Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

[dancehallquana 5]

roger started work 3 min ago!!

why don't i remember any other yardies being as crazy as i am being about this???????

[DaDa 1]

So I follow Roc down the hall way and sure enuff guess who jumps out? The bartender. Whateva happened Roc goes in his pocket and hands her some money. She looks at me like u o.k. I sort of smile and make a mental note to tip her. I feel bad she had purple spots on her blouse. So we walk a little ways and then we sit on some big chairs in a shaded place under a tree. Roc sits in a chair and pats the spot next to him but I decide to sit in a chair across from him. I look at the sky. It sure is beautiful. I put my legs under me and just listen to the wind for a while. Roc is staring at me. You’re still so beautiful. What you think I was going to get ugly over night. I look at him. Speak I say.

I never meant for all this to happen yuh know. Me eidda. Its just that well Dada you don’t understand things in Jamaica and its not all simple over here sometimes things happen and you got to lay low. It’s easy to get killed around her. Why you think I stopped hanging out I don’t hang in bars no more of do parties. Really now I say. I would never know that I haven’t spoke to you. How many times you going to say that he asks me? Until you get tired of hearing it I tell him. So who’s the new man. I started to get up if this is all your going to talk about I’m leaving. He jumps up with me and tells me to sit down he was just asking because he knows there’s someone. He sees I have a glow to me and he knows only a man put it there. I told him its called being happy. He starts to talk about our relationship. Our ups and down. Some of the things he discussed makes me laugh. We have had some crazy times together that is why I thought we were so good together because it wasn’t all sweet we had some ruff patches too. I told Roc I wasn’t mad at him for choosing to move on. Hurt yes mad no. I’m just upset at the way he did it. He was a coward. He told me not to call him a coward anymore. I told him I call it as I see it. He started explaining how our relationship was stressing him out. I wasn’t easy at all in the end he told me. He claims he was under so much stress and I wasn’t being supportive I was adding more to it. I told him how by being concerned? He told me I kept accusing him of things and it was becoming annoying I told him God gave woman the best and worse gift. Woman’s intuition. We know when something’s not right we just chose to ignore it. I wasn’t ignoring mine. Like he would say I smelled a rat. He was starting to act different and I wanted to know why. He was like no you accused me of acting different. Whatever! We continued to talk about likes and dislikes with each other and I must admit the convo was nice. He was the Roc I remembered calm and carefree and I started to notice he was still attractive to me. We were laughing and joking and it was just nice!

He looked at his clock and told me he had to get to work. He needed to there by five. He asked me when was I leaving and I told him tomorrow. Tomorrow he shouted why so short. I told him this was just a weekend getaway nothing too long or big. Oh. He was like I’m scared to ask this but when I get off from work can I come by. For what I asked. So we can continue to talk with out screaming at each other this time or maybe we can go somewhere and hang out.. I looked at him for a minute and I told him yeah he can come by. He was like are you going to be here dis time? I told him who’s to say I wasn’t here before. He told me he knows I wasn’t there he thinks I was at someone’s house. What ever. I walked him to the front and all the staff are looking at us like we are crazy. I’m holding his hand and I’m walking him to the front. He goes to hug me and I let him. He held me so tight it felt so good. So after the hug he ummm well he kind of….. umm how shall I say dis….. Quana’s reading isn’t she?? Ahh heck never mind. He asked me tonight? I told him tonight.

[uicrn 0]

Question, did anyone have problems with not accepting Jamaican High School diploma to get a job??? My husband got a "leaving certificate" from his high school and it says "awarded for having completed a course of studies at this institution with specialized trainaing in Information Technology." The employers are saying that it seems like he attended a technical school and not completed high school. Any others??

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Christina Mulgrave, who had worked as a nurse at hospitals throughout the region — including the former Hale Hospital in Haverhill, Holy Family Hospital in Methuen and Beverly Hospital — met Craig Mulgrave in Jamaica just over two years ago while she was on vacation there, her relatives said.

The relationship grew, and on her sixth or seventh trip to that Caribbean island nation, the talk turned to marriage. She eventually brought him to Las Vegas where she was working as a nurse. They were married eight months ago, and in December moved to Haverhill so Christina Mulgrave, 45, could be close to her two adult children from a previous marriage and other relatives.

that could be ANY of us on vj

that is very scary

God bless her family

[Marlita 0]

it really is sunny..

the first part of the story sounded like so many ive heard before..even the being distant..i mean roger is not the most talkative around my folks even.. she prolly just attributed all the problems to culture shock or adjustment..

reminds me of how kimmy used to say..EVERYTHING is not adjustment.. sometimes them mofo's is just crazy and we need to leave it alone!!!

wow so this dude had mental tendencies before then..wow..

and his name is craig too

I almost died at this comment!! That is sooo true. Look at that fool with wide eyes when you meet him. Is he crazy....is he suspect?!! Cus I know if you come in my house sittin on the kitchen floor with a noose around yo neck and a knife in yo hand.....I ain't just going to bed.

[*JG* 2]

Yeah, he said it did not surprise him at all to hear that story. How scary. I was so scared this woman was one of us on VJ.

There is at least one of us on here with a Craig. However, not the same wife's name and not the child's name.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

roger started work 3 min ago!!

why don't i remember any other yardies being as crazy as i am being about this???????

girl you are a mess

can someone give me the cliff notes to dada's post please? i just can't anymore!

[kjenkins86 5]

C'mon Dada, I'm reading too

[*JG* 2]

I almost died at this comment!! That is sooo true. Look at that fool with wide eyes when you meet him. Is he crazy....is he suspect?!! Cus I know if you come in my house sittin on the kitchen floor with a noose around yo neck and a knife in yo hand.....I ain't just going to bed.

I have guns under my bed. He can sit in that kitchen all he wants!

So I follow Roc down the hall way and sure enuff guess who jumps out? The bartender. Whateva happened Roc goes in his pocket and hands her some money. She looks at me like u o.k. I sort of smile and make a mental note to tip her. I feel bad she had purple spots on her blouse. So we walk a little ways and then we sit on some big chairs in a shaded place under a tree. Roc sits in a chair and pats the spot next to him but I decide to sit in a chair across from him. I look at the sky. It sure is beautiful. I put my legs under me and just listen to the wind for a while. Roc is staring at me. You're still so beautiful. What you think I was going to get ugly over night. I look at him. Speak I say.

I never meant for all this to happen yuh know. Me eidda. Its just that well Dada you don't understand things in Jamaica and its not all simple over here sometimes things happen and you got to lay low. It's easy to get killed around her. Why you think I stopped hanging out I don't hang in bars no more of do parties. Really now I say. I would never know that I haven't spoke to you. How many times you going to say that he asks me? Until you get tired of hearing it I tell him. So who's the new man. I started to get up if this is all your going to talk about I'm leaving. He jumps up with me and tells me to sit down he was just asking because he knows there's someone. He sees I have a glow to me and he knows only a man put it there. I told him its called being happy. He starts to talk about our relationship. Our ups and down. Some of the things he discussed makes me laugh. We have had some crazy times together that is why I thought we were so good together because it wasn't all sweet we had some ruff patches too. I told Roc I wasn't mad at him for choosing to move on. Hurt yes mad no. I'm just upset at the way he did it. He was a coward. He told me not to call him a coward anymore. I told him I call it as I see it. He started explaining how our relationship was stressing him out. I wasn't easy at all in the end he told me. He claims he was under so much stress and I wasn't being supportive I was adding more to it. I told him how by being concerned? He told me I kept accusing him of things and it was becoming annoying I told him God gave woman the best and worse gift. Woman's intuition. We know when something's not right we just chose to ignore it. I wasn't ignoring mine. Like he would say I smelled a rat. He was starting to act different and I wanted to know why. He was like no you accused me of acting different. Whatever! We continued to talk about likes and dislikes with each other and I must admit the convo was nice. He was the Roc I remembered calm and carefree and I started to notice he was still attractive to me. We were laughing and joking and it was just nice!

He looked at his clock and told me he had to get to work. He needed to there by five. He asked me when was I leaving and I told him tomorrow. Tomorrow he shouted why so short. I told him this was just a weekend getaway nothing too long or big. Oh. He was like I'm scared to ask this but when I get off from work can I come by. For what I asked. So we can continue to talk with out screaming at each other this time or maybe we can go somewhere and hang out.. I looked at him for a minute and I told him yeah he can come by. He was like are you going to be here dis time? I told him who's to say I wasn't here before. He told me he knows I wasn't there he thinks I was at someone's house. What ever. I walked him to the front and all the staff are looking at us like we are crazy. I'm holding his hand and I'm walking him to the front. He goes to hug me and I let him. He held me so tight it felt so good. So after the hug he ummm well he kind of….. umm how shall I say dis….. Quana's reading isn't she?? Ahh heck never mind. He asked me tonight? I told him tonight.

I am here another hour and a half and I am telling you now----this story better be all out by then!

[sus 70]

I have guns under my bed. He can sit in that kitchen all he wants!

I am here another hour and a half and I am telling you now----this story better be all out by then!

:rofl:

You'd be giving him directions to where the ladder is and what type of knot to tie

[dancehallquana 5]

I almost died at this comment!! That is sooo true. Look at that fool with wide eyes when you meet him. Is he crazy....is he suspect?!! Cus I know if you come in my house sittin on the kitchen floor with a noose around yo neck and a knife in yo hand.....I ain't just going to bed.

FO REAL.. oh he's just adjusting to the US and to my fam, and WHATEVER

but you know what lita.. its so easy to be that STUPID!

my ex when things start getting bad, would go to his room and get his gun and run into another room and wanting me to run after him to stop him..YEESSS and i would DO IT!! and plead w/ him to put it down and talk him down,

after a while, i just started ignoring him.. my moms bf once laid down in front of her car!!!

i don't know how long they were married, but at one point you "think you know a person"

and i said the same thing she said.."he just wants attention"

dyam.. i just get shivers thinking of that stuff..

[sus 70]

girl you are a mess

can someone give me the cliff notes to dada's post please? i just can't anymore!

Roc paid the bartender off to let him to her room - she went and sat outside with him, he gave her a line of BS about things happening, life different in JA,,..... he had to get to work, she walked him out holding hands and kissed him goodbye, made plans with her later

[dancehallquana 5]

Question, did anyone have problems with not accepting Jamaican High School diploma to get a job??? My husband got a "leaving certificate" from his high school and it says "awarded for having completed a course of studies at this institution with specialized trainaing in Information Technology." The employers are saying that it seems like he attended a technical school and not completed high school. Any others??

roger didn't bring his diploma and thankfully nobody has asked for it.. YET.. sorry

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

He sees I have a glow to me and he knows only a man put it there. I told him its called being happy. He starts to talk about our relationship.

yuh should ask him if he sees your vaggy print out across your forehead

[dancehallquana 5]

yuh should ask him if he sees your vaggy print out across your forehead

stop reading bunz// sus gave a REALLY good cliff note LOL