Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

[dillon 6]

HI JQ...the dog looks cute and I hope it lifts your spirits a bit.

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

JQ... Prince is so freaking cute!!! He doesnt get too big does he? Tierra wants a little fluff ball..

This is what the mom looks like

Im going to keep his hair cut short.

Edited March 1, 2010 by Jamerican Queen

[1luv 1]

Hey ladies Good afternoon!

Well hubby made it safe and sound to JA and almost gave his mom a heart attack cuz he surprised her. He went to the beach and visited relatives yesterday. I miss him so much

Shanette i cannot believe ur baby is 5 mths already

Q ur weekend sounds great!

Irie LOL@ Louis

[MRStee 19]

LOL don't I know it. I told him he needs to do a lot of cooking for us so we can freeze it and warm it up while he is gone. He did agree!

I can cook just not any Jamaican dishes so we aren't going to starve while he is away...we just won't be eating any Jamaican food.

Dills! you ought to be ashamed of yourself... spoiled brat

[1luv 1]

ShaNette - nice seeing you. Congrats on your son.

Philly - I am so happy things are going forward for your family.

Dillion - I am super spoiled myself. Damien was resting the entire day yesterday so my daughter and I went to the grocery store without him. Can I tell you that is the first time in 5 years I did big grocery shopping with him? I goof off while he does all the work. I actually felt lost. It's sad...what did I do before he came here?

I did grocery shopping on Saturday all by myself. And I felt like a fish outta water cuz he buys all the west indian stuff.

[dillon 6]

Hey ladies Good afternoon!

Well hubby made it safe and sound to JA and almost gave his mom a heart attack cuz he surprised her. He went to the beach and visited relatives yesterday. I miss him so much

Shanette i cannot believe ur baby is 5 mths already

Q ur weekend sounds great!

Irie LOL@ Louis

Awww that is great to hear 1luv. He will be home before you know it. My hubby leaves a week from today.

[jamerican 2]

JQ....cute puppy...my daughter wants a dog but I told her we would get one once Michael gets here cause I don't need another responsibility on ME!...

How did the car shopping go? Yall find one?

[*JG* 2]

Well still trying to catch up but wanted to thank everyone for their positive encouragement and Prayers ( Lawny I love you! ) where my boys are concerned. Last night I nearly dropped when my oldest son told me he would sign the behavior contract I implemented for them and that he was ready to become a part of the family again. Praise GOD, it has only been almost a year and I had no idea where the light a the end of the tunnel was I had faith that the Creator would pull me through. I was so happy at that moment and although Motherhood always presents its challenges with a stronger family unit we can work through anything in the future.

This past year has been an emotional roller coaster from happiness with my husband arriving, disappointments with two miscarriages and turmoil with the never ending drama with both boys. I thank my VJ family from everyone still on the board to Yardies that now live on FB for always having positive words for me and keeping me strong with their own stories of adjustment and letting me know I am not alone! Each and every one of you Ladies have touched my life in a special way I want to say thank you ( perhaps with some FEVAH Haaa a joke mi a mek hush Dillon LOL ) for having my back and letting this board be an outlet for all of us going through the process.

I know yall were like where are the updates but let me tell you all that drama was so emotionally draining even to type it and some of you have seen the saga so you know it was a hot mess LOL ( although I need to chronicle it cause some people would not believe what we endured in such a short time) from the stealing from my Husband, pulling a knife on him, the late night fights with Baby Daddy, all the fighting verbal and physical , the Nino Brown from New Jack city episode in my living room, to my oldest the running out of the restaurant in the snow storm cause he just couldn't accept my Husband and rather live by himself …… I could go on and on. I just hope it's over and we are only moving forwards not backwards. A good indication was last night he talked to me extensively about several reports he did on Haiti this weekend and he needed some pics of me and the family in Haiti to for his presentation. This would have never happened months or even a week ago so that is progress. It can only get better from here!

Ok part 2 of my weekend soon come

Sweetie......I get you completely. I live with that drama ####### nearly every day. And you are right. It's exhausting. Sometimes you just have to shut down to retain any of your sanity. You know if you ever want to vent, I'm here. Believe me, your stories cannot be any worse then mine.

Take care.

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

HI JQ...the dog looks cute and I hope it lifts your spirits a bit.

Thanks he really does and he is a mess, sooooo cute!!!

My husband has never held a dog before and he had this one all inthe bed, Im like move that dog, he said he might get your spot

[dillon 6]

Dills! you ought to be ashamed of yourself... spoiled brat

I am not ashamed of myself. If he wants to eat what he wants he knows he is going to have to cook. We went over that before he even got here.

[Shemmy 4]

LOL Shemmy I know we did everything ourselves for so long before they got here being single moms and it really is nice having them around. I was just thinking yesterday I can't even remember the last time I cleaned the house.

I called him so many times . He puts everything in the cart, bag everything, carry them to the car, unload the groceries then cook...every Sunday. I read magazines

We alternate paying so now I just stay home when it's his turn

[dancehallquana 5]

1luv... sending hugs ur way mami.. i know its gotta be the worst, but like dills said.. he will be back before ya know it.. keep urself busy!

[Shemmy 4]

HA. shemmy.. i LOVE IT.. your telling me this can go on for at least another 5 years???? i was sure it would wear off soon.. we'll see..

you need fi sit dat belly down tho.. tryna sneak out wid out him!!!

Yeah...I usually do most of the cooking until recently. I still try to at least once or twice a week.

I was bored yesterday cuz we stayed in the house all Saturday because I wasn't feeling well. He watches every sport on TV so he was content...not me .

[dancehallquana 5]

JQ....cute puppy...my daughter wants a dog but I told her we would get one once Michael gets here cause I don't need another responsibility on ME!...

How did the car shopping go? Yall find one?

is micheal okay with that???.. if he like roger, it will have to stay outside lol and YOU will be the one to bathe it

I am not ashamed of myself. If he wants to eat what he wants he knows he is going to have to cook. We went over that before he even got here.

Tell'em again dillon!

as long as they knew before.. its ALLL GOOOD lol

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

JQ....cute puppy...my daughter wants a dog but I told her we would get one once Michael gets here cause I don't need another responsibility on ME!...

How did the car shopping go? Yall find one?

Girl this man is crazy, we went looking with his money and do you know he has decided to save up move thousands and buy the car he want can someone please tell him he will be saving for ever.

So that means he will use and abuse my car until it breaks down. (mine is red)

So girl Im so frustrated with Flash, I could

When I first met him in Jamaica he had a nice car, let his friend drive it one night and he ran head on with a truck. So he hasnt had a car, so why you wanna go big in US and aint go big in jamaica.

GirlBOOM on the car and car shopping.