick and choose your battles (now ladies this is HARD coming from me, believe me when I say this) You have to say to yourself is FB worth losing my husband over...

The other realization that you have to come to is that Eric needs to respect your feelings as a woman and as his wife. One of the reasons he decided to marry you was because he loves and respect you. Right now he is falling a little short on the respect issue. If he knows being on FB bothers you, he either needs to let you in or get rid of it. Thats how I see it. What is it going to hurt for him to change "Interested in Women" to "Interest in Friends". Not to mention you have family members looking at his page and they probably wondering the same thing too.

I basically had to tell hubby that this life with him is not what I signed up for and that if we can't get it together then we don't need to be together. I love my hubby with all I got, but Im not afraid to let go in the end. I will not be miserable with or without the person I love. I refuse. Im not saying its this deep with you and Eric but you two really need to get things out on the table.

Hubby said the most hurtful thing to me the other night and after he said it I shut down went in my room, but *baaaaaaaaaaaaaby.... when Rashida got ready... I put his azz on blast and told him don't ever disrespect me like that again, because he has not a clue on what he is talking about and about to get himself into. He apologized to Rashida cause Tracey wasn't ready to hear it just then! lol

Well, it definitely is not that deep. We have our share of arguments but mostly about the normal stuff. But I know where you are coming from. I can do bad all by my damn self

[dancehallquana 5]

You go Q!!!! I know there are days I am happy I have $10.00...I feel rich with that. $60 makes you feel like a millionare!

girl it hard.. i wanted to go out last night, but im learning not to spend every dollar cuz i can LOL..

roger is irking me tho cuz he has an $18 check from his job.. he had come in and signed some papers and they paid him for his time girl everytime i look at it, im like.. WHY ISN"T THAT IN THE BANK.. he said he will just wait till he get his check on friday and put them both in the bank girl do you know all the plans i had for that $18, i just keep passing it on the dresser and it calls my name LOL..i am not a frivolous person w/ money, but you better believe i will FIND something i can do w/ any dollar i find..

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

i don't remember getting anything hun.. pm me if you need.. we moved last mnth girl.. back to my old house, but had our mail forwarded so i dunno..

ok hope it comes ! ill pm u

[1luv 1]

You go Q!!!! I know there are days I am happy I have $10.00...I feel rich with that. $60 makes you feel like a millionare!

Q and Dillon I have $40. Just paid cable/internet/phone bill yesterday. $ 40 is what I have left over. Sometimes it only $5 so I am RICH LOL

You go Q!!!! I know there are days I am happy I have $10.00...I feel rich with that. $60 makes you feel like a millionare!

Q and Dillon I have $40. Just paid cable/internet/phone bill yesterday. $ 40 is what I have left over. Sometimes it only $5 so I am RICH LOL

[dancehallquana 5]

i haven't read every single post relating to the issue but incidents like this is why I said a while back that facebook can be the devil for relationships

i agree with tee though, you have to choose your battles

and if you are in search of something, chances are you're gonna find it

i LOOVVVEEE FB, cyaan tell me nutting..

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

oohh, look at ya'll all grown up and stuff.. well i get paid friday and i still have $60 lol.. im on my way to "big girldom"..

Quana-- you doing good. I won't have nothing if I don't put it over in my savings automatically. So I am working on getting my big girldom on as well..LOL