NEW to forum, our story

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Hi everyone I am a very new user of this forum, although I have already done a lot of reading after my marriage to a very beautiful Chinese lady.

My name is Gary and I am a U.S Citizen born and bread. My wife is Xiaoxiang she is from the Great Land China. Here is a brief summery of our story.

We met online, on cold day in December on the 8th 2008 to be exact. We first were just pen pals, and then we found we had a very good time writing to each other every day and we started looking for each others reply’s daily, even though her English was not very good at all. We seemed to commutate rather well. She uses translation software. I tried to use translation software to lessen her burden, but it didn’t work very well. So she translates everything and works a full time job. It didn’t take long before we came attracted to one another. I ask her to be my girlfriend and to my surprise she said yes. Then she introduced me to her very nice 19 year old daughter. Then her daughter started communicating with me by email. I could tell after a time of emails she was a very nice girl and our relationship become to be friends too. Xiaoxiang and I continue or relationship as girlfriend/boyfriend. This relationship blossomed into a heart throbbing love/love relationship. This very beautiful Chinese lady turned my heart into mush. We knew after almost a year of emails daily we were in love with each other and it was true love. We discussed everything to make sure we were right for each other. All three of us got along very well though daily emails. Do to her job and her daughter’s school we were not able to meet till a very hot and long airplane ride to China in August 2009. We had planed for me to stay for two months in China. She found ma at the airport just wondering around and very lost. I could not speak any Chinese, she gave a great big hug at the airport and OMG when I seen how beautiful she was in person inside and outside, the only thing for me to do was to propose to her which I did several days of getting aquatinted in person and after some very good meals. When I proposed to her she said yes to my surprise. I told her I would not marry her until I got her daughters approval and of course she gave it to me. Then I had the task of convincing her very nice mom “this was not required of me”. I did it out of respect. We scheduled our married 09-09-2009. My future wife introduced me to all of her family we had a great time together. Her family is simply amazing and is very nice. Xiaoxiang was everything I expected and a lot more. After we were married we rented an apartment together “our first home together” and shared very good and memorial moments that will last for a life time. I love this amazing and beautiful Chinese lady with all my heart and she loves the back just as much. Her daughter accepted me as her dad. I have accepted her as my daughter. I spent two months of the very best times of my life with Xiaoxiang and her wonderful daughter. Coming back to the States was the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life, was leaving my family in China, there were many wet eyes that day. The rest is on this forum in my plea for some much needed help. We are looking forward to meeting and making some very good friends on this amassing site. Thank you for reading this summery of our life so far.

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Gary welcome to VJ!