Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

[DedicatedWife 4]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! you my sister FO REAL

most ppl at my job don't know how many kids i have, that i was ever married, divorced and married again..

and if they know some of it, i guarantee they don't know ALLL.

i am friendly and always smiling, but don't give out too much info when talking yunno???

Girl you can't let them know you human...they will turn around and use it against you.

When things started getting serious with Den...cause chile I use to date guys and I would have to drop them with the quick...so when they realized this was the real deal My sup tried to say in my review last year that something had changed and that my focused seemed to be somewhere else...yeah it has I'm not working here at this job 7 days a week for you all no more and I'm actually using my vacation leave time...mofo's had me about to catch a case up in here with all that

[Shemmy 4]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!! you my sister FO REAL

most ppl at my job don't know how many kids i have, that i was ever married, divorced and married again..

and if they know some of it, i guarantee they don't know ALLL.

i am friendly and always smiling, but don't give out too much info when talking yunno???

Some women are just nuts. My boss and my closest co-workers already knew just in case something happened to me at work. I'm also one of the youngest in my office and no one has been pregnant in decades so they spoil me by bringing foods and keep up with my doctor appointments etc. The evil one just feels left out.

[dillon 6]

I don't think we create a mini Jamaica in our house but I do think it is important to have the things he likes to eat, listen too and read around. I wouldn't expect him to be here and not want to enjoy all the things that he grew up with. He already gave up so much just to come to the US. So if we can find those things I surely will make sure he has them.

[Shemmy 4]

Girl I am such the entertainer but I will leave your classy event to a professional...

U crazy. I will keep you posted.

[dancehallquana 5]

no like in terms of food, drinks, music, reading material etc

when i read lady c's question it brought back something i saw on fb over the weekend

i'm just wondering if you guys ever feel pressure to create a mini jamaica in your home, esp when you aren't originally from ja

do you ever feel like it's one sided?

okay, i feel you.... i personally don't feel PRESSURED per se, i did change some things.. food, drinks etc becuz i am incorporating my husband's ways in my life now, its really no different than a woman becoming a basketball fan cuz of her man or listening to a different kind of music he likes sometimes.... but its all on my own, roger doesn't REQUEST or DEMAND anything be done certain ways.. he is very flexible..

I believe we can keep our identity while embracing our husbands.. just keep a balance.. my two cents!!

[DedicatedWife 4]

no like in terms of food, drinks, music, reading material etc

when i read lady c's question it brought back something i saw on fb over the weekend

i'm just wondering if you guys ever feel pressure to create a mini jamaica in your home, esp when you aren't originally from ja

do you ever feel like it's one sided?

Well Den has only been here about 3 weeks but so far he has been very patient with me...he hasn't even had a Jamaican meal yet...he been open to trying different things here and just going with the flow. So no pressure from him but I almost feel like I want to make sure I incorporate things in for him...I know he told me the other day that this is the longest he has went without speaking patois...I was like awww...bless your heart!

Edited February 22, 2010 by Dens Wifey

[dillon 6]

Shemmy tell her to mind her own business! She's just jealous about the glow.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

I wouldn't change a thing about the day/the way we met each other, the chase (took him a good 6 months) before I even talked to him, our journey and ESPECIALLY my interview. I found something different in my husband that I didn't find in other men I've had relationships with, I found FRIENDSHIP along with laugther. We appreciate each other and we show it and we love to talk to each other. I asked him what he missed the most about Jamaica and he told me the smell of my hair and my BIG smile when I came through the doors at the airport....I just laughed.

[dancehallquana 5]

Girl you can't let them know you human...they will turn around and use it against you.

When things started getting serious with Den...cause chile I use to date guys and I would have to drop them with the quick...so when they realized this was the real deal My sup tried to say in my review last year that something had changed and that my focused seemed to be somewhere else...yeah it has I'm not working here at this job 7 days a week for you all no more and I'm actually using my vacation leave time...mofo's had me about to catch a case up in here with all that

see thats a PERFECT EXAMPLE!!!

when i finally did tell my sup because i wanted to change my name.. another sup told me he announced it at a MANAGEMENT meeting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i didn't cyare, but what the heck does my marriage have to do w/ any managment issues????????????????????? him a batty bwoy han jus luv fi chat!!!

[dillon 6]

I wouldn't change a thing about the day/the way we met each other, the chase (took him a good 6 months) before I even talked to him, our journey and ESPECIALLY my interview. I found something different in my husband that I didn't find in other men I've had relationships with, I found FRIENDSHIP along with laugther. We appreciate each other and we show it and we love to talk to each other. I asked him what he missed the most about Jamaica and he told me the smell of my hair and my BIG smile when I came through the doors at the airport....I just laughed.

that is so sweet.

[*JG* 2]

Try this again!

*doing backflips and cartwheels*......I KNEW IT IRIE!!!! I KNEW IT!!! I prayed SO hard for you! God is Good!!!!

Now that I would like to see. Did you tape it?

[LadyC 1]

In my case its a little diffrent. I am from Guyana so alot of the foods I cook is what he eats. I did not have to change anything along that line. I love my west indian foods so that is what I cook mostly but I swith it up sometimes. I got him hook on Pasta and salads.

[*JG* 2]

Not a happy camper today looks like I'm going to have to go to court about the guy that tried to rob me last month...

Of course you do.....you have to make sure he doesn't do that to anyone else, Tre.

[DedicatedWife 4]

I wouldn't change a thing about the day/the way we met each other, the chase (took him a good 6 months) before I even talked to him, our journey and ESPECIALLY my interview. I found something different in my husband that I didn't find in other men I've had relationships with, I found FRIENDSHIP along with laugther. We appreciate each other and we show it and we love to talk to each other. I asked him what he missed the most about Jamaica and he told me the smell of my hair and my BIG smile when I came through the doors at the airport....I just laughed.

[dancehallquana 5]

I don't think we create a mini Jamaica in our house but I do think it is important to have the things he likes to eat, listen too and read around. I wouldn't expect him to be here and not want to enjoy all the things that he grew up with. He already gave up so much just to come to the US. So if we can find those things I surely will make sure he has them.

i agree dills..sometimes i go w/out certain kinds of food like Taco Bell and he will suggest going there (for me only of course LOL) cuz he knows how much i like it even if he doesn't.. he gives as much as he takes..