divorce

[davidmr 0]

Hi everybody i am new to this forum,

i was married to a US citizen in dec 2006 and was here in the us in nov 2008 on CR1 ,

me and my wife had an arranged marriage but bfr we had our marriage we use to talk on phone and emails , n then she flew with her parents to my place and we had a huge marriage, n she had to leave cause we both were still in schools,

in 2008 when i came to the US we still never lived together as the girls parents wanted me to get settle first as it would be hard for her and me to start living together, but we use to meet all the time

anyways after i was in the US she told me she had an auto immune disease and then she had a surgery done to remove her ovaries and no one told me even tho i asked her parents so many times n later i found out as she told me .

after i was here i came to know that she was in love with some other guy and was still dating that guy and married me cause her parents never wanted her to get married with him ...thats crazy

anyways she talks crazy stuff like what if ur best friends comes n sleeps with me ....stuff like that ...and the place she works part time ...this old guy is in love with her ,.and she knows it and she still goes out with him ...to bars ....dinners ...

and the most disgusting thing that she told me that she use to have a sexual reltn with her grandfather when she was around 14-15 for a year

so we decided to get seperated ...but the father has filled for annulment with some allegations ...and i hired a lawyer and the case is still going on ....

i still have like 9 months for my cr1 to expire n the case is still going on

my question to u is that ll i be able to proof in any way that i married in good faith . i dont have much stuff like tax and bank docs ...just pics ...affadivits from ppl who knew us ...marriage pics ....picss of us here ......

[ziia 9]

This is what USCIS calls a standard case of visa fraud. There is no need for you to air your wife's dirty laundry in public like that. No one cares and she is not on trial for "good moral behavior" on Visa Journey. If anything, you talking about her only clarifies that you both committed marriage fraud. You have not lived together in the same house, you have no actual proof that matters to USCIS to prove your marriage was valid. Pictures and affidavits from neighbors will do nada for you-these should only compliment the real proof you need(like taxes filed together, you both on the lease, ownership or car, joint bills, CC etc).If you ask me, only God can help you remove the conditions off of your GC...so start praying. That is my thoughts to you.

PS: Don't mean to be rude but this SCREAMING fraud from a mile away.

Edited February 20, 2010 by ziia

[davidmr 0]

This is what USCIS calls a standard case of visa fraud. There is no need for you to air your wife's dirty laundry in public like that. No one cares and she is not on trial for "good moral behavior" on Visa Journey. If anything, you talking about her only clarifies that you both committed marriage fraud. You have not lived together in the same house, you have no actual proof that matters to USCIS to prove your marriage was valid. Pictures and affidavits from neighbors will do nada for you-these should only compliment the real proof you need(like taxes filed together, you both on the lease, ownership or car, joint bills, CC etc).If you ask me, only God can help you remove the conditions off of your GC...so start praying. That is my thoughts to you.

PS: Don't mean to be rude but this SCREAMING fraud from a mile away.

Hey Mr. First of all i dont need YOU to JUDGE me. I know i married for real not cause for getting into the US.

Secondly i asked for an opinion that if i have enough evidence to proof, if i dont, i ll go back happily and if i can i ll stay here happily.

[*JG* 2]

I think you are going to have a hard time with the evidence and story you are describing.

I wish you luck however it goes for you.

[Anh map 2,098]

Read through the VJ Guide for Removing Conditions as well as the I-751 instructions to learn what your options are regarding proof of a bona fide marriage. If you can't produce a reasonable amount of proof you will have a big challenge ahead of you.

You may want to consult an experienced immigration attorney where you can lay out all the particulars of your circumstances.

Edited February 21, 2010 by Anh map

[ziia 9]

Hey Mr. First of all i dont need YOU to JUDGE me. I know i married for real not cause for getting into the US.

Secondly i asked for an opinion that if i have enough evidence to proof, if i dont, i ll go back happily and if i can i ll stay here happily.

If you ask an opinion about your GC then talk specifically about that and about yourself, not about your wife's whereabouts and sex life, that have nothing to do with your removal of conditions anyway. I only answered to you on the lines of what you wrote. I don't judge you because I don't know you. I do judge what you write though because I have eyes and brain(not my fault, you can take that with God, not me ). If you don't want me to judge what you write, don't write it. To be on topic, no, you don't have nearly enough evidence to convince the immigration officer your marriage is in good faith. Perhaps consulting with an attorney might be a good idea.

PS: I might write like a guy but I am a girl.

Edited February 21, 2010 by ziia