Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 24!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Ok ladies so I got a part time job with the Census for clerk. I took off my job to go to the training to see whats it all about. I get mileage to and from and its way across town.

First. turn on odometer

Second take kids to school.

3rd get nails done

4th go to Census training.

5th tell them all these miles was from the crib!!!!

Not really yall, I have to be there in 30 minutes so, Im out for the day so Ill talk to you ladies later

Be blessed and no fighting while Im gone.

Thanks 1 luv for the info. I'll tell you how it goes.

[MRStee 19]

Good morning ladies

Lawny- I had a dream about you last might lady. God Bless you and your family.

Tee- i hear you about putting a wraps on it, I am because dont want it following me, due to falsification.

Happy anni 1 luv

Im good always thanks for asking

hows married life?

Listen yall

I feel like fighting hubby. Why do he feel like he can do what ever he want to do and make decisions, and I can't say anything.

1. But when I tell him Im going to JA for 5 days (heck no you going for 3) or

2. My sis b-day today so she went otCali so I told her I will come Fri/Sat to spend it out there with here and we both come back home and he tell me(no you not going anywhere so get it off you mind)

He always got something to say. If I wanna go somewhere its a problem to hang with my girls but when he goes with his friends and I dont say anything, he makes that decision sometimes and dont even ask me.

I might have to kick his azz like I did, somoa slam momma.

Do any of yall have that problem? They feel like they are the man so they make all the decisions?

He spends his money anyway he want and feel like he dont have to get the approval from me. Which is ok because we have separate bank accts and joint for bills and savings and thats going great. But Im talking 100's of dollars yall. But anything I want to do he can say yes or no.

Im in a delima.

Because Im going anyway

I dont have that problem because I set things straight in the beginning. Im going on two mini vacations this year without hubby and he has given me his blessings. You need to sort things out because in the end, you will resent each other and have annimosity which you don't want. Good luck sis.

[Always Blessed 1]

Good morning ladies

Lawny- I had a dream about you last might lady. God Bless you and your family.

Tee- i hear you about putting a wraps on it, I am because dont want it following me, due to falsification.

Happy anni 1 luv

Im good always thanks for asking

hows married life?

Listen yall

I feel like fighting hubby. Why do he feel like he can do what ever he want to do and make decisions, and I can't say anything.

1. But when I tell him Im going to JA for 5 days (heck no you going for 3) or

2. My sis b-day today so she went otCali so I told her I will come Fri/Sat to spend it out there with here and we both come back home and he tell me(no you not going anywhere so get it off you mind)

He always got something to say. If I wanna go somewhere its a problem to hang with my girls but when he goes with his friends and I dont say anything, he makes that decision sometimes and dont even ask me.

I might have to kick his azz like I did, somoa slam momma.

Do any of yall have that problem? They feel like they are the man so they make all the decisions?

He spends his money anyway he want and feel like he dont have to get the approval from me. Which is ok because we have separate bank accts and joint for bills and savings and thats going great. But Im talking 100's of dollars yall. But anything I want to do he can say yes or no.

Im in a delima.

Because Im going anyway

Married Life is great sometimes and other times a pain but I love my husband and I know there will always be times like this so I take the good the bad and keep on trucking.

[IrieCat 2]

JQ, be careful with the sensus taking. Do you go door to door? 2 women were assaulted here in Maine while taking sensus questions. But I know you could handle it.

I also think you should be able to do what you want. I know we are married now and we should talk about what we want to do or buy etc.. but to ask permission... I dont know about that. My mom always says "Louis is letting you go out"... I am like #######? I dont ASK if I can go out... LOL And Louis doesn't make that an issue.

Jew... I set up Louis' FB, we have the same password etc and can go on each other's for whatever reason. He is always asking me to delete stuff, or reply to e-mails... because he says he takes to long to type.

I saw an e-mail from "an old friend" from st Lucia. I did not like what she had to say and he deleted her... I am glad for that! I don't think you should worry about snooping... hubby shouldnt have anything to hide!! 1

Speaking of FB. Louis posted a sappy love song on his page and said it was for "his lovely wife" .. LOL

I think he knows he made me mad the other day and that was his way of saying sorry. awwwww

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

morning yardies

happy 4th anniversary 1luv! wishing you many many many more

JQ you know those two are back together and he was probably cheering you on because he's been wanting to do it but can't (beat her up, that is)

who mi miss?

[MRStee 19]

JQ, be careful with the sensus taking. Do you go door to door? 2 women were assaulted here in Maine while taking sensus questions. But I know you could handle it.

I also think you should be able to do what you want. I know we are married now and we should talk about what we want to do or buy etc.. but to ask permission... I dont know about that. My mom always says "Louis is letting you go out"... I am like #######? I dont ASK if I can go out... LOL And Louis doesn't make that an issue.

Jew... I set up Louis' FB, we have the same password etc and can go on each other's for whatever reason. He is always asking me to delete stuff, or reply to e-mails... because he says he takes to long to type.

I saw an e-mail from "an old friend" from st Lucia. I did not like what she had to say and he deleted her... I am glad for that! I don't think you should worry about snooping... hubby shouldnt have anything to hide!! 1

Speaking of FB. Louis posted a sappy love song on his page and said it was for "his lovely wife" .. LOL

I think he knows he made me mad the other day and that was his way of saying sorry. awwwww

Louis throwin on the charm awwwwwwwwwww

[IrieCat 2]

Louis throwin on the charm awwwwwwwwwww

Time for the "pukey" smile! LOL

[dancehallquana 5]

mawning ladies..

i logged on, but have been doing 100 things, this new system is moving to slow..im not even gonna attempt to catch up..

lets see on this page i see 1 luv has an anni!! congrats mami!

sweetsugah has risen?? whata gwan girl, we have to make our way out to funky town soon, life been hectic lately. i wanna see peas!!!

um.. lets see.. roger don't like FB or any of that kind of stuff,says ppl shouldn't put their business out like that CHO! and luckily he is kinda free with me doing stuff and making decisions on my own.. he laid down the law a couple of times but it was for our good.. it kinda turned me on after i cried LOL

i love "louis stories" irie LOL

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

I wish Eric would lay down the law. He is normally quit and won't say much cause he doesn't want it to turn into an argument. We can't go on not talking and responding to each other cause we don't want our feelings to get hurt is what I said.

Most of the time he tells me I'm done talking to you. Like that is going to make the situation better. I just say oh ok. And go on with my happy little self. After my anger takes a stroll on the overboard side and I calm down some. He holds on to the whole thing. While I am like Babe, lets have it out and move on. But no, he doesn't operate like that. I be in bed like dang, he still mad so I guess no sexxy party tonight

[NatPatBen 3]

1luv, Happy Anniversary!

Eric_Jew Nug, I had that same FB situation with my ex. He didn't want me knowing he had the account & didn't accept my friend request (until after I broke up with him for Steven). With Steven, things are completely different: very open. I much prefer openness.

Mrstee, I feel you on the mini vacations. Steven has already been on 3 trips without me since he got here, so I can't imagine him having a problem if I wanted to travel without him.... We'll see if/when it ever comes up.

JQ, be careful with the sensus taking. Do you go door to door? 2 women were assaulted here in Maine while taking sensus questions. But I know you could handle it.

...

LOL After what we heard yesterday, I'm scared for anyone who gives JQ trouble.

[*SunRay* 1]

Congratulations.... 1luv

[dillon 6]

Morning Ladies!

Congrats on you anniversary 1LUV!!!!

[SweetSugahDumplin 0]

mawning ladies..

i logged on, but have been doing 100 things, this new system is moving to slow..im not even gonna attempt to catch up..

lets see on this page i see 1 luv has an anni!! congrats mami!

sweetsugah has risen?? whata gwan girl, we have to make our way out to funky town soon, life been hectic lately. i wanna see peas!!!

um.. lets see.. roger don't like FB or any of that kind of stuff,says ppl shouldn't put their business out like that CHO! and luckily he is kinda free with me doing stuff and making decisions on my own.. he laid down the law a couple of times but it was for our good.. it kinda turned me on after i cried LOL

i love "louis stories" irie LOL

Hey Q i hope u got my mail hope i had right adr!! yep Roger sound like Chris and tell me get off the internet lol ur welcome come by anytime im ALWAYS home lol hope ur doing ok..time for remove conditions need to do my research.. time flies

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

1luv, Happy Anniversary!

Eric_Jew Nug, I had that same FB situation with my ex. He didn't want me knowing he had the account & didn't accept my friend request (until after I broke up with him for Steven). With Steven, things are completely different: very open. I much prefer openness.

Mrstee, I feel you on the mini vacations. Steven has already been on 3 trips without me since he got here, so I can't imagine him having a problem if I wanted to travel without him.... We'll see if/when it ever comes up.

LOL After what we heard yesterday, I'm scared for anyone who gives JQ trouble.

I feel you Nat. But I don't think he has a problem with openness. He doesn't want to try and see where I am coming from. I tell him, you don't have to check either one (men or women). He sees it as he isn't interested in talking to men so he picked women. That is all he sees. I even sent him a messege, why you interested in other women when you got me, and that is what he replied back with. I say it just seems wired to me, why you wanna sit around chatting with all these other women, what if I was talking to only men? He says well you have a lot of men as your friends anyway. I said some are family and others are military friends and most are high school classmates.

I said you see where chatting got you (married)

[MRStee 19]

mawning ladies..

i logged on, but have been doing 100 things, this new system is moving to slow..im not even gonna attempt to catch up..

lets see on this page i see 1 luv has an anni!! congrats mami!

sweetsugah has risen?? whata gwan girl, we have to make our way out to funky town soon, life been hectic lately. i wanna see peas!!!

um.. lets see.. roger don't like FB or any of that kind of stuff,says ppl shouldn't put their business out like that CHO! and luckily he is kinda free with me doing stuff and making decisions on my own.. he laid down the law a couple of times but it was for our good.. it kinda turned me on after i cried LOL

i love "louis stories" irie LOL

I remember my daughter trying to make a fb page for hubby and he was like "no mannnnn" whenever he wants to see pics or anything from his family, he just goes through me or my daughter's site....He only plays solitare and look at soccer commentary