Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)

[MRStee 19]

Ok Yardies I need to rant real quick!!!!!

I'm just trying to figure out when did the branch of "Bank of Ash" open up in the U.S. cause I have had two different friends call me and ask to borrow money...knowing that Den is just getting here and not going to be able to work for a while! One of them I loaned it to her as we go back to like middle school...she promised to pay me back like a week later...that was almost two months ago and still no money!

I mean I understand, that it can happen to anyone we all can fall short but dang why I always have to be Captain save a Ho!!!! Should I feel bad for saying no ? I mean its not just about me anymore...I will be married in 6 days and the thing that burns me up is that one of these friends in particular was the same one talking about don't let Den use me and this and that and damn here she go with the poe mouf and her hand out...

People let's be more responsible with our money...ughhhhhh!

I feel you on that MrsTee!

Nah sis, you definitely aint capt save a hoe! Next tell them let me discuss it with my HUSBAND... if that don't do it, after you say let me discuss it with my husband.. you can say at this time my HUSBAND and I don't have it and sashay.......... walk a way!!! hahahaha

Don't get upset.. your day is coming and you don't want any wrinkle lines from being upset... Ask Den's for a massage and make it all better!

[1luv 1]

Interview March 12 at 8:30am!!

CONGRATS GIRL! ITS A LONG TIME COMING

[DedicatedWife 4]

Dens now is when you will really know who your real freinds are

I see that more and more!

Nah sis, you definitely aint capt save a hoe! Next tell them let me discuss it with my HUSBAND... if that don't do it, after you say let me discuss it with my husband.. you can say at this time my HUSBAND and I don't have it and sashay.......... walk a way!!! hahahaha

Don't get upset.. your day is coming and you don't want any wrinkle lines from being upset... Ask Den's for a massage and make it all better!

Ya, so true! I came in late to work but will definitely be leaving on time today to get home to my lil' chocolate!

[TAMH 2]

Well the vaccination is actually the DS-3025 which is part of the I-693. The I-693 is actually a full medical report from the civil surgeon stating shots are complete and they gave you a medical.. but there are so many conflicting things going on with it. Some CS will just transcribe it for you and some require you do a full medical over again even if you had it done before coming to the US... However USCIS clearly states if you had your medical done within 1 year of coming to the states you don't need to take it again.. but folks are being RFE'd left and right for not having the full medical done again. Your medical should be in the mysterious brown envelope they give you but there have been talks about them being lost/misplaced etc.... so some of us are taking a risk without having the medical done over again and only getting shots that are needed. Steve didn't need any shots and they transcribed it for us for $35.00. They gave us a sealed envelope and its pretty thick so my guess is our civil surgeon filled out the rest of the paperwork properly too.. The only thing they gave us a copy of was the actual complete vaccination record where they ticked off his shots were complete...

OH ok. Thanks MRStee.

[DedicatedWife 4]

CONGRATS GIRL! ITS A LONG TIME COMING

Hi 1luv, how was your weekend?

[phillyfashionista 8]

Thanks Philly and everyone, she will always be in my heart, Guardian angel for real.

Somebody please catch me up, I have never asked for an update but I need one.

BRB

Going into a meeting for 1 hour.

Hook me up PLEASE....................

Dada is usually the scribe but she deh pon hiatus and Den's same way so I nominate Tee

I just had some good news. I should receive my marriage certificate in a week. Now I can file AOS. Everything else is on ready set go

That's what's up TEE

Good morning Yardies! I need to go back and catch up with what's happening with everybody.

Den and I went to apply for our marriage license this morning...so that's a wrap. We just ready for this Sunday to say "I do"!

Dens I am so happy for you Sis wow the day we have all been waiting for is finally approaching

LOL! Yes I'm very anxious and so ready!!!! I just love him so...we had a real deal talk on Saturday night when we were returning home from dinner and we talked about our expectations of marriage and what we expect from each other and it was just very open and honest! It was very deep! I'm going to try to not cry too much on Sunday!

Don't you love the real deal talks, but I always say no matter what its all about communication is the key and talking about it together makes a world of difference and can get you through anything~

I have to be honest, Steve and I didn't write our own vows but the Rev. allowed us to say "first words" to each other as husband and wife... We did cheat and got them off the internet but boy were they honest and truthful feelings. The Rev. was so touched she almost cried. I however, was able to fight the tears because I had two shots of coconut rum before I left the house and one before I got out of the car I was right as rain, ready to do cartwheels down the aisle if I had too! Then Steve capped it off by asking early on if he could kiss me before the part even came up.. had everyone laughing, not to mention even in my lil heels I still had to reach waaaaaaaaaaaaay up to kiss him.... That's why I love him so!

Wait Tee why is this a heartfelt post but you got me rolling bout the coconut rum

[1luv 1]

Hi 1luv, how was your weekend?

It was good but not as good as urs

I was rollin when u told JQ that u had to drop it like rent is due. U too hilarious

[dillon 6]

Interview March 12 at 8:30am!!

Congrats MsSheka! I know you are so happy right now, so happy for you!

[TAMH 2]

Interview March 12 at 8:30am!!

CONGRATULATIONS! MsSheka

[kjenkins86 5]

KJ no you didn't over react IMO the LDR is expensive enough without unforseen additions. I totally understand that extra 500 per day can surely add up especially when its not in your budget. I hope you are able to work it out and find a cheaper rental, when he gets here he will definitely understand the value of a dolla and how you need to make in holla in this economy.

Hey Tee I really enjoyed this one especially this one actor who cracks me up,we have 4 left I am about to pop one in now its about a woman in a wheelchair and some Phockery with a woman trying to steal her Man I am sure there is a twist to it!

See if they have Love lies and Lust on that site, that is my favorite movie by far we was both hooping and hollaring in here watching that one unfold.....

He will learn and trust me I have a plan up my sleeve to make him learn the hard way

Since he got all that moth talkin' bout "it's only 500 more"

Good Morning ladies! Hope y'all had a great weekend. Well I'm just hours away from getting that approval, I'm super excited

KJ: Try not to stress too much and pull ur hair out , just take a deep breathe and try to figure out how ur gonna Budget for the extras. It's your moment girl don't let anything ruin it.

Girl I'm trying not to let my moment be ruined!

Anyhow, tomorrow is your day, I'm gonna texyt you as soon as I land. Good luck!

I just had some good news. I should receive my marriage certificate in a week. Now I can file AOS. Everything else is on ready set go

Great

Good morning Yardies! I need to go back and catch up with what's happening with everybody.

Den and I went to apply for our marriage license this morning...so that's a wrap. We just ready for this Sunday to say "I do"!

JQ, you've been on my mind Mama! I pray you and your family are healing and using this time to love more and get even closer! Hugs from me to you!

Oh nice, I wish you all the best girl

KJenkins: You all pack and ready girl? While ur in the air I'll be getting that approval

Of course I'm ready, just waiting for the time to come so I can leave. Already checked in online

Hi Mama, you have every right to be upset but please don't stay mad...trust me I know about making "dem dollars holla"...this process has made my head spin around at least three or four times...just breathe and see where you can make it happen or better yet...like I love to tell Den...you better figure it out...tell him to figure it out...funny they always seem to find a way!

Oh he will figure it out! Talkin' bout he forgot

are we talking jamaican dollars here? because that difference is really just about $5

but then i supposed it depends on how many days you renting it for

i am inclined to say you may have overreacted, but then you said you emphasized to him how much money its costing you and he still neglected that detail

so i can kinda understand

Bunz, you know what I could do with $5 X 8=$40? Alot on my end!

[*JG* 2]

I did it....I signed us up for V-day brunch!

We have special nights at our zoo....during October they had Halloween stuff, over Christmas, and during the summer they have music and food. They are a lot of fun, especially in that setting.

[kjenkins86 5]

Interview March 12 at 8:30am!!

Congrats

[*JG* 2]

Philly .... I bought some of that breadfruit in a can.... HOLY GROSS BATMAN!!! It was deeeescusting!!!!

I agree with that one. It was Nasty!

We got double notices indicating different dates for our greencard production.

Yeah, the V-day zoo event is something I've always wanted to do & now I finally have someone to do it with. He loves the zoo & always wants to go on the first Wednesday of the month when it's free to SF residents but hasn't been able to. We went back in July & he keeps talking about wanting to go again. So, this is as much for me as it is for him!

Oh man, you guys pay for your zoo? Reason #5,875 why I love living in St. Louis.

[kjenkins86 5]

i'm good

saturday was the hardest goodbye ever

but i'm good now

You'll see him soon and this time you know that for a fact

[kjenkins86 5]

Ok Yardies I need to rant real quick!!!!!

I'm just trying to figure out when did the branch of "Bank of Ash" open up in the U.S. cause I have had two different friends call me and ask to borrow money...knowing that Den is just getting here and not going to be able to work for a while! One of them I loaned it to her as we go back to like middle school...she promised to pay me back like a week later...that was almost two months ago and still no money!

I mean I understand, that it can happen to anyone we all can fall short but dang why I always have to be Captain save a Ho!!!! Should I feel bad for saying no ? I mean its not just about me anymore...I will be married in 6 days and the thing that burns me up is that one of these friends in particular was the same one talking about don't let Den use me and this and that and damn here she go with the poe mouf and her hand out...

People let's be more responsible with our money...ughhhhhh!

I feel you on that MrsTee!

Oh wow. Keep your money girl coz next thing when you're in need of money they gon' say no coz you want it to support Den. Keep yuh money fi u an yuh man