Divorce Forum ?

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Like Chris (Chris-N-Veronica) I was married for 28 years. I do not totally agree with "stay and work it out" idea. This is okay to a point. I spend WAY TOO LONG "staying and trying to work it out", about 10 years of counseling, both individual and maritial together with my wife. I did learn a lot, but I also learned if there are no significant positive results of "staying and working it out" within about 18 months to two years, get out! It will not get better. An after I met my Irina from Russia, I really found out what love from a women is really like! ! ! ! I now wish, I had not spent more than 12 months "staying and trying to work it out". After receiveing the love and affection from Irina, it became painfully obviously that my ex-wife was very dysfunctional and there was never any hope of change that would make my life fulfilled and happy.

But back to the point of this thread...I am fully in favor of a Immigration related divorce forum.

I think it is healthy and educational, even for newbies, paticularly for newbies, to see what the reality can be and should be fully aware of the consequenses of making a poor choice or being defrauded, which can easily be done int the starry-eyed stage of a relationship. And, in my great state of South Carolina, the divorce laws are so terrible (worst in the USA), that you must understand what you may be in for in the event that things do not turn out for the best. Paticularly in immigration related marriage, most are coming from a very different culture and may not be able to adjust before wreaking havoc on the relationship. And I suspect that many are in my situation where I have everything to lose and she has everything to gain, if the marriage will fail. This is a big consideration for me to decide to get married.

So lets get this new forum started! ! !

Devereux

working on it as we speak

[Satellite 1]

working on it as we speak

It's about time, I don't think it would have taken Steve this long to put up a new forum. Edited October 19, 2006 by Satellite

[Welshcookie 17]

meowwwwwwww..........

[meauxna 15]

working on it as we speak

It's about time, I don't think it would have taken Steve this long to put up a new forum.

That's not very nice.

It's not a matter of just putting up another place to post questions.

[Captain Ewok 1,891]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showforum=127

I thought it was prudent to expand a little on the topic of divorce to any major change in a family that may impact immigration related benefits (i.e. including the loss of life of the petitioning party as well as divorce).

[diadromous mermaid 36]

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showforum=127

I thought it was prudent to expand a little on the topic of divorce to any major change in a family that may impact immigration related benefits (i.e. including the loss of life of the petitioning party as well as divorce).

Must have been thinking alike. I was finding it difficult to restrict Q and As simply to divorce situations.

[CarolineM 0]

oooh I love the bright, shiny new forum

[Yodrak 7]

Captain Ewok,

Yes. Well done and worth the wait.

Thank you.

Yodrak

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showforum=127

I thought it was prudent to expand a little on the topic of divorce to any major change in a family that may impact immigration related benefits (i.e. including the loss of life of the petitioning party as well as divorce).