Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

[LadyC 1]

My husband is the same way. Mich was asking the same question a few weeks ago. I don't know of anyone off hand. All the ones I know have all moved to ATL or FL. That's goood. I did the same to my husband the first time we went to NY -- he asked where we going, I said to the store, den he was like mi look like ediat it no tek dat lang fi reach di store. When we linked up with his friends in Queens they damn near lost their mind. We want to do Atlantic City this summer, if we have time. We have a voucher for Sandals Whitehouse that we need to use before the end of this year.

Times like this I miss NYC. I could get a cake easy and it wont cost me a arm and leg. I call this lady and she want $65 for a cake. She must have lost her mind.

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

is how dat smell?

mi nuh even waan know how you know how dat smell

like smadi weh no ave on no deodorant but 10 times woursarah

[DedicatedWife 4]

I would definitely do it all over again. I love me some Damien . I wouldn't change the K1 process, being broke, explaining the same thing 100 times...etc.

Now I regret not having the wedding I wanted but it's all good.

Awww Shemmy that is too sweet! It's never too late Mama!

[LadyC 1]

Even dutty Golden Krust want $55....KissssssssTeeth

[dillon 6]

As with all of us, transition can be hard.

In regards to BM drama, don't make it discourage you one bit!!!! Life actually will be better off for the child as the father is able to find work & contribute to raising of the child again. If you see where BM want to hype up herself on the phone, hang up after a few choice words or tell her to EASY!!!!!!!

VJ family is here to give input & comfort when needed.

Best of luck on journey

I agree don't let it stress you...just you all watch and see and you all can say I said it first. They call you 10x a day asking for money for this and money for that but once the child comes and lives with you....they don't send a DIME for their CHILD!!!!! I don't let it stress me...what goes around comes around.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

have any of you guys ever blasted off your husbands/fiances when they make requests? i'm just wondering

it's based on a request i saw on facebook this weekend and i just thought if i were in that person's shoes i would tell my husband get your a$$ the eff outta here with that $hit (in my best yankee voice of course, lol)

it's a serious question though

[LadyC 1]

Sounds great. Have fun in AC and good luck findng a cake. Wish I could help but Damien loves a good chocolate cake.

Thanks Shemmy

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Even dutty Golden Krust want $55....KissssssssTeeth

if it's a fruit cake that ish is not gonna taste good

we should live near by so my mother could whip up a fruit cake

would he want a pudding? (bread, potato, cornmeal, etc?)

[DedicatedWife 4]

I would definitely do everything all over again. I feel like when God has made someone specifically for you, you should go any length to be with them. When I was dating people would think that I was crazy because I would pass over some awesome men. The problem is that there was always something missing. Being a wife is the ultimate calling (assignment) by God so I refuse to settle with someone because the road seems easier or to gain approval from friends/family.

True...I had some men that I like to call..."Good on Paper" men...everything checked off on the list but like you said...something just was missing! When I met Den, nothing was missing...I didn't feel like I settled at all but that he was so much more then this mental list that I had in mind...so thankful I just was quiet and listened to God.

[DedicatedWife 4]

Lawny G 30th B-day is on Wednesday and I need a cake for him. He does not like "american cake" where can I get him a cake. Im going to surprise him with a small get together on wednesday. Nothing big me and my girls are working on it. Im taking him to Atlantic City on Saturday and he has no idea. Im packing his bag and putting it in the car and I will just drive to the 95. When he ask im going to tell him we are going to a mall in NJ so when we pull up to the hotel he will be surprise.

Alright G bout to be in dem dirty 30's!!! LadyC, you're such a good wifey!

have any of you guys ever blasted off your husbands/fiances when they make requests? i'm just wondering

it's based on a request i saw on facebook this weekend and i just thought if i were in that person's shoes i would tell my husband get your a$$ the eff outta here with that $hit (in my best yankee voice of course, lol)

it's a serious question though

Hmmm, what kind of requests?

[finesse 3]

Even dutty Golden Krust want $55....KissssssssTeeth

oonu should go into business..

[dancehallquana 5]

well i would DEFINATELY get married again.. this is my second and like i told my ex, i will be Elizabeth Taylor in this mug.. i was created to be somebody's wife.. LOL.. i am very good at it if i do say so myself heehee

now as far as a LDR again, i dunno.. Roger was VERY different in that he had lived in the US before.. i believe that helped IMMENSELY with the adjustment PLUS by the time i figured out i was finally ready to file, he was already here, so i didn't have it as bad some of you guys with the waiting..

i can't say that i will ever be able to say no to where it seems my life is being led to tho

[Shemmy 4]

Awww Shemmy that is too sweet! It's never too late Mama!

No worries...we're planning a big celebration in JA 1/7/12 on our 7th anniversary...just not sure if we're going to renew our vows or just have an anniversary...either way...it's going to be nice.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Alright G bout to be in dem dirty 30's!!! LadyC, you're such a good wifey!

Hmmm, what kind of requests?

in terms of his likes and dislikes with respect to entertainment etc

[DedicatedWife 4]

Very good question. I definitely would do it over. I really do love Acory & he proffesses his love to me in more than one way.(I read Steve Harvey book). As Nat stated, I would have taken less trips & saved money.

I do admit, it gets trying @ times, but I'm confident it will work. Communication is key!!

Amen to that...communication is key!