Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

bunzy i saw the end of the ray j reunion..

i thought ray j was being such a punk calling cocktail all kinds of "b"'s and stuff and running off stage like he on maury.. and then ms berry trying to protect him like a dummy after he ain't seen a rass in 5 mnths.. SHAME!!

a grown a$$ woman has got to have some serious self esteem issues if she's gonna allow a young bway to embarrass her like that on tv and still jump to his defense

AND she has kids! i feel sorry for her

[DedicatedWife 4]

Hi Dens!!! Haven't seen you in awhile. How is everything? Are you ready for this weekend?

Hi Lady! Yes, I been lurking around on here every now and again All is well...just adjusting to Den being here. We're both so ready for this weekend...next week this time I will be Mrs. Douglas

So how are things going with you guys?

[*JG* 2]

Just a tad eh? lol... Im glad.. no you don't have to tell me. I just hope you get her! How long has this been going on?

PM me if you want to hear the things she has done to me and said about me and you can judge if I am hateful or not. I've been putting up with it since December of 2008. I am patient and when you hear, you will see I have not been hateful at all.

[DedicatedWife 4]

a grown a$$ woman has got to have some serious self esteem issues if she's gonna allow a young bway to embarrass her like that on tv and still jump to his defense

AND she has kids! i feel sorry for her

Any of them that go on there gots to have self-esteem issues! Poe thangs....

[dancehallquana 5]

a grown a$$ woman has got to have some serious self esteem issues if she's gonna allow a young bway to embarrass her like that on tv and still jump to his defense

AND she has kids! i feel sorry for her

yeah it was SAD.. just SAD..

she is a beautiful girl.. but sometimes those are the ones that are the most intimidated..

i am a traditional southern woman, but there is no way i would have "stood by my man" in that situation..

if anything he should have been EXPLAINING to her and not ARGUING with cocktail..

that just proves his guilt cuz why else he get so mad and walk out.. dumb rass!!!

i can't stand ray j anyway.. he think he is a playa and the women that want him all have issues, so how good of a catch are you hun??

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[phillyfashionista 8]

Mini observation:

I have a friend here at work who works in another department for another agency across the hall from me. She spends the majority of her days organizing cake parties, potlucks & other random stuff that isn't work-related. Well, it is but it isn't *working*. She also spends WAY too much time going from desk to desk & office to office distracting/ annoying/ pestering other people who are trying to get some work done. I believe she thinks it's schmoozing & might help her advance. Her usual work attire consists of tight jeans, 5" heels & blouses that are usually a bit too tight & sometimes her belly hangs out of the bottom. Honest to goodness, I can't recall the last time she has ever worked a full 5 day work week in the years I've known her here. She's either out sick or has some other reason for not being here & I'm certain she doesn't truthfully report her time because there's no way she could earn enough leave to cover all the time she is out & especially at the rate she uses it.

Today she comes in lamenting about the fact that she's been passed over for yet another promotion to supervisor. I want to tell her that you have to have good attendance (for one) & be present at work to be a supervisor. You have to be available to your staff. It really has not occurred to her. It seems it has to whoever does the hiring though. She may not be getting caught for all her time off, but they are obviously aware of it since she can't land a promotion.

don't you work for the govt why is she coming to work with Jeans and a belly shirt, so basically she does nothing huh??? Well like Tee said she got what she deserved NOTHING!!!!! hot mess

Positive Vibes to Kjenkins, TAMH, AMQUEENS, my2's mother-in-law....

Side note: Philly Blind Kingdom sucked lol

LOL Tee I have never seen that one girl to send you a list

Girl you are a damn HOT MESS...but it sounds like you found your match!!!!!

So, I was in the midst of taking my midterm and I see my phone light up that I just received an email....that is not unusual because as we all know..junk mail comes all times day and night (it was 8:30pm) but I noticed it wasn't from my regular mailbox but the "special married one" I set up for this process mrmrsreid@gmail.com.....check it out....................

*** DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS E-MAIL ***

The last processing action taken on your case

Receipt Number: WAC100*********

Application Type: I130 , IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN

Current Status: Approval notice sent.

On February 8, 2010, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I130 IMMIGRANT PETITION FOR RELATIVE, FIANCE(E), OR ORPHAN. Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283.

WHOOOOOO HOOOOOOO !!!!!!

Jamerican yes you are so right we are 2 peas in a pod!

Congrats again Sis you are halfway there!

Good morning yardies!!

Philly- I can just imagine the laughing fit you and hubby had. Then once you start laughing you can't stop. Good thing you practiced. I thought both of what you were saying sounded so nice.

B, I have no idea how we gonna get through he vows we were laughing again this morning we are so silly

[*JG* 2]

None in pa.. but let me play around with google and see what I come up with

We have a small scrapbook store here that does the same thing. Every weekend and certain week days they have classes.

My daughter and I went on a scrapbook tour a few times. It was so much fun. A full day of fun. For $40 we got on a bus at our scrapbook store and went to 5 other small stores. They offered 2 free projects at every store, plus discounts at every store. On the bus, we had a box lunch, water and soda. We played all these fun games. My daughter won for being the youngest on each tour. They used chalk to divide the tires and we put our names on a spot. At each stop, if your name was on the top of the tire, you won a prize.

We had the best times.

her time will come jg.. the wicked can THINK that they are getting away with their phockery, but in DUE TIME we will be exalted..

at least you are better than me and keep record of things, so pay day will be dear..

isn't it a mess when you constantly turn the other cheek and ppl still keep up the mess?? like you say, they bring about their own destruction when they could have fell back..

I said over a year ago, she is digging her own hole and I am not even able to stop it if I wanted to. The evidence is overwhelming. She will be surprised for sure.

[DedicatedWife 4]

DensWifey!!! i meant to ask you to ask Mr Dens if his "big brown envelope" had a opening that allowed him to see everything inside it

I remember he told me that it had a little opening in it.

[dancehallquana 5]

We have a small scrapbook store here that does the same thing. Every weekend and certain week days they have classes.

My daughter and I went on a scrapbook tour a few times. It was so much fun. A full day of fun. For $40 we got on a bus at our scrapbook store and went to 5 other small stores. They offered 2 free projects at every store, plus discounts at every store. On the bus, we had a box lunch, water and soda. We played all these fun games. My daughter won for being the youngest on each tour. They used chalk to divide the tires and we put our names on a spot. At each stop, if your name was on the top of the tire, you won a prize.

We had the best times.

that does sound fun!!

[*JG* 2]

Hey T.......if you are such a good writer, maybe you should....um....start a Stella-like thread for us!!!!!

[TAMH 2]

No it doesn't sound strange at all. You are allowing him to be his own man by not being everything for him.

It's fine TAMH...pt. 2 isn't needed until much later down the road. You only need part 1 for now so they took exactly what they needed.

Phew! sigh of relieve Thanks Ells

[DedicatedWife 4]

yeah it was SAD.. just SAD..

she is a beautiful girl.. but sometimes those are the ones that are the most intimidated..

i am a traditional southern woman, but there is no way i would have "stood by my man" in that situation..

if anything he should have been EXPLAINING to her and not ARGUING with cocktail..

that just proves his guilt cuz why else he get so mad and walk out.. dumb rass!!!

i can't stand ray j anyway.. he think he is a playa and the women that want him all have issues, so how good of a catch are you hun??

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Yep they all busted and nasty...I mean how you gon be kissing him all in the mouf after he been kissing all the other girls...yuck. These groupies gon learn...

[dancehallquana 5]

Hey T.......if you are such a good writer, maybe you should....um....start a Stella-like thread for us!!!!!

omg jg.. get outta my head.. i was just thinking wasn't someone supposed to begin writing something based on the yardie relationships.. was it ryon4life????

[*JG* 2]

that does sound fun!!

It was something different to do, you know? And, hell, if I can get a little girl interested in something creative, I am all about it. She's 14 now and still talks about when are we going to go on another tour.

I took her on a couple road trips to see my favorite bands too. I'm not like any of her friend's moms.

[DedicatedWife 4]

I have a question. The consular officer did not take tthe DS230 Part 2 from me so I still have it in my possession. Do you think I should send them an e-mail informing them of this, or should I just leave it be.

Has anyone else ever had this experience, and if so, what did you do?

If I remember correctly, on the day of our interview right there at the window...they had Den fill in some info regarding me and had him sign...if I'm not mistaken that was the DS230 Part 2! Somebody correct me if I'm wrong.