Unfaithful husband and a green card issue

[natt141 0]

Here is my story:

I haven't been married with him for 5 years. Last year ( June, 2009) I came to US to visit him because he got the accident and I found out he has been in a relationship with another girl..they r in love each other..I talked and gave him a second chance..back then we also processed IR-1 also..

Now, I'm here in US with 10 years GC and found out that he is so in love with her and want her to be by his side and want her to be a part of the family. I reason I'm here because of him..

I gave him a chance..he didn't wanna work it out. So, I think I'm gonna get divorced and go back home which I had a secure job back there..and I have nothing here in US.

The question is

Should I call the USCIS don't send me the GC and I wanna cancel everything about GC issue?

Thanks guys!

[TheCockyLockies 2]

Won't hurt if you keep it tho.

[sachinky 465]

If you wanna go home, you can surrender your GC at the border.

If you want to stay, you can.

It's totally your decision.

[natt141 0]

Won't hurt if you keep it tho.

I thought if we don't wanna live in US anymore for a year, we should take it back or something..from what I have heard..not sure about it...but thank you

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

I thought if we don't wanna live in US anymore for a year, we should take it back or something..from what I have heard..not sure about it...but thank you

When you get to your home country, go to the US consulate with your green card and ask for a form I-407. Complete the form and submit it to the consulate, along with your green card.

[natt141 0]

When you get to your home country, go to the US consulate with your green card and ask for a form I-407. Complete the form and submit it to the consulate, along with your green card.

thanks

[Dakine 26]

Divorce him, Go home maintaining the GC. Who knows? You may meet someone else and end up in the US.

Best to keep as many options as you can.

LOTS of Americans would love to meet you..

Edited February 12, 2010 by Dakine

[thongd4me 69]

Don't think for one minute just because you want to go back home that you need to

give up the green card. You're as likely to meet a USC in Thailand as you are in the US

and if you do and it seems to work, you would have to repeat your immigration nightmare.

Don't give up a 10 year GC if you can help it.

[sachinky 465]

The thing is if she doesn't maintain her permanent residence in the U.S. for a year or so, she'd lose her GC anyway.

[halimandserena 0]

but your green card will be for 2 years, and after 2 years you can file for lifting condition and then you will get this 10 years GC. so explain to us how this happened?

[Twisted K 2]

oh natt, sister i am sorry to hear this . good luck in your decision

[caliguy77 1]

Think of this as an opportunity to study, perhaps get a degree or a vocational degree, travel enjoy life for a years. If you decide to go back then surrender your GC. Dont make and rushed decisions.

[natt141 0]

thanks guys! and Ms.K (congrats for ya,btw)

I feel like no place like home..if here doesn't fit me..well..just go home..family and friends are there..I don't care what ppl back home r going think about whatever happen to me

Some said, I should keep GC..it's more benefits if I wanna come back here again

Some said..should divorce him and return a GC..then go home

have a good weekend

[johnnybgood265 3]

Sorry that this did happen. Not all americans are cheats. Dont give up your greern card just yet and good luck with your future.. Stay strong

[Darnell 8,478]

but your green card will be for 2 years, and after 2 years you can file for lifting condition and then you will get this 10 years GC. so explain to us how this happened?

She came in on IR-1, not CR-1.