Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 24!

[phillyfashionista 8]

Hi Roxcie! The other guy's ins company was "not convinced" that his truck hit my car. So they sent out someone to assess the damages on my car and to see if things were consistant with the truck's damage. So we are waiting to hear about that this week. Since my car was "purplish" and the truck was white... helllllooooo... my car left some purple paint on the truck.

I have contacted a lawyer and have had some advice. There are "next steps" if this doesn't pan out this week or next. Just a waiting game for now.

Irie I know you will be victorious keep the faith Sis!

Good Morning!

I've been having trouble sleeping too. I didn't go to bed until 1:30am and that's not normal. Looks like the rest of the week will be in the high 60's so that gives me something to look forward too. Been waiting to use my picnic backback that I got from Target for $10 2 years ago and they are normally $70-$125. I love it, but it may be a little too early for a picnic. Have a good day everyone..

OOh I love bargains and that sounds so cute!

Good morning Yardies.

Well, Eric did some research and saw that people were doing walk-ins for their Biometrics Appointment. So he wanted us to drive to Norfolk to see if we could do the same. We drove down yesterday 15 MAR 10, the lady asked Eric what was his appointment date, he handed her the letter, then she asked if he wasn't able to make the 29th he said no. So needless to say we were able to do his fingerprints today. There was only one other person in the office doing fingerprints. Thank you Lord.

288---Man I don't even think I can catch up. Not at work anyway. I am going to have to start getting on this thing when I am home and on the weekends. Whew!!!

Congrats on getting the prints done!

[MRStee 19]

I wish Eric would lay down the law. He is normally quit and won't say much cause he doesn't want it to turn into an argument. We can't go on not talking and responding to each other cause we don't want our feelings to get hurt is what I said.

Most of the time he tells me I'm done talking to you. Like that is going to make the situation better. I just say oh ok. And go on with my happy little self. After my anger takes a stroll on the overboard side and I calm down some. He holds on to the whole thing. While I am like Babe, lets have it out and move on. But no, he doesn't operate like that. I be in bed like dang, he still mad so I guess no sexxy party tonight

YOU need to lay down the law and we he days Im done talking say well im not... we have to communicate our feelings or this marriage is headed for destruction....

[dancehallquana 5]

it was too funny tho mama.. i had promised some friends we would go out w/ them and when the night came, i didn't have extra money cuz of some work on my car..i really hate to let ppl down, sometimes i am such a ppl pleaser, it gets on his nerves LOL.. i said i would just overdraft my accnt.. he said that was crazy when i could just call them and tell them something came up.. i REFUSED.. inside i knew he was right, but i had gotten dressed and everything, whats a $20 OD fee for friends right?? i looked for my keys (dang, i can't keep up w/ nothing) and before i could get out the door ..he had called them (mutual friends) and i ran in my room and shut the door ..

its just cute (after the fact) cuz he is usually putty in my hands, my baby showed me him nuh pushova..

he doesn't like to stay mad, he came in and tried to talk..i talked back, eventually .. we both had ex's that did silent treatment on us and thats one thing we vowed never to do..im finding im having more trouble w/ that than he , but so far so good..

[MRStee 19]

1luv, Happy Anniversary!

Eric_Jew Nug, I had that same FB situation with my ex. He didn't want me knowing he had the account & didn't accept my friend request (until after I broke up with him for Steven). With Steven, things are completely different: very open. I much prefer openness.

Mrstee, I feel you on the mini vacations. Steven has already been on 3 trips without me since he got here, so I can't imagine him having a problem if I wanted to travel without him.... We'll see if/when it ever comes up.

LOL After what we heard yesterday, I'm scared for anyone who gives JQ trouble.

and I wouldn't have a problem if he wanted to go solo. We all need a break from time to time....I just think its funny that his family will see me before they see him back ina yaad. lol

[dillon 6]

Jew...I have had problems with FB and hubby too. It drives me insane that he has like 2 male friends and a hundred women friends on there. He assures me I have NOTHING to worry about and it is just fun for him. I still don't like it but I am not going to have an arguement over FB anymore. It is one of the things that I am insecure about and I am not going to let it get the best of me.

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Jew...I have had problems with FB and hubby too. It drives me insane that he has like 2 male friends and a hundred women friends on there. He assures me I have NOTHING to worry about and it is just fun for him. I still don't like it but I am not going to have an arguement over FB anymore. It is one of the things that I am insecure about and I am not going to let it get the best of me.

Guess we in the same boat then Dills

[IrieCat 2]

Quana, that is too funny. I pictured you throwing your purse down and having a tantrum... Like Tierra would! LOL When I tell her she can't go somewhere or do something! LOL

I flat out tell my friends... I can go on Payday..otherwise I am BROKE! LOL

Louis is more willing to take money we may not have so people don't know we have no money... I am always like.. "my friend have known me for a long time and all those years I have been broke.." LOL

Its actually nice to know I still have a little money in savings and we are on the off week for paydays. Small victory!

[dillon 6]

Guess we in the same boat then Dills

Yep I even deleted my FB account for a short time because it was bothering me so much. But then why should I have to delete my account! So I reactivated it. If they are going to do something NOTHING you can do will stop them. That is how I have to think.

[dillon 6]

Quana, that is too funny. I pictured you throwing your purse down and having a tantrum... Like Tierra would! LOL When I tell her she can't go somewhere or do something! LOL

I flat out tell my friends... I can go on Payday..otherwise I am BROKE! LOL

Louis is more willing to take money we may not have so people don't know we have no money... I am always like.. "my friend have known me for a long time and all those years I have been broke.." LOL

Its actually nice to know I still have a little money in savings and we are on the off week for paydays. Small victory!

It is the same way for me this week! Trying not to go anywhere at all this week where I might spend any money.

[MRStee 19]

Jew...I have had problems with FB and hubby too. It drives me insane that he has like 2 male friends and a hundred women friends on there. He assures me I have NOTHING to worry about and it is just fun for him. I still don't like it but I am not going to have an arguement over FB anymore. It is one of the things that I am insecure about and I am not going to let it get the best of me.

I have had similiar problems just not with FB. One thing Im learning is to pick and choose your battles (now ladies this is HARD coming from me, believe me when I say this) You have to say to yourself is FB worth losing my husband over...

The other realization that you have to come to is that Eric needs to respect your feelings as a woman and as his wife. One of the reasons he decided to marry you was because he loves and respect you. Right now he is falling a little short on the respect issue. If he knows being on FB bothers you, he either needs to let you in or get rid of it. Thats how I see it. What is it going to hurt for him to change "Interested in Women" to "Interest in Friends". Not to mention you have family members looking at his page and they probably wondering the same thing too.

I basically had to tell hubby that this life with him is not what I signed up for and that if we can't get it together then we don't need to be together. I love my hubby with all I got, but Im not afraid to let go in the end. I will not be miserable with or without the person I love. I refuse. Im not saying its this deep with you and Eric but you two really need to get things out on the table.

Hubby said the most hurtful thing to me the other night and after he said it I shut down went in my room, but *baaaaaaaaaaaaaby.... when Rashida got ready... I put his azz on blast and told him don't ever disrespect me like that again, because he has not a clue on what he is talking about and about to get himself into. He apologized to Rashida cause Tracey wasn't ready to hear it just then! lol

[dancehallquana 5]

Hey Q i hope u got my mail hope i had right adr!! yep Roger sound like Chris and tell me get off the internet lol ur welcome come by anytime im ALWAYS home lol hope ur doing ok..time for remove conditions need to do my research.. time flies

i don't remember getting anything hun.. pm me if you need.. we moved last mnth girl.. back to my old house, but had our mail forwarded so i dunno..

[phillyfashionista 8]

TODAY IS MY 4TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY

Happy Anniverasy 1 Luv Congrats that is just wonderful

You definitely did what you had to do and you shouldn't say too much on here either sweetie, you never know!

I agree, we need to low this whole topic

[*JG* 2]

FB can be the Devil in disguise. I see it just with myself....get some stupid friends requests from people I have no clue who they are.

[MRStee 19]

Yep I even deleted my FB account for a short time because it was bothering me so much. But then why should I have to delete my account! So I reactivated it. If they are going to do something NOTHING you can do will stop them. That is how I have to think.

I guess Im different, Im fiesty and I think because Im older, Im more outspoken. I just try to rationalize with him and show him examples like flipping the script to see if he can understand where Im coming from, if he felt the way I felt because my feelings are valid...your right, nothing you do will stop them but I will be dayumed if I am going to be with someone who can't respect my feelings and/or wishes, or even take them into consideration. You done gained a lifetime membership of "Rashida"!

[MRStee 19]

Philly I forgot to tell you, the other day I was about to watch a bollywood, but I got sleepy lmao.. I can't even remember the name right now lol