Want to get a divorce/annulment and need your help!

[Sandy Bee 6]

I am thinking of making an appointment with a Immigration officer to seek advice. Do you ll think this would be sufficient?

I Don't really think her mother being mentally ill, really constitutes for a divorce.. I mean, Am I wrong? If she (your wife) was mentally ill, then that is a different situation. That is grounds for annullment. But You are not in the relationship with her mother, you are in the relationship with her. My brother is mentally ill, does that mean I have to disclose that to every potential suitor, and they have grounds for divorce if I dont?

I definitley wouldn't use that as a ploy. And if she already had her GC, I dont believe there is anything you can do to get it taken away until her status is up(Usually one or two years conditional), unless its a ten year GC, then whats the point. You might as well try to move on. Anyway, I have been overthinking my relationship, and I think it might not be working out, so I feel you. Good luck

[Martesa 0]

Ramses....Excume my English is not sooo good. I have a Conditional Green Card. I found many wrongs things about his behavior, i have many proofs. So, he said to me ..."give me the evidence or I will get the divorce". I had no choice. I got a lawyer to defend me. You can not do anything with her GC. Besides, one thing is Inmigration and other Civil matters. I can remove my conditions alone after mi divorce without waiting for the 90 dias before my GC expires. For inmigration I have lots of evidence about my marriage was in a good faith and it was. When he started our divorce he cut everthing, cell, home phone, food, computer, tv, heat, etc. etc. When the marriage has been for less than a year there is no obligation for alimony in this state and you no need a reason to get the divorce.

He is and will be responsabli for me if something happen to me even if we are married with other people. Of course, i won't ask for for any economical help from him, but i can do that with the government and he would have to pay, which is no good for us, the immigrant ( I never work because he did not permit me to do that. Now I am getting my driving license, a job...).

I transcribe the rulers obout I-864 Affidavit of Support you signed:

"HOW LONG DOES MY OBLIGATION AS A SPONSOR CONTINUE ?

Your obligation to support the immigrant(s) you are sponsoring in this affidavit of suport will continue until the sponsored immigrant becomes a U.S. citizen, or can be credited with 40 qualifying quarters of work in the United States.

Although 40 qualifying quarters of work (credits) generally equate to ten years of work, in certain cases the work of a spouse or parent adds qualifying quarters. The Social Security Administration can provide information on how to count qualifying quarters (credits) of work.

the obligation also ends if you or the sponsored immigrant dies or if the sponsored immigrant ceases to be a lawful permanent resident and departs the United States. Divorce does not end the sponsorship obligation."

Try to agree with her and go to the Court. In that way you no need a lawyer here, I do not know in CA . Mi ex paid around US$1.600 and I US$1000 and it tooks 3.5 months.

Have a good Lock.