Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

[*SunRay* 1]

DaDa, I think that was a good choice. It always hurts to let someone you love go, but sometimes it has to happen and sometimes for the better? All the best to you girlie.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Lucky you....I'd be happy if my child weened him/herself. Hubby says in country, when a baby doesn't want to leave the mom's breast, they use fowl sh**....take up some fresh poop, show the child, rub it on the nipple & after that, the child weens himself. Have you ever heard of that?

WTH -- damn I'm not that country -- never heard of that.

[DedicatedWife 4]

Lucky you....I'd be happy if my child weened him/herself. Hubby says in country, when a baby doesn't want to leave the mom's breast, they use fowl sh**....take up some fresh poop, show the child, rub it on the nipple & after that, the child weens himself. Have you ever heard of that?

This all came about because we were at the park on Sunday & saw our friend who has a 3 1/2 year old son. Well, this kid is pretty spoiled as it is & next thing you know, she's sitting on the grass & he crawls in her lap because he wants to breastfeed. She was sort of apologetic like 'excuse me, he still does this' & that's when Lehi was like, "WHA??" He went on asking how old he was & when she told him he said, "A BIG MON DAT!! The boy need fi come off a di breast!" She was really embarrassed but he was giving it to her straight, honest, Jamaican style. I was on the sidelines laughing my butt off & kinda shrugging when she looked at me but he kept telling her what they do if a child doesn't want to ween after a while in JA. He told the story about the fowl shyt & also told her that if she went to Jamaica & women saw her breastfeeding that big boy, they'd laugh at her. Later on, I laughed even harder because everything he said came back to me. Especially the "BIG MON DAT" part!

Wow, I'm not breast feeding at all...sorry!

[Thompson2 1]

Lol Brooke dont he He had SO much fun with you.. He wants to visit you during the summer. I need you around more often sis. Keep him on the straight and narrow lol.. We had a blast. And he has "being on time" issues!

I had fun too. Why the summer? It's crazy hot here then? He should want to come down in the winter and escape that snow. Oh don't get me started on "being on time" issues. My hubby was good this time, but lawd there have been too many times I wanted to kill him over being late.

LOL - NYC would be a great link for us = Ocean City, MD would be another good one for the East Coasters - We could all hang at Seacrets Jamaica USA

Ever since I saw your pictures from there, Sus, I always wanted to go there too. Hubby wants to go to NYC so I was thinking we could join the link up there and he could see the city that never sleeps.

I wanna go too!

I want to go too!! What??? St. Lucia yardie link up????

Has anyone stayed at Grand Bahia?

We stayed there last year. It's a beautiful place, but it's very big and spreadout. We didn't like walking forever, in the hot sun to get lunch. Also, the club at night was dead there. The room was nice with a fridge with some beer and soda. You can look at my Jan.2009 pics on FB and there are some pics I took from there.

No...no, I can't believe not you too

So let me run the list

Quanna

Dillon

now Shemmy --- I'm DISTRAUTTTTTTTTTTTT

Add me to that list too. I really want to learn though. Doesn't help that I don't eat meat.

1luv my uncle and my male cousins would say them can't marry a woman with "long nails" cause she caan mek dumplin or she caan cook

LMAO!!! Vaughn is always telling me I can't make dumplins because of my nails. At first I was like yes I can, but then I thought no matter how well I clean my nails it can't be good to eat the dumplins after the dough has been under my nail.

KJ- Congrats on the visa being printed. So next week you can give him the beatdown he deserves after "joking" with you?

JQ- I keep reading everyone you highlighted and looking for the missing "hater". I didn't know you had a hater. Anywas April soon come. Will your step daughter fly alone? I know you can't wait two weeks there.

Good afternoon to everyone else and sorry if I missed anything. Oh yea DADA thanks for finally finishing you story. Do you have pics of Negril on FB?

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Add me to that list too. I really want to learn though. Doesn't help that I don't eat meat.

CAN'T COOK LIST

Quanna

Dillon

Shemmy and;

Brooke

did I forget anyone?

[DedicatedWife 4]

DaDa, I think that was a good choice. It always hurts to let someone you love go, but sometimes it has to happen and sometimes for the better? All the best to you girlie.

Yeah some times it seems like the hardest thing to do is to let go but seems like once you do and are truly through...things have a way of working out beyond our wildest imagination!

[dillon 6]

Thompson2 yes she does have pictures on FB and Mr Bartender is in two of them.

[sus 70]

Ever since I saw your pictures from there, Sus, I always wanted to go there too. Hubby wants to go to NYC so I was thinking we could join the link up there and he could see the city that never sleeps.

You would love it, and hubby would be in heaven with the two clubs - it really suits a variety of moods in one spot. It's kinda loud and young, I don't like it when it's super crowded - But we usually go down when my friends are playing and there is a whole mess of us who link up and have a crazy stupid fun time -

We stayed there last year. It's a beautiful place, but it's very big and spreadout. We didn't like walking forever, in the hot sun to get lunch. Also, the club at night was dead there. The room was nice with a fridge with some beer and soda. You can look at my Jan.2009 pics on FB and there are some pics I took from there.

Thanks I will check - I was just browsing around and they had some good rates for May - I am just so stressed right now that the thought of a completely AI, no stress holiday is really tempting.

[DaDa 1]

Oh my Dada! I know that had to be emotional for you...has Roc called you since you have been back to the states?

Well the first thing I did when I got back was delete his number from my JA phone. I didn’t want to get weak and end up calling dat fool.

He text me on…. I think it was Friday and told me he really has changed. I deleted the text before the number got stuck in my head and I didn’t reply. He then text me again yesterday. He sent me some fwd which he never normally does. He then sent another text Call me. I deleted and didn’t respond. You know what it is. Now that he sees someone else is interested he wanna come back. What ever.

I would change my number if I could but I have been applying to so many jobs down NC I cant right now. I think I’m finally content on leaving this in the past.

[DedicatedWife 4]

CAN'T COOK LIST

Quanna

Dillon

Shemmy and;

Brooke

did I forget anyone?

LOL, I'm learning so technically I shouldn't go on the list!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Well the first thing I did when I got back was delete his number from my JA phone. I didn’t want to get weak and end up calling dat fool.

He text me on…. I think it was Friday and told me he really has changed. I deleted the text before the number got stuck in my head and I didn’t reply. He then text me again yesterday. He sent me some fwd which he never normally does. He then sent another text Call me. I deleted and didn’t respond. You know what it is. Now that he sees someone else is interested he wanna come back. What ever.

I would change my number if I could but I have been applying to so many jobs down NC I cant right now. I think I’m finally content on leaving this in the past.

Dada, you can do it!!!! I know its hard, I've been there, I'm sure a lot of us have...we all have that one...but I have faith in you that you are ready to leave that alone and move forward and on with your life!

[dillon 6]

Well the first thing I did when I got back was delete his number from my JA phone. I didn’t want to get weak and end up calling dat fool.

He text me on…. I think it was Friday and told me he really has changed. I deleted the text before the number got stuck in my head and I didn’t reply. He then text me again yesterday. He sent me some fwd which he never normally does. He then sent another text Call me. I deleted and didn’t respond. You know what it is. Now that he sees someone else is interested he wanna come back. What ever.

I would change my number if I could but I have been applying to so many jobs down NC I cant right now. I think I’m finally content on leaving this in the past.

Dada I'm so proud of you for being so strong. I would have caved in by now and answered back just to get my point across. Stick with it! And thanks for sharing your story even though it took you so darn long to tell it!

[IrieCat 2]

DaDa, great story! Great Ending! You are a stronger woman than me, I would have been weak. But I must say "Negril" had some darn good timing!

[DaDa 1]

DaDa, I exhaled long & hard at the end of that story. It feels like you took us on that emotional roller coaster ride with you. Oh my!

I tried to Nat.. Sorry. I figured who better to share with. You know my girls back here look at me like Dada please it was a fling move on. They just don’t understand. Hell I wish it was a fling. I used you ladies to vent, share and get it out. I must admit I feel better. Sorry I took so long but I enjoyed keeping you all in suspense…LOL

[Ellsinlove 2]

Thanks Philly!

Yeah, what she said!

I just wanna scream FU*&ING IDIOT!!!!!!!!

but I know that's not nice..........

I think we all have been there...I know I wanna scream the same thing on occasion. But I don't either cause you're right...it's not nice.

I sit on the plane and just lean back and sigh. For some strange reason my eyes got teary. I think it was from Roc. If it wasn't over before it damn sure is now. I think about the two years we had and think of the good times we shared. We had a lot but you know what we had just as many bad. All the fussing and fighting we did was enuff to make anyone go mad. Star commented she was surprised to see us not fight. Everyone who has been around us know how we get down. We go months without seeing each other just to get together and cuss each other out. I always left JA saying I would never return I hate him to be back down there three months later if not sooner. That was my boy and well I'll always love him but I'm moving on. Our relationship was crazy but I enjoyed it so I guess I'm just as crazy.

Negril was cool and I did enjoy myself with him. I liked how he wasn't pushy or over bearing. He was just cool. I guess we shall see what happens but this time I'm taking it S..L..O...W. The stewardess tells us its time to turn off all electronic devices. I grab my cell phone to shut it down. Right then I see I received a text message. You will always be my woman...

The End...

Wow Dada....that was one wild (& emotional) ride. I'm glad you found the closure you were looking for & deserved.

Wow, Dada, I am sure that blew your mind - and I would be willing to bet that it won't be long before he's calling - sounds like you made peace with it though in yourself and put closure to it - Not an easy task.