Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 24!

[phillyfashionista 8]

I usually pray this much and more, especially lately my faith is being tested BIG time. Ive been angry for the last two days and I definitely have to give it up to God. I prayed for MsSheka because she has gone through alot not having hubby here and especially to help raise the children so this was an important prayer for me to say especially cause Fats has to be a good boy while they are traveling so her pressure doesnt go up.... Nah you are the head prayer sayer mi sista!

Preach Tee we all need yuh preayers !

Speaking of Mi sista, what happened to Spanglas?

girl, you should hear my British side of the family talk...I just be laughing my A$$ off and they say I talk funny...mi jus seh eeh eeh mi seh if mi hear one a dem seh "bloody hell" one more time

pick me up on yuh way! mi will meet yuh a di corner!

ruh roh

a wah kine a wurd dat

sound like ebonics haaaa

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

I usually pray this much and more, especially lately my faith is being tested BIG time. Ive been angry for the last two days and I definitely have to give it up to God. I prayed for MsSheka because she has gone through alot not having hubby here and especially to help raise the children so this was an important prayer for me to say especially cause Fats has to be a good boy while they are traveling so her pressure doesnt go up.... Nah you are the head prayer sayer mi sista!

I HEAR YOU ABOUT THE Faith being tested. Keep yo head up and breathe.

[dancehallquana 5]

i pray her heart is softened and you guys can come together for the best of lil mama.. i know its tearing ur husband up..

alright yardies.. im out..

be blessed evening crew

[MRStee 19]

I know it isn't right to refuse your child to see their parent...HOWEVER...I believe in certain situations the Mother/Father needs to look out for the best interest of the child. In Tre's cousin's case I am sure he is a wonderful father and what I am about to say doesn't apply to him.

If Marley's father wanted to see her today and said he was in St Louis I would tell him NO. For many reasons... and my main reason is to protect her from being hurt emotionally. He comes in and out of her life and puts her on an emotional roller coaster. Makes promises he never can or intends to keep. So I have said that IF she ever in life wants to see him and tells me that she wants to see him I will find him for her. But as far as him wanting to see her...noway no how. A leapord never changes it's spots as far as I am concerned. I may be in the wrong for doing this but the things he has put her through a child should not have to go through.

I agree 150%

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

They are playing our song "From this Moment" by Shania Twain on the Dancehall station! Awwe this takes me back to that day I give my hand to you with all my heart, I can't wait to give my life to you I can't wait to start...........

Aww Phillly thats the song we danced to, for my wedding, Shania Twaina and the BackStreet Boys From this moment

Edited March 9, 2010 by Jamerican Queen

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Well if yall wasn't poe thangs and slip sliding on ya jobs, I wouldn't have to now would I hmph!

True You know you the queen (back up queen that is)

[MRStee 19]

yeah. you are right. Every state differs with the way they do business.

Girl PA is the worst!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

dada my pet, your epistles......that's TMI!

is my friend

An epistle (pronounced [ɪˈpɪsəl]) (Greek ἐπιστολή, epistolē, 'letter') is a writing directed or sent to a person or group of people, usually a letter and a very formal, often didactic and elegant one. The epistle genre of letter-writing was common in ancient Egypt as part of the scribal-school writing curriculum. The letters in the New Testament from Apostles to Christians are usually referred to as epistles. Those traditionally attributed to Paul are known as Pauline epistles and the others as 'catholic' or general epistles.

I still dont understand

[MRStee 19]

im sorry let me rephrase dillon, i mean as long as the parent is not causing any harm to the child..

now personally, i still think kids should see their parents and you have said that if marley asks then u will make an effort and thats great..i understand u can't trust his intentions, but u would not deny ur daughters requests and thats more than i can say for some..

my daddy was as deadbeat as they come, but we beamed everytime we were able to be with him as kids.. i gave my mom the blues many times when she was only saying the TRUTH about him, but i didn't wanna hear it, i justed waited for him to make good on promises and enjoyed the moments when he did.. i soon learned on my own

same with my kids if their daddy falls thru on a visit or takes items i bought them..they are upset, but u better believe they are looking forward to the time when he does pick them up, and thankfully its often enough..

but i feel you chica.. gotta do what u gotta do for ur fam!

volleyball??? ehhhn????????????? lol

Well speaking firsthand, we had 'issues' I will call it with my daughters father that kept her away for about 5 years. She now has decided to reconnect with him. I support her decision.. I don't like it one bit but she is old enough now to defend herself.. What's a mom to do? It's hard sometimes...

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

a wah kine a wurd dat

[MRStee 19]

Dag lawny, that's what we trying to do, full custody, but we will settle for share cause she won't let her come spend time with house, visa already paid for but she wont take her to the embassy to do the visiting nothing. And what piss me off is the condition we found the baby in, she had bumps all on her butt from sitting somplace dirty her little two chop in two from walking barefoot, she was dirty as hell and in bed sleeping! #######! she gonna talk about she must have been playing and fell asleep, its 7pm why would you not have given her a bath already and start getting her settled for the night, did she even eat dinner. I could hardly get dress for my wedding cause the baby was stuck to me like glue, the week we spent with her that was probable the most love and attention she has gotten in awhile! so mad!

How old is she portland?

I got an A in my History and Business class. Thank you God ......I just knew I was gonna fail business. My first grade was a 0.45 out of 15. I was about to cry. But I knuckled down and got through it.

Good for you. I know how hard it can be. Ive been out since last sememster... I need yall to pray for a sista cause I take the state test for math FOR THE FOURTH TIME @ $90.00 a pop..on saturday.. God knows I need to pass this!

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

I know it isn't right to refuse your child to see their parent...HOWEVER...I believe in certain situations the Mother/Father needs to look out for the best interest of the child. In Tre's cousin's case I am sure he is a wonderful father and what I am about to say doesn't apply to him.

If Marley's father wanted to see her today and said he was in St Louis I would tell him NO. For many reasons... and my main reason is to protect her from being hurt emotionally. He comes in and out of her life and puts her on an emotional roller coaster. Makes promises he never can or intends to keep. So I have said that IF she ever in life wants to see him and tells me that she wants to see him I will find him for her. But as far as him wanting to see her...noway no how. A leapord never changes it's spots as far as I am concerned. I may be in the wrong for doing this but the things he has put her through a child should not have to go through.

Do whats best for the child always Dills, I am in a similar situation

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

I got an A in my History and Business class. Thank you God ......I just knew I was gonna fail business. My first grade was a 0.45 out of 15. I was about to cry. But I knuckled down and got through it.

Congrats Im going to need this every class. You got that soldier

Edited March 9, 2010 by Jamerican Queen

[MRStee 19]

Portland-- I feel ya. The child didn't ask to be in this world. Why not let her come and be somewhere where she is wanted, loved, and cared for? Just reading this makes my blood boil. So I know you are hot!!!

You know it is SunRay. I have to take a break to go to a Army school, just scared that I won't be in the mood for college classes when the course is over. It is only a month. But I don't do well with breaks.

Me either Erica! I feel like if I can't register for summer classes Im not going back

[MRStee 19]

Just for Anthony to see her to talk about the condition and care of the baby he had to get there at 7:00am and we had the baby and she was sleeping so I didn't go with him and she don't get home till 10:00pm, I know she trying to do something with her self going to school and working but she don't have time for the child, and we do, so why not let her stay with us until you get yourself together. If it was once we found her dirty I would say it can happen here and there but everything he goes to JA its the same thing cause we never tell her we coming just to see what the baby day to condition is and is not pretty.

We had the baby for a week in while we there and we were suppose to take her home and do our honeymoon but I couldnt even enjoy myself knowing the condition she was going back to, So I told my husband I didn't mine having her with us. Her mom called one night and she calling her name on the phone normally she would say hello or something she put the phone down and crawled into my lap, I just started crying, I thought she would have missed them or something but you would have never known we took her from her home, she was having so much fun.

Let it out girl! This is SO sad to hear *sigh*

True You know you the queen (back up queen that is)

hahahahaha