An Open Message To HBK

[az110965 252]

"you guys like play. Huh? instead of making fun on how other people type just take your remark and stick it into your ####. this is online theres no rules on how to type im not getting a grade on my typing this is not an English forum so i dont see a deal with no periods and this is a visa forum not an english one so get that into your head i bet my fiancee is hotter than any one of your fiancee im talking about the people who keep on insulting me my girl is better than yours. my girl is young and hot so think before u people talk. one an unrelated note all the people who give me support keep on the good job"

Perhaps not the proper location for this post - if so a Mod can relocate it...

HBK,

All you've done since joining this forum a few short days ago is to post, post and post again without taking in any of the useful information that was given to you. That by itself is not necessarilly a bad thing but your attitude is.

The entire purpose of this board is for newcommers to gain information and knowledge from people who have more experience than themselves and at some point to "pay it forward" to someone else down the road. If you've read the responses to your questions, you'll see people on this board who've been here for YEARS and are at the end of their immigration journey (ie: their spouses are now CITIZENS). They stay on this board to help folks like you by sharing their experiences and giving insight as to how to reduce your time, effort and heartbreak in the immigration process.

Most of the time, newbies simply say "thanks" when they receive advice (I've done it when others have helped me, many others also). You've never expressed any gratitude and by the nature of your posts, have become a laughing stock of the board.

Having said that, your attitude sucks. At first I attributed your attitude to being young and uninformed, after reading your latest rant I see you're just rude and unappreciative. Do you really think by the nature of your above post that ANYONE will want to assist you when you need it (and trust me, you'll need it) in the future?

Here's a little advice... I'd post your apology to the board if you ever expect someone to help you in the future. You haven't made any friends with your comments and on this board, friendship equals help. Or, don't do anything to try and salvage your status here and when you post again all you'll receive in reply is .

Alan

[TBoneTX 45,918]

Double si, man.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

**moving from CR1/IR1 to Off Topic**

Edited February 24, 2010 by Vanessa&Tony

[spookyturtle 9,466]

HBK, IEA.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

Shouldn't this be a "private" rather than an "open" message?

[TBoneTX 45,918]

Shouldn't this be a "private" rather than an "open" message?

No, man... search HBK's posts in the K-1 & CR-1 fora and you'll see why, si man.

[~Johnny~ 27]

Having said that, your attitude sucks. At first I attributed your attitude to being young and uninformed, after reading your latest rant I see you're just rude and unappreciative. Do you really think by the nature of your above post that ANYONE will want to assist you when you need it (and trust me, you'll need it) in the future?

Here's a little advice... I'd post your apology to the board if you ever expect someone to help you in the future. You haven't made any friends with your comments and on this board, friendship equals help. Or, don't do anything to try and salvage your status here and when you post again all you'll receive in reply is .

Alan

Well put Alan! :thumbs:

[VanessaTony 3,567]

Something I've been dying to do since he started posting... edit his posts

BEFORE

"you guys like play. Huh? instead of making fun on how other people type just take your remark and stick it into your ####. this is online theres no rules on how to type im not getting a grade on my typing this is not an English forum so i dont see a deal with no periods and this is a visa forum not an english one so get that into your head i bet my fiancee is hotter than any one of your fiancee im talking about the people who keep on insulting me my girl is better than yours. my girl is young and hot so think before u people talk. one an unrelated note all the people who give me support keep on the good job"

AFTER

"So you guys like play huh? Instead of making fun of how other people type, just take your remark and stick it up your derrière. This is an online forum, there are no rules about how to type. I'm not being graded on my typing skills (thank god because obviously I would fail) and this is not an English skills forum (again thank god because I obviously lack the simple understanding of punctuation and correct formation of sentences), so I don't see a problem with my lack of periods (as I'm typing it and I don't have to read it, you do... so HA!). This is a visa forum, not an English forum, so please try to understand that (whilst I neglect to read your answers and instead ask the same questions over and over and fail to read the guides or take the advice.. negating the purpose of writing a question that requires an answer). I bet my fiancee is hotter any of the fiancee's of the people who keep on insulting me (this is what gets me through my days as obviously my intelligence isn't something I have to fall back on, we'll need to have cute kids and live off their modelling careers). My girl is better than yours. My girl is young and hot (because age and appearance is what matters to me) so think before you people talk (because obviously you're all extremely offended that I have now insulted your fiancee's... even though I failed to realise i probably should have said "significant other" as a lot of replies were from girls and several were married). On an unrelated note (actually not unrelated really, this is after all an assessment of the "niceness" skills of the people on this forum), thank you to all the people who have given me support (even though it was probably because you didn't read the 100 other posts I wrote that day). Keep up the good job"

[TBoneTX 45,918]

Something I've been dying to do since he started posting... edit his posts

Si, man!!!

[hbk8941 0]

i dont need your help. Make a whole topic about me americans are jerks. All of americans are good for putting people down and make fun of them. no wounder i can find a gf in a different country because they have a heart they dont make fun of u. So i will show u guys when i complete my journey by myself then all you guys will see that i dont need your help at all.

[spookyturtle 9,466]

i dont need your help. Make a whole topic about me americans are jerks. All of americans are good for putting people down and make fun of them. no wounder i can find a gf in a different country because they have a heart they dont make fun of u. So i will show u guys when i complete my journey by myself then all you guys will see that i dont need your help at all.

Now that's the way to get on peoples' good side.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

i dont need your help. Make a whole topic about me americans are jerks. All of americans are good for putting people down and make fun of them. no wounder i can find a gf in a different country because they have a heart they dont make fun of u. So i will show u guys when i complete my journey by myself then all you guys will see that i dont need your help at all.

No-one meant to pick on you and in fact people were more than nice to you even after 30 or so posts in the one day. Everyone's issue was you REFUSE to read the guides or listen to our answers. You write a post insulting us (K1'ers) because you don't like our answers (most specifically regarding co-sponsors for K1 in Manilla).

We would be more than happy to help you but you need to HELP YOURSELF first. There are many many people on here and we answer peoples questions to help them out. Why waste our time when you keep refusing to listen? It's unfair to the other people who need help that we waste our time on you, that you clog the boards with inane questions.

I wish you the best of luck, I do. But READ THE GUIDES. If this has done nothing else except get you to realise you need to actually do some of this yourself, then it's succeeded.

[ZansGirl 0]

i dont need your help. Make a whole topic about me americans are jerks. All of americans are good for putting people down and make fun of them. no wounder i can find a gf in a different country because they have a heart they dont make fun of u. So i will show u guys when i complete my journey by myself then all you guys will see that i dont need your help at all.

Ok..now I am confused...Is the OP AMERICAN??? Cause if so... uh dude....I think you just insulted yourself.

[hbk8941 0]

i am an exception from other Americans. i don't have the attitude like the americans. it may seem on here its because all of these off topic answers. all i ask is a question then people on here calling me op dont know what the hell is that. or give me responses that is unrelated to my question. also i read the guides but some times i ask question not related to the guide and i still get answers that not related to the questions like insult. But vanessa&tony you may me see i have to answer my own questions by reading thanks for the knock in the head lol. the only reason i act like this i get answers that is so off topic almost insults.

[SunDrop 59]

i don't have the attitude like the americans.

You know, not everyone who posts here is American. And they too are posting the whole theme. The other thing that people do here is use the 'search' facility. VJ has been around several years now, and many have been through the process from start to finish. Many of them had questions that were unanswered in the guides (such as your regional specific CENOMAR question) that just searching for 'CENOMAR' in the PI regional forum would have most likely thrown up your answer.

I'm sure I speak for many here when I say there's nothing we'd like to see more than you "complete [your] journey by [yourself]."

Good luck to you