Unbelievable, Unacceptable Spouse's Behaviour

[T_and_A 3]

I had a serious talk with my husband following that incident... of course when I was all calm so i can clearly tell him what I didn't like. On his part, he was just playing / joking around. I told him that it was unacceptable and that i found it very rude... and he picked a bad timing for his pranks. He said he will never do it again... and all is well between us...

and then he said... wasn't it last week or two ago that you tried to get your feet under my thighs when they were also cold?... I was only trying to get warm.. but i guess he didn't like it too...

My parents are in the other room.. They don't know what happened and if they notice something, they prefer not to meddle... That's the way i like it too... to avoid complications. They have good relationship with my husband and I to my parents. Don't want that ruined....

[slangofoil 50]

and then he said... wasn't it last week or two ago that you tried to get your feet under my thighs when they were also cold?... I was only trying to get warm.. but i guess he didn't like it too...

I do that to my fiance too. Thankfully he doesn't mind it too much. He's like a furnace pumping off heat most of the time and I'm constantly cold, so I use his body for the heat, lol.

[T_and_A 3]

Exactly!!

I do that to my fiance too. Thankfully he doesn't mind it too much. He's like a furnace pumping off heat most of the time and I'm constantly cold, so I use his body for the heat, lol.

[Darnell 8,479]

Cool - you two are still talking. That's a good sign.

If communication had stopped, well, there's always that snowbank or cliff.

[venusfire503 54]

I try to find an immigration based web site to use as a sounding board. I want people I dont know to tell me what I should do. Such as go see a minister. I cant find a way myself to deal with my own problems so I always hope that others will do it for me. I find that whining on the net is cheaper & easiert than seeking the help I really need.

The last thing I do is to tell my husband to grow up & treat me with respect. If I do that I am afraid of what might happen so I just live with him.

The thing is, for some people (like me), it's sometimes best to vent to someone else (and yeah, free is better than $80 or more to complain to a professional) before having the conversation with the SO. Once you're past the really pissed off point, then it's possible to calmly and rationally explain to the SO what is bothering you. Oh - and as far as just sounding off to friends/family - not always an option, for different reasons.

venusfire

[Arun+Catie 1]

My husband once passed gas, like dead animal gas, and kidnapped my face pillow when i tried to cover myself. I had to take it full force, burned the hair in my nose. He then passed out laughing and eventually I joined too ...

Now that we are apart I wish I could have at least that

Awww, to even miss his gas, now that is love!!!!!! The time will fly by so quickly, just you wait and see!!!

[Arun+Catie 1]

I deal with any kind of "difficulties" with LOTS of prayers and tears!

[waiting4rana 1]

With all the love we have for our dear spouse, still there are some of those behaviours that you don't expect and make you cringe your nose and say NO WAY... that is completely UNACCEPTABLE!

What are some of your spouse's misbehaviours that you find unacceptable and unbearable...

i'll start...

i wasn't feeling too good yesterday, managed to feed my baby, gave my baby to my parents to get him to sleep and ready to call in a night... too tired to get up, i asked my husband if he can do me a favor and fill the humidifier with water for me since my nose bleeds from dry air.... he did so after awhile, came back to the bedroom and poured cold water on me while im in bed dazing off too sleep... I got so mad and pissed, i find it so RUDE and UNRULY! I yelled at him... asking why he did that... he said he's just fooling around. I really feel bad right now... until this morning... until now. What do you do?

oh my , you poor dear, i have the perfect remedy for this situation, soak his underwear in bleach then line dry them and be sure to add plenty of elax to his dinner meal, heheh, this is not cruel, its an additude adjustment.

[Jasman0717 9]

When he least expects it, give him a Wedgie.

I tried dumping cold water on Claudeth once while she was in the shower forgetting that she grew up taking cold water showers so she just looked at me like I was an idiot.

The idiot

[TBoneTX 46,173]

I tried dumping cold water on Claudeth once while she was in the shower forgetting that she grew up taking cold water showers so she just looked at me like I was an idiot.

Wedgies are an excellent introduction to (or reminder of) the ultimate in American culture, si man. Edited March 6, 2010 by TBoneTX

[trillium13 84]

Wedgies are an excellent introduction to (or reminder of) the ultimate in American culture, si man.

I feel bad for the people in your house, they must get a lot of wedgies, the way you talk.

[TBoneTX 46,173]

I feel bad for the people in your house, they must get a lot of wedgies, the way you talk.

We haven't figured out a way to give the cat a wedgie, no man; ideas, please, si man?

[Tim and Erin 3]

One time when I was visiting my fiance Tim, we were having a meal and I witnessed him pick up his plate, put it to his lips and scrape the last bits of food into his mouth with his fork! I kinda had to chuckle to myself, because he's been a bachelor for so many years and fell into some bad habits I suppose. You know...nobody around to see him do that, or pick his nose, or hear him fart or whatever. I never did say anything to Tim about his eating habits, because I've never seen that kind of behavior in public (I'd better NOT see it!)...and ultimately what really matters? You have to accept little annoying things about your spouse and see the bigger picture...remember the good qualities that attracted you to him in the first place.

...but about farting in bed....oh boy....my ex did that all the time with no consideration or warning. Hmmm....could that be one of the reasons he's my ex?

[TBoneTX 46,173]

...but about farting in bed....oh boy....my ex did that all the time with no consideration or warning. Hmmm....could that be one of the reasons he's my ex?

See above instructions for a Happy Marriage, si man.

[trillium13 84]

...but about farting in bed....oh boy....my ex did that all the time with no consideration or warning. Hmmm....could that be one of the reasons he's my ex?

LOL, I had an ex like that too. He was always farting and every time it was hilarious to him. Maybe it's a man thing, I don't know. Not all of them, thank goodness!!